AutoChick4U:
Baba shut up. Who says anything about providing all my needs? Is he god? Una no just get sense and you allowing yeye sentiment cloud common sense and reasoning

Rozcol:
Please help my friend suggest very good flimsy escuses to dump her hardcore stingy but very good boyfriend.

He's very good on all other aspects but his stinginess is beyond human comprehension and my friend don't want to appear as been materialistic.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was when she demanded if he could get her pads and some few stuff on his way to her place and when he eventually bought and brought the items to her, he calculated everything he bought and was waiting to be paid which she eventually did and imagine he got the nerves to collect the money from my friend (Just some few thousands), he's very rich so brokenness is out of it.

We've exhausted all the escuses we thought would work out to dump him but he somehow have ways around them (very annoying) and my friend wants to be diplomatic. Please your suggestions are highly welcomed. Thanks

ClearAll:
he would share or even cater for everything at home, maybe, just maybe he might not be giving her money freely but she’d be happy unless she wants to emulate her friends with all the big Cars, shoes and dresses, just maybe she ought to be doing all those extra expenses with her own money

And

[b]Who says he wouldn’t be a better person when married, [/b]baba no wan spend make another person come rip where he no sow, una gender are unpredictable, no vex.

McOluOmo:
u'r the best, are you free this weekend? Just wanna buy u beer!

amazingspiderma:


As a married man person, there comes a time in a courtship where you have to test the waters. It helps inform future decision making.
Atleast the guy was not abusive. There are ladies who not just take care of themselves, but show financial Independence.
You can't buy a pads for yourself. How can you take care of children if there no money coming from the man tommorow.
Some people don't know the up's and down's that comes with life.

Fantasy is a huge problem.

Rozcol:
You still don't get it,there are certain things any lady should not overlook in a relationship, a man who doesn't priotize your needs clearly shows you are not part of his life and if you eventually marry such man he won't care about your needs and that of the kids and besides my friend is not materialistic but a reasonable man should know what to do.There was a day they went out together and he stopped to buy some banana and my friend wanted some as well,he bought his own and paid and stretch forth his stingy hands to collect money from my friend to pay for her own,who does that?stop taking sides and hit the nail on the head

Simran94:


These are red flags in relationships. This is why a lot of marriages don’t last, they saw signs during their relationships but they felt once they got married things would be different.

ASSUMPTION is bad especially in relationships. That was why I told the OP to tell her friend to talk to the guy first

Rozcol:
You still don't get it,there are certain things any lady should not overlook in a relationship, a man who doesn't priotize your needs clearly shows you are not part of his life and if you eventually marry such man he won't care about your needs and that of the kids and besides my friend is not materialistic but a reasonable man should know what to do.There was a day they went out together and he stopped to buy some banana and my friend wanted some as well,he bought his own and paid and stretch forth his stingy hands to collect money from my friend to pay for her own,who does that?stop taking sides and hit the nail on the head

Rozcol:
He knows my friend is very reserved, he will quickly grab that we planned it.Can you imagine he's hinting on proposal, I mean who marries a hardcore stingy man

Rozcol:
Please help my friend suggest very good flimsy escuses to dump her hardcore stingy but very good boyfriend.

He's very good on all other aspects but his stinginess is beyond human comprehension and my friend don't want to appear as been materialistic.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was when she demanded if he could get her pads and some few stuff on his way to her place and when he eventually bought and brought the items to her, he calculated everything he bought and was waiting to be paid which she eventually did and imagine he got the nerves to collect the money from my friend (Just some few thousands), he's very rich so brokenness is out of it.

We've exhausted all the escuses we thought would work out to dump him but he somehow have ways around them (very annoying) and my friend wants to be diplomatic. Please your suggestions are highly welcomed. Thanks

Rozcol:
Please help my friend suggest very good flimsy escuses to dump her hardcore stingy but very good boyfriend.

He's very good on all other aspects but his stinginess is beyond human comprehension and my friend don't want to appear as been materialistic.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was when she demanded if he could get her pads and some few stuff on his way to her place and when he eventually bought and brought the items to her, he calculated everything he bought and was waiting to be paid which she eventually did and imagine he got the nerves to collect the money from my friend (Just some few thousands), he's very rich so brokenness is out of it.

We've exhausted all the escuses we thought would work out to dump him but he somehow have ways around them (very annoying) and my friend wants to be diplomatic. Please your suggestions are highly welcomed. Thanks

Teddyaiyez:
He is good In what aspect ? How is he good when he is not caring and generous to his girlfriend. Abi na bed u dy say he for good. Dump his selfish ass at once

omoyeni37:

I checked your profile, and i saw that you are from ghana, i wasn't surprised because most nigerian girls don't reason like you do. God bless you maam.

Rozcol:
He knows my friend is very reserved, he will quickly grab that we planned it.Can you imagine he's hinting on proposal, I mean who marries a hardcore stingy man

AutoChick4U:
You lack sense. What's bad in asking ur bf to buy you toiletries on his way to your house? Her pad probably wasn't enough or she was caught unawares. She gave him d money back but you men no even read to comprehend but rush to comment like illiterates.

Don't they teach comprehensive English in school again? Fools can't reason outside d box

Rozcol:
Please help my friend suggest very good flimsy escuses to dump her hardcore stingy but very good boyfriend.

He's very good on all other aspects but his stinginess is beyond human comprehension and my friend don't want to appear as been materialistic.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was when she demanded if he could get her pads and some few stuff on his way to her place and when he eventually bought and brought the items to her, he calculated everything he bought and was waiting to be paid which she eventually did and imagine he got the nerves to collect the money from my friend (Just some few thousands), he's very rich so brokenness is out of it.

We've exhausted all the escuses we thought would work out to dump him but he somehow have ways around them (very annoying) and my friend wants to be diplomatic. Please your suggestions are highly welcomed. Thanks

Rozcol:

Rozcol:
He came with his ride

Kondomatic:
Or may be worse but then my way is not the standard for all.


Giving is a gift, there are so many Nairalanders that are dirty rich but they don't give but I have seen someone receive money during a give away here and gave someone who wasn't so lucky something from the little he got. If it's not in you, forget it.


Now back to the OP, if my imaginary girlfriend calls me on phone and asks me to help her buy some stuffs, I will ask her for the money even before buying the stuffs. The things that could make me buy the them first before/without collecting money are if we agreed on "pay on delivery" or maybe the level of the relationship or the way she's been spending on me.

I give when I want to give not when I am indirectly compelled to give.


Do you know that there's a difference between "Babe, I need these things but I am tall on cash please can you get them for me" and "Babe please help me get these stuffs"

The first needs my favor, the later is sending me on errand.


You send me, you pay.


Besides the OP is one hell of a crafty lady.
She said that she(her friend) asked him to buy her stuffs and pad.


Why did she name pad and left the others? Simple, to get you all on her side.


So if your lady asks you to buy her stuff(iPhone 12, Lexus RX 350, MacBook and Gucci wears) and pad you will not collect the money because you wan prove say you be man?

Rozcol:
Not as easy because some family and friends are aware of the relationship

Kondomatic:
You're not financially responsible if young women do not think you're stingy.



Oil dey your head brotherly



Kondomatic 1985

Kondomatic:
Or may be worse but then my way is not the standard for all.


Giving is a gift, there are so many Nairalanders that are dirty rich but they don't give but I have seen someone receive money during a give away here and gave someone who wasn't so lucky something from the little he got. If it's not in you, forget it.


Now back to the OP, if my imaginary girlfriend calls me on phone and asks me to help her buy some stuffs, I will ask her for the money even before buying the stuffs. The things that could make me buy the them first before/without collecting money are if we agreed on "pay on delivery" or maybe the level of the relationship or the way she's been spending on me.

I give when I want to give not when I am indirectly compelled to give.


Do you know that there's a difference between "Babe, I need these things but I am tall on cash please can you get them for me" and "Babe please help me get these stuffs"

The first needs my favor, the later is sending me on errand.


You send me, you pay.


Besides the OP is one hell of a crafty lady.
She said that she(her friend) asked him to buy her stuffs and pad.


Why did she name pad and left the others? Simple, to get you all on her side.


So if your lady asks you to buy her stuff(iPhone 12, Lexus RX 350, MacBook and Gucci wears) and pad you will not collect the money because you wan prove say you be man?

Remijuice:
No need to end anything officially since you're not married.

Start another relationship with another guy. Give other guys a chance in your life. Your reason should be that he is not caring and romantic.

Since he's not taking care of your financial needs find another Maga..

Rozcol:
Please help my friend suggest very good flimsy escuses to dump her hardcore stingy but very good boyfriend.

He's very good on all other aspects but his stinginess is beyond human comprehension and my friend don't want to appear as been materialistic.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was when she demanded if he could get her pads and some few stuff on his way to her place and when he eventually bought and brought the items to her, he calculated everything he bought and was waiting to be paid which she eventually did and imagine he got the nerves to collect the money from my friend (Just some few thousands), he's very rich so brokenness is out of it.

We've exhausted all the escuses we thought would work out to dump him but he somehow have ways around them (very annoying) and my friend wants to be diplomatic. Please your suggestions are highly welcomed. Thanks