Always make sure you at least see their no makeup face and full body pics before invitations.

Frales6:
mine was on Facebook ooo, we bonded as well. in fact we have started calling ourselves sweetie and honie, only for us to meet.....choooiiii....he escaped imbbecile... (God forgive me ooo). I don't know what the shape of his head, his body, his mouth, his legs look like... aahhh! I tire!!! I just managed to smile while gisting but no be me dey there aswear. and the funny part...I was to sleep over at his place bcox I was coming from a very far distance. he started introducing me to his friends around, that I'm his wife....they were hailing him...I shame tire. fast forward to night...guy man no gree me sleep, say him wan nack....omo I provoke bcoz already I dey vex

But how do you girls do it?? You visit a guy you never met before with a plan to sleep over at his place? That is dangerous!

HalpyBee:

That's cruel tho!

honestly, I know o!! Its just one of those past events I always regret to rem

Volkswagen90:
may God forgive all of you,so you pretty face!are you married now? Funny world the guy might even marry with kids now,though physical appearance matters but not to the extent of rubbing it to him face,beauty is what we don't really have power over.

Then y can't one be honest on how u look at 1st? Y edit photos and filters online to deceive people to believe wat u are not in reality? Y are you supporting deception?

Frales6:

hmmmmm....that kind thing

The guy introduced you as his wife


His friends wud have been wondering were u came from

angelfallz:
You're wrong it's not only 9ja girls. It's the same all over the world. Korean girls' own is on another level

Wetin carry you go korea

Met on smiggle, organized to meet at her hostel in Delsu, left warri (doing my nysc)to meet her. She was cute in stature but was not really beautiful facially. I slept over and did d do to recover my tfare. And I never had a repeat because I was not impressed.

Abiababe:

Sometimes it's like that. Sorry

honestly.

Verysmart101:


Then y can't one be honest on how u look at 1st? Y edit photos and filters online to deceive people to believe wat u are not in reality? Y are you supporting deception?

am not supporting them,am just saying that when the deed is already done,don't rub it on their face,treat them nicely and when everyone has reach their base,maturely break the bond without hurting feelings,it better that way.

grandlexuz:


Hahaha. Most people I have met online have been overly impressed meeting me in person. That's cos I am not photogenic. I am cuter in person than pic.

This your story got me choking though. I will invite you to Cameroon if its okay by you. Dont take money for flight jappa oh. Hahaha

lol. no wahala. but no use me do money ritual or sell my body parts ooo

Well,Jumia has taught me a lesson never to believe anything posted online. If I'm meeting a lady for the first time,I do normally lower my expectations. If you appears beautiful,fine otherwise, fine also. The only lady I met online and later became foes was in 2019, she doesn't looks beautiful on Facebook though, but I just decided to hangout with her because I was bored then. We planned on meeting at ice n cream spot around University of Ibadan. The very first bad impression was that she told me she's already at the place when she called that afternoon only for me to get there and met no one. Called her to confirm I'm at the right place we agreed on only for her to tell me she's just coming. Well, I waited patiently till she arrives. Firstly, she was on low cut which I really hate for a lady, secondly, I looks like David beside Goliath to her as she is very tall and slim. That's even nothing. I ordered for ice cream and pie for her while I took only pie cus I don't like ice cream. This bitch told me she will be taking the stuffs home as she doesn't feel like taking anything, to which I obliged. You won't believe this bitch texting me immediately she got home that "pls, my brother has collected the cream and pie you bought for me. Can you help me get another one cus I am feeling hungry now" she didn't even say thanks for today or anything. I just deleted her number and block her on all my social media.

Angelinastto:
For me, look is excusable as far as you’re not shabbily dressed but just keep up the same vibe from our conversations online. For me to have agreed to meet you, we must have been cool to talk to.

Cool! As in real cool?

Abba114:
just three weeks ago. a girl called me early in the morning i picked the call she start stammering saying its a wrong number. i said no prblm what is ur name nd where u calling from she told me. my mind told me maybe its ur lucky day, i gather courage and said to her f u wont bother i will like u to visit me since u live close to where i live, she said no problem she will come i told her where she should stay when she arrived. 20mins later she called me nd said she is there waiting for me to come and pay the keke driver as she doesnt have any money. i went there but i stay far from where she said she was i called her number nd said i am at the place where are u. to my suprise a fat short creature came out from the keke holding a phone to come if its her i said which colour of cloth are u wearing she said the one wth blue shirt. damn she is the fat creature that i saw. i quickly put my phone in silent mode and runaway, she kept calling my number i pick nd told he we cant meet my ogo just call me nd he is sending me to do an important work she begged me to just come and pay the keke driver i said i cant. to cut it short the keke driver send his account number nd i sent 200 to him

Oh boy!��

damosky12:


But how do you girls do it?? You visit a guy you never met before with a plan to sleep over at his place? That is dangerous!

na so man dey carry ashawo wey him no sabi go sleep for hotel na... everything na risk. you no know

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The guy introduced you as his wife

His friends wud have been wondering were u came from [/quo that matter tire me ooo

pyyxxaro:
My own naa for Eskimi wayback


As the gal show , She de limp badly

My guys were around waiting to see her , if u see laff when there laff me

I still went to meet her , gisted with her before discharging her

Normal me before, I go run .. but I felt no need , nor be her fault say she de limp





It was really funny

Uche!!! I believe this is you. Hahahaha

Aabheaven:
Ok, This nearly happened with me. We bonded on 2go and talked for a long while before we decided to see. On that fateful day, we decided the time to meet should be 12pm but by 11.30pm I was at the fast food restaurant standing at one corner to observe if the lady is what I am seeing online.

By 12.30pm she called she was at the fast food (I still can't understand why ladies find it out to keep to time especially during outings this is by the way though) and I noticed while we were communicating she was not the exact image of what I saw online infact I nearly japa but as I just decided well make I just treat her nice after all she took out her time for us to see.

We barely talked for one hour and I noticed the morale wasn't there to go along, I just interrupted her and told her I need to be someone as at that time. I paid for our meals and we bade goodbyes.

But how can a lady look good in pictures and bad in person, can someone explain? Let's make it fun, share your experiences.

Sometimes it's spiritual, heard strange things about how some people appear ugly just to make them undesirable to prospects.

debbydams:
Lol..

Is it funny?let me see you..

ChEkWaSIyKe:
Smile

I remember this lady I saw on fcbk years ago
We keep on chatting, call each other on phone. So we decide to meet each other one faithful day, I told her were to meet me.

My brother immediately I saw this girl, I took off. I was somewhere close to the agreed venue watching her. She was not my type of girls. So she keep calling till she got tired and left. I was dissapointed. What I saw of fcbk is different from the girl physical.

You forget say na your fake female account you dey use post

Abba114:
just three weeks ago. a girl called me early in the morning i picked the call she start stammering saying its a wrong number. i said no prblm what is ur name nd where u calling from she told me. my mind told me maybe its ur lucky day, i gather courage and said to her f u wont bother i will like u to visit me since u live close to where i live, she said no problem she will come i told her where she should stay when she arrived. 20mins later she called me nd said she is there waiting for me to come and pay the keke driver as she doesnt have any money. i went there but i stay far from where she said she was i called her number nd said i am at the place where are u. to my suprise a fat short creature came out from the keke holding a phone to come if its her i said which colour of cloth are u wearing she said the one wth blue shirt. damn she is the fat creature that i saw. i quickly put my phone in silent mode and runaway, she kept calling my number i pick nd told he we cant meet my ogo just call me nd he is sending me to do an important work she begged me to just come and pay the keke driver i said i cant. to cut it short the keke driver send his account number nd i sent 200 to him

Everybody jus dey lie

Ishilove:
So many immature, shallow people. This is why when they come online to cry about heartbreak I don't have any sympathy for them because you put looks over character. The two of you chat and discover you have chemistry. You are comfortable with this person, you flow with this person, you both share the same interests and worldview, but because you are shallow and you can't see past the physical appearance which will fade in time, you cut off someone that can make you happy in the long run.

Foolishness on all fours

Don't blame them. They were just acting their age. MOST girls and guys have their "LovePeddler stage" where they would rather date a beautiful/handsome girl/guy than be bothered about the character of the person. When they are now finally ready to settle down, they have become wiser and tend to look for character first, then beauty second!

Meninmen:


Don't blame them. They were just acting their age. MOST girls and guys have their "LovePeddler stage" where they would rather date a beautiful/handsome girl/guy than be bothered about the character of the person. When they are now finally ready to settle down, they have become wiser and tend to look for character first, then beauty second!

You have spoken well and I agree with you.

That is the major reason why u should do video calls, ask for full pictures. If possible ask for a motion picture to avoid had I known.

Chuvin22:
In Nigeria if you want to know if a girl is beautiful before you meet in person, check how she responds to you and the average time she takes to to reply your messages.

wowor girls don't joke with picture editors and snapchat.

Nonsense lies and mentality …the time a girl uses in responding to your messages doesn’t mean if they are fine or ugly.

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I de imagine the way u go de catwalk when u de waka go the house


Only to see an elderly imbee waiting for his bride

Emmydarsy:
Times without number...wow, I can hardly forget these silly past. May God forgive me!! I had numerous experiences of it. Would just pickup one of it and share. Yeah, 2009 to be précised, there is this means of communication through small phones called AFRICHAT. with this, no means of facial identification. Its just mainly sending text msgs and thereafter, exchange numbers. That's all! Once u are able to have d phone number, boom!! You begin phone conversation, often times, "extra cool ".....we talked at length describing how your look is, whether, tall or short, fair, chocolate or dark, your location and all that.
Cut story short, I came across this particular girl thru this africhat and based on how she described herself, she should look like Genevieve, Martha Ankomah, or worse ....Simi! I told her my look too and we both fell for each other and was expecting to meet. The day came...I told her I will wait her at a popular filling station at my bustop. Cos we were supposed to go home from there..She was coming from igando, down to Alakuko, that's alagbado area of Lagos. I had this habit of when trying to meet a babe for the first time, my phone will always be only on vibration and I won't be standing at the spot I told her I am. And this is because av encountered similar fuckups b4, and won't want a repeat. While waiting, she called she was on bike riding her down to the filling station, so I positioned myself well, after some few minutes, hmmm....I was surprised at what I saw coming down from bike. I doubted if she was the one, so to confirmed, I crossed to the other side of the road and brought out my already vibrating phone. I could see she was actually the one calling. Jeez, I held my phone and was looking and viewing this girl. She was just a direct opposite of how she described her look. I waited for like 15mins, contemplating on what to do....chai...noo! My frds are home waiting to meet the cute babe have already made mouth on. I thought of meeting her at the filling station to just handover to her the cash I intend spending on her visit as t.fare for her but what excuse would I give for not taking her home. Hsteeew, I felt for her but I can't just take her home and no means of giving her t.fare without linking myself with her. I was forcer to switched off my phone when i could not bear the continuous ringing and I walked off without knowing how she was able to sort herself.

CHRIST. This is hilarious bro. make una no kill me with laugh abeg

pyyxxaro:




I de imagine the way u go de catwalk when u de waka go the house


Only to see an elderly imbee waiting for his bride

honestly it wasn't funny. but I chop everything wey the guy man buy ooo...but deep down I dey vex

Charlex23:

Everybody jus dey lie

i swear its not a lie

Frales6:


honestly it wasn't funny. but I chop everything wey the guy man buy ooo...but deep down I dey vex

But u wicked shaa

U for at least give am one royal kiss or better TeddyBear hug make the guy tools calm down

Lol. I no go Korea. Na through social media. There are reports on social media that some Korean girls use filters to enhance and change their features.

zinaunreal:


Wetin carry you go korea

Angelinastto:
For me, look is excusable as far as you’re not shabbily dressed but just keep up the same vibe from our conversations online. For me to have agreed to meet you, we must have been cool to talk to.

who u help on that,.. would it determine my pocket,..