BonPatrick:



“My husband is doing nothing yet, he just sits at home and maybe go pick the kids from school and all, so yesterday I had lots of customers in the shop, I was doing everything by myself, so as soon as my husband walked in, I asked him to help me rush to wash a few plates while I serve, and he looked at me in some strange way, I repeated myself and he slapped me in public, and walked out.

kennylesy122:
I would slaps you again..... you have customers and you say your husband to wash the plate what are you try to insinuating?? Gradually you turn him to ur staff atleast give respect a chance if you do respect him enough you won’t dare say that you embarrassed and disrespected him Public you deserve to Hot slap

Galaxydon1:
I don't see anything wrong if the Man watches plate. It's lack of understanding, so if it was the Man that runs The business won't he dish out plates for his customers. Since it's a family business i don't see anything wrong with it.

wirinet:

She did not have a husband, but the man opened a restaurant for her and still goes there to assist or keep her company when he became unemployed. Abi, he became less than a husband because he lost his job?

When You marry shout out load twice that he should wash the plates in public and see if you will have a husband.

bepositive11:


If you truly think that prosperity and success have nothing to do with humility, I have nothing more to say to you.

Pride is one of man's greatest weakness. Too much pride to be precise. Pride is not necessarily a bad thing as long as it's at a healthy level. Her husband has too much pride.

SegFault:

Real men burnt down Troy a fictional story is what you are calling fact. Nigeria has one of the highest populations of morons. Overworked and underpaid workers built pyramids and please how is the birth of America a good thing when lands were stolen from unsuspecting folk. Lastly how the Bleep does the nonsense you wrote relate with the topic or the opinion of who you quoted.

Galaxydon1:
I don't see anything wrong if the Man watches plate. It's lack of understanding, so if it was the Man that runs The business won't he dish out plates for his customers. Since it's a family business i don't see anything wrong with it.

DaCharis2016:
What's totally bad? Considering the pressure on her she mentioned. I think her asking for her husband's help was justified.

Margy:
The man is stupid!

I have seen husband and wife running a business together..and guess what ..it's booming.

Just in front of my yard.. a woman owns a retail shop..the husband stocked it up..the next thing I saw was the husband helping in the sales in the shop..the shop is growing

Another man helps his wife in the restaurant..she does the cooking and the man takes orders, serves the customers and helps out.where necessary...customers keep flowing san-san into the restaurant..

There's a program called restaurant impossible aired on food network.. I see a lot of husband and wife and children running their restaurants.

All I can say is that this man will die a wretched poor man..proud grasshopper with no shi-shi.. yeyee dey smell

larryjonze:





If you TRUELY respect ur husband in the 1st place you won't even wish him to wash plate or sweep the floor talkless of outside.
Lets imagine the man had come down from is SUV on a starched native/shirt with mess wey choke ... can that woman try that nonsense. naa see finish cause am.
As a woman if the crown of your head (ade ori) can be washing plate outside then such woman is shameless & deserves no respect from bachelors in that area.

MOVIC6:
People like you will see yout woman changing babes diaper and still want her to come dish your food out, people like you will see your woman doing yout laundry still expect the woman to do they children’s homework, people like will see that the woman is tired from work and still want to climb her, people like you don’t deserve marriage, you better go be a priest where you can expect much respect.
Oga you are not yet matured enough yo give advice in marriage.
Jus go and sit down.
Marriage is not jus respect or pride, is not about the man but the both of you. If your experience is ur idea, I reject it many times and over.
Rest this case please

Zeeknow3245:

Oga did you read the write up at all? She didn't employ. She asked for help for him to dishes.
Which department? He used the money to open a business which is commendable but Oga things are not the way they are. Oga drop this your pride . When you will move abroad you go know say this mentality stinks.
Men wash dishes, men drop kids, men take out the trash,men do groceries, men do Laundries and men cook same with women. Do you know how many leaked pictures about David Cameron have been leaked with him cooking and even Washing?
Things are hard and you shouldn't make it harder. He refused to even get menial jobs so as to feed his family. Oga you shouldn't hear people's stories ooo. There's a man who was living in my area, he lost his job because we all knew he worked. So he started helping his wife wash,cook and keep records if his wife isn't around . We dey help am dish food for small pay if his wife wasn't around.His kids were little then. His wife does same exactly same. They've apportioned delegations to each other. If the man washes and cook for 2 days,the woman cooks the rest 4 days. From there he focused on keeping records and accounts before he later got a job. The wife was bad mouthed but still gives him respect too. But as long money go drop and everybody wins,no wahala. Life can never remain like that. His wife still runs it with other workers. FUNNILY the man is Igbo
The truth is Until you know your problem you can't solve anything

Masterito:
You are clown who lack the ability to understand common sentence. How had is it for you to understand that mutual respect is important. Manner of approach matters. You don't welcome your wife or husband who visited by send him to wash olate in oublic. How about asking about his wellbeing quickly and telling him quietly to assist with dishes? Obviously you sound like a single man. Maybe when you get married you will understand.

druxlazu:
You wanna know why black people are called Niggas.

They did nothing Noble for this world but they have the highest pride than any other people in the world. Bunch of arrogant niggars.

Your husband is a nigga and a nigga is a terrible soul.

Microwhy:

Women don't know how frustraring and mental draining it is for a man that has been the breadwinner to becoming a dependant.
Its extremely difficult for anybody who has not been in that shoe before to understand. Find any means to say a sincere sorry to your husband, even if na to carry toto go meet am for im friend place, just do it.

MOVIC6:
Was that they real reason they were called nigger...

Galaxydon1:
I don't see anything wrong if the Man watches plate. It's lack of understanding, so if it was the Man that runs The business won't he dish out plates for his customers. Since it's a family business i don't see anything wrong with it.

MOVIC6:
Jus get out, you are a kid, I can see you haven’t been reading in between lines, no need blabbering with kids..

Bekeey:


You are right but depends on the kind mood and voice she used. Because I believe she didn't asked him with a polite and manner voice. I wasn't there but that's what just happened

Hardgun:
That's very bad telling your husband to wash plate

yassjib:
You are a fool for telling your husband to wash plate in your restaurant just because he soea not have a job.. Instead of you discussing it with him at home. I swear if I am your husband I will do more than that slap. That's how you women will gradually turn you husband to a alive... Its very bad of you

MOVIC6:
This one na children. So you dey drive suv and ur wife dey sell mama put, you no dey shame..?
Suv jam u therr..