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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Dliquidmetal(m): 7:52am On Jun 12
I could do worse. Wahala for who dey date sha.

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Ritzybeauty(f): 7:58am On Jun 12
Pretend like he isn't there and hustle on your own to be your own boss, get thing for yourself, dress elegantly, go out with friends, have fun and you don't owe him any explanations whatsoever, if he feels you are a gem and can't afford to lose you, then you both should talk things out and be clear on what you both want for the relationship to work.. Most importantly don't close doors to others that would treat you like a queen because you don't know if he sees a future with you. I don't really have time to stress myself dear because our mental health matters a lot and you guys can frustrate a lot

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 8:00am On Jun 12
bepositive11:


He's dating with the intention of marrying her so he has to show how he would be as a husband. What he did was very cheap.

I'm sure if a woman did that to you, you would feel that she's cheap too. Just a few thousands and he's even well off
Thanks for thinking right

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Kondomatic(m): 8:02am On Jun 12
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That guy is extreme though. How can he ask his gf to pay him back a few thousands? What will he do if they should get married? Ask her to pay for everything he buys for her? That's madness

Stingy and financially responsible are 2 different things
First, because it's his money. It doesn't matter if it is one, a couple or few thousands


Second, because he wasn't planning to spend a few thousands.


Third, because it's possible that she doesn't spend on him because he's rich.

Fourth, because if the reverse was the case, the girl will collect everything back, inflate the price of the things she bought, collect money for transport and pure water and expect him to give extra for buying it for him.




Yes, but once you're responsible financially, an entitled woman will think you're stingy.
Ask the OP how much her friend has spent on him let's see who is stingy.

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 9:19am On Jun 12
Kondomatic:
First, because it's his money. It doesn't matter if it is one, a couple or few thousands


Second, because he wasn't planning to spend a few thousands.


Third, because it's possible that she doesn't spend on him because he's rich.

Fourth, because if the reverse was the case, the girl will collect everything back, inflate the price of the things she bought, collect money for transport and pure water and expect him to give extra for buying it for him.




Yes, but once you're responsible financially, an entitled woman will think you're stingy.
Ask the OP how much her friend has spent on him let's see who is stingy.
You still don't get it,there are certain things any lady should not overlook in a relationship, a man who doesn't priotize your needs clearly shows you are not part of his life and if you eventually marry such man he won't care about your needs and that of the kids and besides my friend is not materialistic but a reasonable man should know what to do.There was a day they went out together and he stopped to buy some banana and my friend wanted some as well,he bought his own and paid and stretch forth his stingy hands to collect money from my friend to pay for her own,who does that?stop taking sides and hit the nail on the head

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 9:20am On Jun 12
Ritzybeauty:
Pretend like he isn't there and hustle on your own to be your own boss, get thing for yourself, dress elegantly, go out with friends, have fun and you don't owe him any explanations whatsoever, if he feels you are a gem and can't afford to lose you, then you both should talk things out and be clear on what you both want for the relationship to work.. Most importantly don't close doors to others that would treat you like a queen because you don't know if he sees a future with you. I don't really have time to stress myself dear because our mental health matters a lot and you guys can frustrate a lot

My friend is financially very OK but there are certain things that portrays a red flag in a relationship, his own is just too much,he's too stingy

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 9:25am On Jun 12
slimman007:


Please go and work.That guy is not your father neither your financial so leave him alone.it people like you that won't contribute anything in your matrimonial home even common maggi and salt you won't contribute rather you will be waiting for the man to come back from work before you can buy salt at home.Shame on all stingy ladies and please guys take note this is one of them cheesy
My friend isn't a leech and does not demand from him as well but however his stingy habits portrays a red flag, a man who does not priotize your needs will eventually be an irresponsible man in marriage, he will extend such stingy attitude towards his kids

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Ritzybeauty(f): 9:25am On Jun 12
Rozcol:
My friend is financially very OK but there are certain things that portrays a red flag in a relationship, his own is just too much,he's too stingy

Then they are certainly better options.. Its gonna get worse when it gets to marriage and trust me its not gonna be funny, because same would apply if she give birth to his kids. This is a big red flag.

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 9:26am On Jun 12
chatinent:

She is.
how?
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 9:28am On Jun 12
Ritzybeauty:


Then they are certainly better options.. Its gonna get worse when it gets to marriage and trust me its not gonna be funny, because same would apply if she give birth to his kids. This is a big red flag.
You are right,my friend doesn't demand from him but his stingy habits comes to play at every little thing,nobody wants to be a crying millionaire's wife and people will be asking you what you do with your husband's money.

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Spechialone(f): 9:43am On Jun 12
Rozcol:
You still don't get it,there are certain things any lady should not overlook in a relationship, a man who doesn't priotize your needs clearly shows you are not part of his life and if you eventually marry such man he won't care about your needs and that of the kids and besides my friend is not materialistic but a reasonable man should know what to do.There was a day they went out together and he stopped to buy some banana and my friend wanted some as well,he bought his own and paid and stretch forth his stingy hands to collect money from my friend to pay for her own,who does that?stop taking sides and hit the nail on the head


Dear Op, if it's actually your friends' story, you have to be wise... There's only as much you can say and do, cos she has the final say

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by YoungLionken(m): 10:11am On Jun 12
So you're seriously planning against your fellow man because of one girl who's suffering from entitlement mentality!

You're a disgrace!!

Just plan a coup with your so-called friend, I think that's better ...

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by empire78: 10:11am On Jun 12
You don't love him , Nigeria girls with money

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:14am On Jun 12
Stop meddling in people's love affair, it doesn't end well

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by pickatyouu: 10:14am On Jun 12
She needs help on how to get a job.
If you really need money and gifts, go meet your dad and mum, unless they are unfortunate as the person needing help.

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Uzi11enzo: 10:14am On Jun 12
slimman007:


Leech and entitled lady spotted here.Why do most Nigerian ladies have this terrible mindset most the guy provide for you when he is not official married to you answer me,can't you provide for your needs while in relationship.Look here young lady that guy is not your father neither your benefactor so leave him alone and walk away.To me you are a liability to him and you have nothing to offer him expect your pucci which he can get anywhere so what makes your own special.If I may ask you ever since you have been with him what meaningful impact have you added into his life rather than to demand which is the emblem of an average Nigerian lady

Well said.

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by 9jayes: 10:15am On Jun 12
Dey ur dey broh

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by thesicilian: 10:15am On Jun 12
bepositive11:


That guy is extreme though. How can he ask his gf to pay him back a few thousands? What will he do if they should get married? Ask her to pay for everything he buys for her? That's madness

Stingy and financially responsible are 2 different things
A few thousands could be any thing from 2 to a hundred thousand, or even more. Believe some girls at your own peril

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by MPESA(m): 10:15am On Jun 12
Rozcol:
We are exhausted, he won't just go,he's somehow annoyingly very smart.My friend just don't want to appear as been materialistic

Tell your friend or you to find something doing because girlfriend or relationship is not an occupation.

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by RunzMAN: 10:15am On Jun 12
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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by DharmieDhrey(m): 10:16am On Jun 12
I'm sure as hell this story is fake. I know the OP very well, she keeps concocting stories to make men look bad. She hovers round the redpill thread like it's her house.

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by wildikeman(m): 10:16am On Jun 12
OP It is you jare... Stop lying. You "demanded" didn't even request. You are in a relationship. How is it his responsibility to just give you money.. Don't you have hands to work for your money? Just tell him and let him go abeg

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Yansham: 10:17am On Jun 12
Only broke girls call their boyfriend stingy. Na so one idiot I met wanted me to pay for her uber ride home when I used danfo. The day she was to come to my house, she asked that I order uber for her to and fro. I told her to sit down in her house.

Laslas she called me a broke ass nigga.

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Kelvin30286063(m): 10:17am On Jun 12
I don't know the height of stinginess but if he went as far as to collect money he spent on buying pad for his gf then I've seen a new height.
My suggestion is to tell him point blank that you cannot be with a person that doesn't feel it's okay to take care of you financially cuz eventually your needs will be his needs and his yours. And if he feels your needs are not important to him then he probably doesn't know what love is cuz showering your partner with gifts is also a way of showing you love him or her. Expect him to give excuses as usual but make him understand that you've made your final decision. Then start acting the break up from that moment on

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Uzi11enzo: 10:17am On Jun 12
Is he your dad? Typical average Nigerian girl. Tell him you don't want and stop creating senseless threads. U can go find one alahji to date after that. I'm beginning to hate these Nigerian girls ngl

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by NaughtyBrainiac: 10:17am On Jun 12
Your friend should try and buy things for him, no matter how small. Let her do that for a while.
If he still decides not to spare anything after that, your friend will then have the licence to call him all the names you girls wanna call him.

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by TemmyDayo50: 10:18am On Jun 12
Kondomatic:
She's also collecting sugarcane

Kondo Olopa grin

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Kingcalls: 10:18am On Jun 12
When u expect someone else to be giving u money , u will loose dignity and respect....something Nigerian women certainly don't have

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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Creamyebony2017(f): 10:18am On Jun 12
Female friends doesn't even ask for refund...
How do you leave a guy that doesn't want to leave you? Start another relationship ! Tested & trusted method
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by tonididdy(m): 10:19am On Jun 12
Rozcol:
Please help my friend suggest very good flimsy escuses to dump her hardcore stingy but very good boyfriend.

He's very good on all other aspects but his stinginess is beyond human comprehension and my friend don't want to appear as been materialistic.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was when she demanded if he could get her pads and some few stuff on his way to her place and when he eventually bought and brought the items to her, he calculated everything he bought and was waiting to be paid which she eventually did and imagine he got the nerves to collect the money from my friend (Just some few thousands), he's very rich so brokenness is out of it.

We've exhausted all the escuses we thought would work out to dump him but he somehow have ways around them (very annoying) and my friend wants to be diplomatic. Please your suggestions are highly welcomed. Thanks

You also be diplomatic and reasonable...he's only her gf and not her husband yet or father.
It may sound stingy taking money back for those items but in the real logical sense she never said 'please buy for me, I have no money',that's when we would have tagged him Mr stingy if he expected money back even after the plea.

Don't deprive yourself of a man you say yourself is good, he could be a good husband also. No 'rich' husband will not know his primary responsibilities as a man married to a wife who doesn't work(yet).... No man will deprive his family of any necessity if he can afford it.

I think you are just judging by the covers so easily... Give him a chance if everything else checks good.


GL and my 2cents

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