Have you ever been in a situation where you're single and refuse going into a relationship because you feel you have some set goals to achieve first? Like you feel I really need some certain things first and because of this reason, these people asking you out starts seeing you as being self-centered and wicked.

I'll start with mine, I refused dating anyone for now because I feel I need to attain some level of financial stability and develop some other aspects of my life before going into one......so I can love my partner the best way there is to love. These reasons I've given to the people asking me out in the most clearest way possible but they don't seem to get the point, that was how one called me selfish and said I'm undeserving of his love, another said I'm choosing my career over him that I shouldn't worry, time would tell.........see me see wahala o

Please share yours.

it might be a good choice for you and a terrible for someone not in your imagination

But shey u deh Bleep? because sex and relationship are two different things

Lilpen3758:
But shey u deh Bleep? because sex and relationship are two different things

I don't plus I know they're two different things.

Mabella18:


I don't plus I know they're two different things.

Why don't u Bleep around since you are not in a relationship and don't want be in a relationship?
I thought that was the whole point of not being in a relationship

Comment readers association. Mosdii over to you

Lilpen3758:
Why don't u Bleep around since you are not in a relationship and don't want be in a relationship?
I thought that was the whole point of not being in a relationship

Not everyone thinks that way.....personality differs you know

cokeryusuf09:
it might be a good choice for you and a terrible for someone not in your imagination

I agree with you......that's why you should go after someone whose goals are in line with yours.

Mabella18:


Not everyone thinks that way.....personality differs you know

I just feel like you are not enjoying life to the fullest.........sorry

Lilpen3758:
I just feel like you are not enjoying life to the fullest.........sorry

so person having sex outside marriage dey enjoy life to the fullest?

fati2001:


so person having sex outside marriage dey enjoy life to the fullest?

as if you no dey Bleep
Tell her the truth joor

Lilpen3758:
as if you no dey Bleep
Tell her the truth joor

me and you no dy the same shoe!

I no dy fuvk if you dy fuvk..

that's why many of you are in relationship [because of sex ]

fati2001:


me and you no dy the same shoe!

I no dy fuvk if you dy fuvk..

that's why many of you are in relationship [because of sex ]

so nobody dey Bleep for nairaland now?
I don hear una

Lilpen3758:
so nobody dey Bleep for nairaland now? I don hear una

believe what you want to.
I can't beat you for that.

fati2001:


believe what you want to.

I can't beat you for that.

are you happy with your life?

Lilpen3758:
are you happy with your life?

why not?

fati2001:


why not?

then am also happy for you my friend
Do what makes you happy.....

Mabella18:
Have you ever been in a situation where you're single and refuse going into a relationship because you feel you have some set goals to achieve first? Like you feel I really need some certain things first and because of this reason, these people asking you out starts seeing you as being self-centered and wicked.

I'll start with mine, I refused dating anyone for now because I feel I need to attain some level of financial stability and develop some other aspects of my life before going into one......so I can love my partner the best way there is to love. These reasons I've given to the people asking me out in the most clearest way possible but they don't seem to get the point, that was how one called me selfish and said I'm undeserving of his love, another said I'm choosing my career over him that I shouldn't worry, time would tell.........see me see wahala o

Please share yours.

I made a similar choice for two years...but now that I'm ready, the people I would have chosen are all married, it is difficult to find a good woman now.

Skyfornia:


I made a similar choice for two years...but now that I'm ready, the people I would have chosen are all married, it is difficult to find a good woman now.

Don't worry.....a good woman will come and she'll be the right one for you.

This thread though. Fati and that songwriter doing the most

Mabella18:


Don't worry.....a good woman will come and she'll be the right one for you.

Thanks but for how long should I wait?

For I see someone like me... Aww....buh d only problem I av is my friends tends to think am a lesbian....in BTW am jst 18....nd my friends started dating 5years ago. . .I use to think something is wrong with me sef

Skyfornia:

Thanks but for how long should I wait?

as long as you can.
that time when good women were flocking around you, what were you doing?
probably a play boy. [THINKING THEY ARE MANY FISHES IN THE SEA ]

Mabella18:


I don't plus I know they're two different things.

You don't?

Maybe you're frigid

I can help you solve that problem

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!