Revenge affair occurs in a relationship in which one feels slighted in some manner and seeks revenge by engaging in an affair. Is "revenge affair" the best option?

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Thats why maturity counts in affairs,

If you arent matured enough, stay the heck off affairs

and leave karma to play its course, as long as you arent entirely responsible for what ever sh1t that happened
you should leave with your head standing high

yea I believ this, nature has a way of doing things u dont need revenge

naaaa, its usually a waste of time, especially if the other party doesnt even send u anymore, you'll only end up feeling and looking stupid

Taking a revenge isnt worth it

just sit back, relax and watch karma do the work

I feel, if you need to seek "revenge" against your partner/spouse, then why not end it and move on to someone else? What's the point? If you decided to work it out and stay, then you agreed to forgive them and let it go. Then that is what you should do. If you seek revenge, then you haven't forgiven them and maybe need to reconsider the relationship. Like everyone else pointed out, you will only hurt yourself in the end. "An eye for an eye" will only begat something bad in your life. Why curse yourself by holding yourself back? What's done is done. What goes around, comes around. And when it does, it's ALWAYS 10 times worse. The best revenge you can do is forgive that person and pray for them.