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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by rawe45: 8:16am On Jun 08
Carchoice:
Most people will tell you yes, but ask their father, he’ll say No.

The relationship between a mother and her children is different from the relationship between a mother and her husband.



I’m in your shoe
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Johnlegacy57: 8:19am On Jun 08
I have always prayed for God to give me a woman like my mother. If not for my mom my dad would have packed up a long time. My mom married at the age of 19 endured severe hardship and a lot. I don't even think I can find such kind of girls nowadays. But I am not planning to be like my father in terms of finance.
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Raychee(f): 8:20am On Jun 08
Jimmy231:
But now you are not a man. Can't you save your 50MB opera mini bonus

I don't remember calling you into my business. Mind your business. slowpoke!
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Bigdik70inch2(m): 8:21am On Jun 08
Adedayo97:
She has been through alot already. ..all this factors you mentioned made her up



Yeah u partially right sha.......
We also thought has much.........all she experienced made her became so rigid.........but then the effect were on us the kids.........

She told us how stubborn and hot tempered she was as a kid even her siblings teatified........so it grew worst........

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Goldengold2(f): 8:21am On Jun 08
yamunla:


That bola is responding like a tout..

oshisko
People like that are meant to be ignored seriously cos I didn't see what that lady said that warrant her replies. It is well sha, Na nairaland we dey.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Kaybee7000(m): 8:22am On Jun 08
Bigdik70inch2:



Lol.......
My brother she never poison our heart.......
At least the evidence was there........he left when I was jux 3month old,the 2nd kid was 5yrs and 1st born 9years.........the "DIVORCE LETTER"pointed that out........

My own painment is not even bout the divorce or whatever.........but why will "A MAN BE THAT WICKED TO HIS OWN CHILDREN WHO WERE DAT YOUNG AND NEVER LOOK BACK

EVEN IF........HE DOESNT WANNA STAY WITH THEIR MOM NO MORE SHOULD THAT PREVENT HIM FROM CHECKING ON HIS KIDS??

IF HE LEFT...... JUX BECAUSE HE COULDN'T TOLERATE MY MA NO MORE........WHAT STOPPED HIM FROM TAKING RESPONSIBILITIES OF HIS KIDS........

MIND U......HE NEVER SPENT A DIME ON ME......



Damn U WON ME BOSS

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by BigSam13: 8:22am On Jun 08
Even if ur mother has all the good qualities a woman should have,,,,, can u find a lady that will have the same qualities
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Jaysleeves(m): 8:28am On Jun 08
Bola146:


Same as you kid! Bring it on Omo caution who knows how to behave cheesy cheesy
This Ibadan girl rest na Haba.. I thought Ure a responsible lady pls keep to it. Beautiful soul.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by ford101: 8:34am On Jun 08
Bola146:
angry kiss 100% YES!!! She trained 2 PhD, Msc and 1 BEd by herself. She loving, caring, she forgives easily, she loves her privacy, she taught me giving is good no matter how rich or poor you are, she can greet from her house to only when she is tired. I hate her first but when I was growing up, I will continue to appreciate her whenever I remember all the lessons she taught us. She is just a good role model to me!
wat about your father.did she leave him or.
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Akanoaaa(m): 8:37am On Jun 08
Capital No
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by ethan101(m): 8:41am On Jun 08
capital NO
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Aysucess19: 8:42am On Jun 08
See talk for NL... now, u guys will be writing epistle on mother's day

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by UEDIBO: 8:44am On Jun 08
Bola146:
angry kiss 100% YES!!! She trained 2 PhD, Msc and 1 BEd by herself. She loving, caring, she forgives easily, she loves her privacy, she taught me giving is good no matter how rich or poor you are, she can greet from her house to only when she is tired. I hate her first but when I was growing up, I will continue to appreciate her whenever I remember all the lessons she taught us. She is just a good role model to me!
is she still single?
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by rita25(f): 8:48am On Jun 08
IF I WERE A MAN NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!BUT I CAN MARRY A WOMAN LIKE MYSELF COS I IMPROVED ON MOST OF MY MUMS LAPSES

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by larryjonze: 8:48am On Jun 08
bluefilm:


The question is not if you would marry your mother.

The question is if you would marry a woman like your mother.

This is how you guys fail exams only to later you will start blaming Buhari for it.



hypothetically, if he can't marry his mom he can't possibly marry a gurl like is mom, simply apply discretion, one out of 100 qualities buhari lack that's why nigeria never pass

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by DWJOBScom(m): 8:51am On Jun 08
Bigdik70inch2:
I can't Ooo!!!
Marry fire kwa??

She get easily provoked and so hot tempered.......

She's very stubborn and hardly listen to OR follow our opinions

Just too religious.........infact she fought everyone close-by/neighbour/family/friends/youths/strangers who wouldnt readily absorb her preaching(BIGGEST TURN OFF).......

She's hyperactive too........hardly sit her ass down on a spot to rest.......if she's isn't doing this then definitely she's up doing that...... even the unnecessary things and wud lament if u failed to join her........

Mind:Those r her weakness anyways

GOOD SIDE:

SHE SINGLE HANDEDLY SPONSORED OUR EDUCATION FROM PRE NURSERY TO BEEN A GRADUATE........

SUCH A YOUNG PRETTY HER GOT HERSELF MARRIED TO ONE IDIOT DURING HER PRIME...........INFACT SHE STRUGGLED SPONSORING HIS EDUCATION TO UNIVERSITY LEVEL EVEN WHEN HER FAMILY WERE VEHEMENTLY AGAINST..........

.........BUT THE IDIOT BECAME DOCTOR AND NEVER CAME BACK TO HER/US........JUX THE ONLY PERSON I WILL NEVER FORGIVE EVN ON MY DYING BED.........

SHE SPONSORED HER HALF BROTHERS AND SISTERS TOO.......SOME GRATEFUL WHILE SOME R INGRATES.......

I did say , she a wonderful woman. She has such a big heart and just wanted the same back
She is a wonderful lady and mother.
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Blakjewelry(m): 8:53am On Jun 08
medropoly:
This question is for the honest and sincere minded people.
Can you marry a woman like your mother?

Let me start with myself.
"My mother is really a nice and caring woman, (mostly to us her children) but to her husband (my dad) the relationship there is really not cool. To some extent, I can't because she dose allot of things that really annoys me as her child not to talk of her husband".
For me yes o, I never knew her because I lost her very early. As for my dad, I think he was never the same man, married 13 years later but still heard him complain wish he never lost her

So what about you?
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by emmykey0128(m): 8:54am On Jun 08
God forbid, over my dead body should I marry such a woman like my mother, infact I will rather stay single for the rest of my life than getting married, b4 u quote me, just know say na me know wetin my eyes don see o o

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Flash68: 8:54am On Jun 08
[color=#550000][/color][quote author=jeff1607 post=102460445]Nah , too expensive to maintain, one might surprise her with a gift and turns it down, probably it was cheap(in her own standard) or wasn’t classy enough, I canor come and kill myself.


Like my mom its had to surprise her
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by ImaIma1(f): 8:56am On Jun 08
larryjonze:




morning ma' welcome to jornwhite solutions, we offer jumpsuits or water + soap for those who would av engage in mud fight buh are afraid ... with us you don't av to worry about dirt, ur body no go know wink


Thanks, but I'll have to pass.
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by ImaIma1(f): 8:59am On Jun 08
deltateam:


Most mothers are fussy and someone rightly mentioned that the criteria should be relationship with her husband.

Although the relationship with the husband often depends on the kind of man your mum married.

If she married an understanding, hardworking, caring and appreciative man, she would behave differently than if she married a drunkard or wife beater or man who's lazy and doesn't provide for his family etc


Some women will marry a good man and still frustrate him.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by ImaIma1(f): 9:00am On Jun 08
Munzy14:

Na so...

Not everyone will be lucky to have a good mom, likewise not everyone will be lucky to get a good wife.


No matter how great a mum is, she aint perfect.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by ImaIma1(f): 9:02am On Jun 08
SenecaTheYonger:


And who else are they supposed to listen to than the person who has been there for them their whole life? You? Or maybe point to a perfect individual you’re supposed to take instructions from then undecided



Who said anything about not listening to our mums? I don't think you read to understand.
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by ImaIma1(f): 9:05am On Jun 08
bhella10:
I wonder what your male children will say when they see how two grown ups in a child's body misbehaving in public


I wonder what your family members will think when they realize that you jump into conversations that you are not invited into and comment without thinking it through properly.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by htdot: 9:05am On Jun 08
lasisi69:
lol... You don mad
Mad for waiting... i would never want to have a mother like that in my next life

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by gentleibraheem(m): 9:09am On Jun 08
Hell NO.
I wont say further.
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by yorubarere: 9:10am On Jun 08
ImaIma1:


Best to ignore such people before they drag you into the mud with them.
I like how you handled her with much maturity.
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by SenecaTheYonger(m): 9:10am On Jun 08
ImaIma1:


Who said anything about not listening to our mums? I don't think you read to understand.

You wrote this:

“ why do the sons take everything they say hook line and sinker especially as regards their choices of life partners”

So I’m asking you, who should they listen to? Is it you or the person they’ve known their whole lives?

How many perfect people do you have in your life right now that do not have any flaws that you take advice from?

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by yorubarere: 9:12am On Jun 08
Connected1:
The comments here shows that the evil girls we see everywhere are products of their mothers.
Well my mother is a good woman even to her husband, she has endured alot that I sometimes admire her, but I don't know if I can manage her talkative attitude.
I just left a relationship at 11pm yesterday because her family wants her to marry only someone from her Urhobo, despite my efforts to make her convince them, she didn't do anything and I have done alot for her, backed her so many times.
I am glad it's quits I need someone that can also fight for me.
She saved you a lot of future stress bro. Never marry someone her parents doesn't approve of you. Especially her mother. It will only end in premium tears. Love will wash away and her family will later influence her.
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Nobody: 9:14am On Jun 08
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Bigdik70inch2(m): 9:24am On Jun 08
DWJOBScom:


I did say , she a wonderful woman. She has such a big heart and just wanted the same back
She is a wonderful lady and mother.

Yeah bro.......thanks
I still don't joke with her no matter what......

Jux that the bad effect was on us..........

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by coolaustyne(m): 9:30am On Jun 08
Yes o.... And thank God I found one...

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