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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by airminem(f): 2:31pm On Jun 07
Babara1994:

Please dear. I need 2k
Mrscarter said if she has she would have been able to help but she do not have... Well i can help you. Open you leg! Take this!!

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by theForth: 2:32pm On Jun 07
BRATISLAVA:
Dependent men will come here crying for women to give them money. Yet they don't want dependent women. Shortly, they will talk about being men.

The hypocrisy of men is never surprising.
Do you have anything positive to say about men?

Always creating ground for gender wars, abeg rest!!

Haba.

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by dairykidd(m): 2:37pm On Jun 07
AstroG:
Wife-Yes but Girlfriend;No(to avoid see finish)
Lol.. bro nothing like see finish here. Except u stingy to her when ur hands soft. Even till 2mrw I get ex when dey help out if I no get option and na once i dey credit her once she ask even though we no dey fvck again. Na hand u take follow them dey go use follow u.. Nothing like see finish oo cheesy
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by MejiLoyon(m): 2:41pm On Jun 07
Very shameful

And I'm guilty of it.

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by cridbak(m): 2:41pm On Jun 07
frozen70:


Life is give and take

There is nothing wrong in asking of money from your wife or girlfriend, in as much as your are not in a habitual demand

Women gives to a man fir a purpose unlike men that gives without reservations


When a woman is assisting you financially, she is expecting you to respect yourself, once you Bleep up, she will give you full details and date of the money you collected from her

Lol
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Asianjollof007: 2:43pm On Jun 07
Why not? If i can save your life with urgent "2K", you should be able to help me when i need help too.
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by frozen70(f): 2:49pm On Jun 07
cridbak:


Lol
You must have been tickled after reading this
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by oochi123(f): 2:50pm On Jun 07
Sure..
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Asianjollof007: 2:56pm On Jun 07
Ritzybeauty:
Why not, it's not a bad thing but it shouldn't get out of hand to avoid disrespect

Are you on twitter?
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by yahmohy27: 3:01pm On Jun 07
OlayemiAshraf:
Should a man ask for money from his girlfriend or wife

I actually ask for money from my girlfriend with my chest out and I don't feel ashamed... Even when I don't have money for meal, she pays for it without even abusing me ... When she needs money and I have, I don't hesitate to give her ... Actually we elevate by helping each other .....

I've been hearing from some women saying that "a man that asks for money from his girlfriend is a red flag".

Nairalanders, is that true
YOU SHLD BE ABLE TO ANS THE QTN NA ARE YOU A RED FLAG
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Yrey: 3:01pm On Jun 07
Nor ne senior kill papa oh. If junior get make him bury him papa
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by sapphiere(f): 3:03pm On Jun 07
nedzuby:

Is there any place they wrote it?

Relationship is a 2 way thing. The 2 people are meant to help each other.women asking men for money does not make them less a woman so why should it make a Man less a man?
Woman is helping a man by taking care of the house. Don't be greedy
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by jeff1607(m): 3:03pm On Jun 07
If a man holds or save money against rainy days he is termed “stingy” if he decides to borrow from his partner after spending money on what benefits them he is called all sorts of demeaning names.

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by 0taPiaPia(m): 3:12pm On Jun 07
Vision101:
You want to chop double abi? Chop her money and chop her vmobile. When you are comfortable you will start asking her of what she is bringing to the table.

@ bolded. grin grin grin grin

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by DEMZEE(m): 3:15pm On Jun 07
Only a weak ass beta male simp wud make his woman his financial backup plan
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by DEMZEE(m): 3:18pm On Jun 07
BRATISLAVA:
Dependent men will come here crying for women to give them money. Yet they don't want dependent women. Shortly, they will talk about being men.

The hypocrisy of men is never surprising.

U are very right
Some men are fucking feminine and don't wanna live up-to their masculine burden of performance
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by DEMZEE(m): 3:19pm On Jun 07
extralargehead:
OP na waah for you ooo, so na only my own we go dey chop?.
If she no wan contribute to build the relationship, may God put asunder for the case!!!

Women don't build, they move in especially in this 21st century
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Yusufdachung: 3:19pm On Jun 07
Do you mean female genders don't have money or what is the meaning of such kind of question
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by BRATISLAVA: 3:31pm On Jun 07
theForth:

Do you have anything positive to say about men?

Always creating ground for gender wars, abeg rest!!

Haba.

Certainly, if they are worthy of emulation. Probably 2% of males.

Who will praise the dependent, bitter and confused men who seem to be in the majority?

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by noah24(m): 3:46pm On Jun 07
Sure... But get am fo mind say wen u fuckup... She go collect am back
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by 9jaRealist: 3:46pm On Jun 07
OlayemiAshraf:
Should a man ask for money from his girlfriend or wife

I actually ask for money from my girlfriend with my chest out and I don't feel ashamed... Even when I don't have money for meal, she pays for it without even abusing me ... When she needs money and I have, I don't hesitate to give her ... Actually we elevate by helping each other

I've been hearing from some women saying that "a man that asks for money from his girlfriend is a red flag".

Nairalanders, is that true

WHY NOT?!
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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by theForth: 3:49pm On Jun 07
BRATISLAVA:


Certainly, if they are worthy of emulation. Probably 2% of males.

Who will praise dependent, bitter and confused men who seem to be in the majority?
And women are any better?

You just have a bias against men.
Just rest!!

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Spectrum22: 3:59pm On Jun 07
You casually strolling into the "after all I've done for you trap". I'm sorry for you in advance.

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by richie240: 4:11pm On Jun 07
GoodBoi1:
What's the point of being in a marriage if you can't share finances? Two able adults living together and only one person carrying the load?
Sebi u go marry wan day. grin
e be like say u nor know d average woman: if u dey make 100k per month and she-300k, she go still expect u to take full responsibility as per provision of d family.
In their narrow minds: "My money is my money, but his money is our money."
cool
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by GoodBoi1(m): 4:23pm On Jun 07
richie240:

Sebi u go marry wan day. grin
e be like say u nor know d average woman: if u dey make 100k per month and she-300k, she go still expect u to take full responsibility as per provision of d family.
In their narrow minds: "My money is my money, but his money is our money."
cool
I am married. I had to talk my wife out of that wrong mindset while we were courting, I made it clear to her that I can't marry a woman with that mindset. It was a major issue then, I think we almost broke up. I take responsibility but I have access to her money and she is willing to support me with her money and handle some monthly expenses. My money is our money and her money is our money.
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by richie240: 4:28pm On Jun 07
GoodBoi1:

I am married. I had to talk my wife out of that wrong mindset while we were courting, I made it clear to her that I can't marry a woman with that mindset. I take responsibility but I have access to her money and she is willing to support me with her money and handle some monthly expenses. My money is our money and her money is our money.
Nice one.
U were wise to set boundaries b4 d word go or else dt crucial aspect - if not thrashed out - would certainly have rocked ur marriage to a large extent.

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by larryking540: 4:29pm On Jun 07
it's better you learn hw to ask your babe for money,make she kw say no be all the time Pocket day day well,,this is the problem most people mostly guys have these days ,u will so much impress the lady , making her feel ,u are a managing director in your company ,the day u Eventually go broke after marriage and u ask her for money ,then she will be shock ,but few ladies will understand,but many will react negatively ,,,,,...
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by larryking540: 4:30pm On Jun 07
noah24:
Sure... But get am fo mind say wen u fuckup... She go collect am back
so try not to Bleep up
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by Blyzz(m): 4:40pm On Jun 07
Mrscarter:


Ofcourse i dont but how do u usually get ur hair? I wear my own hair ion wear weave. I think its more attractive if u wear your own and just use products like mousse n polishes n it will make it look amazing give it shine with polishes and sealers n softness from conditioning treatments n mousse to set gently. Maybe texturiser too. Its cheaper than weave and Natural is more beautiful.
If i had money with me that i could send u i would but i cant rn. But good luck
O na dey see woman response. How she use smart tactic take discharge her grin
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by darexolu16(m): 4:43pm On Jun 07
But I don't really know that people actually borrow money from their partners...I think the right word should be "give" and "take" not borrow..wen I want something from u give it to me and wen u need it I can give u double not that pls I want u to borrow me money
Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by BRATISLAVA: 4:43pm On Jun 07
theForth:

And women are any better?

You just have a bias against men.
Just rest!!

You sound like you have something against women.

People will keep pointing out the bullshit of men on the forum until they stop bringing out their bias against women. The topic is set to make boys on the forum get aroused.

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Re: Should A Man Ask For Money From His Girlfriend Or Wife ??? by GoodBoi1(m): 4:45pm On Jun 07
richie240:

Nice one.
U were wise to set boundaries b4 d word go or else dt crucial aspect - if not thrashed out - would certainly have rocked ur marriage to a large extent.
No be small thing. We almost broke up. I thank God she learned sha. Even if I can handle all the bills, I want to be assured that my partner can support me, no matter how little

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