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Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by Nobody: 9:12am On Jun 12, 2021
Married people please gist us

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by Belial06: 9:13am On Jun 12, 2021
Spend less time on nairaland opening pointless immature childish threads and spend more time in the real world learning and developing yourself

Grow up

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by Made619(m): 9:17am On Jun 12, 2021
stay single....

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by Draslo(m): 9:17am On Jun 12, 2021
Belial06:
Spend less time on nairaland opening pointless immature childish threads and spend more time in the real world learning and developing yourself

Grow up
Shut up, this isn't immature or pointless.

The best advice I ever received from a married man is to open a trust fund for your kids' education even before you meet their mother.

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by Nobody: 9:18am On Jun 12, 2021
Belial06:
Spend less time on nairaland opening pointless immature childish threads and spend more time in the real world learning and developing yourself

Grow up
Are you in zoom or Nairaland?

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by Writendearn: 9:19am On Jun 12, 2021
Well as an single dude who’s aspiring to one day have a long lasting marriage, and who has been in a relationship for almost 3 years W/o breaking up one time, which is a feat when I compare my relationship with single and married dudes around me, I say don’t get married at all grin

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by Belial06: 9:19am On Jun 12, 2021
Draslo:

Shut up, this isn't immature or pointless.

The best advice I ever received from a married man is to open a trust fund for your kids' education even before you meet their mother.

You talk too much this is why ladies dislike you
Grow up and stop spending time on nairaland

Grow up and learn to shut up
You are a man

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by dacblogger: 9:36am On Jun 12, 2021
Don marry...it's just too stressful.

Or if you choose to marry ,DNT expect anything from your partner...go in there with strong mind or you will die of heartbreak.

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by Draslo(m): 9:39am On Jun 12, 2021
Belial06:


You talk too much this is why ladies dislike you
Grow up and stop spending time on nairaland

Grow up and learn to shut up
You are a man
Get out!

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by Belial06: 9:42am On Jun 12, 2021
Draslo:

Get out!

I am just saying. You don't need advise you need to grow up and learn how to be a man.

Stop talking too much

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by Draslo(m): 9:45am On Jun 12, 2021
Belial06:


I am just saying. You don't need advise you need to grow up and learn how to be a man.

Stop talking too much
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Advise - Verb
Advice - Noun.

Now f**k off back into the cave you emerged from and stop derailing the thread.

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by Belial06: 9:49am On Jun 12, 2021
Draslo:
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Advise - Verb
Advice - Noun.

Now f**k off back into the cave you emerged from and stop derailing the thread.

Well looking at how fast you escalated to ghetto mode I was right.

I am sure women dislike you with a passion grin

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by VlamesIffect(f): 2:38pm On Jun 12, 2021
The 2 people above me abeg let's pick a place & time.

E dun tey wey i see person collect blow for face....

I just wan watch fight.

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by mosdii(m): 3:24pm On Jun 12, 2021
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by gentleibraheem(m): 3:33pm On Jun 12, 2021
mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them


Wetin dey worry this guy cheesy cheesy
Same comment on every thread which girl break your heart

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by AishaYesufu: 7:38pm On Jun 14, 2021
Don't be a feminist.

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by Ficient: 8:00pm On Jun 14, 2021
Make sure the friendship bond is very strong, don't marry bcuz of big yansh

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by Ficient: 8:03pm On Jun 14, 2021
mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Asawo period wen you dey always drink na him dey worry you

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by Omuuvwie(m): 9:58pm On Jun 14, 2021
Any girl that the parents didn't not give you concent to marry free her or maybe they are dragging unnecessary issue leave their pikin for them jeje and walk away, you will certainly see your match or type. my 50 cent

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by Omuuvwie(m): 9:59pm On Jun 14, 2021
Any girl that the parents didn't not give you concent to marry free her or maybe they are dragging unnecessary issue leave their pikin for them jeje and walk away, you will certainly see your match or type. my 50 cent

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by Lamanii22(f): 10:52pm On Jun 14, 2021
Marry who you love and find attractive..... It's not always rosy... Learn to tolerate your spouse... And to the ladies sex is always different after a baby... The dryness no be here oo.... And to the guys there are other ways to be intimate with your wife after a baby other than sex... Above all put God in your marriage...

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by Panacea278: 11:14pm On Jun 14, 2021
Marry who gives you peace of mind.

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by Xilsbridalhouse(f): 12:04am On Jun 15, 2021
Pray

My dear, do not marry just anyone all because you are due for marriage, otherwise you’d see anyhow.
Before accepting to marry anyone, please and please involve the Author of marriage and our creator who knows the person you want to be with 100% and while doing this, work on yourself as well and pray to be a better spouse for your partner.

1. Do not fornicate with your partner before going into that marriage o! The accuser is always looking for opened doors to accuse you before God. Thank God we are serving a Merciful God but He is also a Consuming Fire.

2. God is not an author of confusion, so He won’t give you someone you are not compatible with! Watch out for compatibility as this would be necessary for peace to reign in your home.

For instance, I wouldn’t advise an introvert to marry an extrovert if you can’t handle his or her moving around, just stay off!

3. Ladies be submissive and respectful o! Dump all those feminists talks at your father’s house as no man will tolerate your rudeness, being disrespectful and nagging like wetin I no know!
Treat your husband like a King, trust me that is his MuMu Button o! Treat him like a king and he’d be willing to do just about anything for you.

4. Pray! This should be like your top most priority in that marriage. Don’t be on social media all day, go down on your knees for few hours and pray as a couple. Pray together please, as this is the unity the devil is fearful of. When two or more people....you know the rest. Pray together o!

5. Kill pride and be extremely humble. Stories like, he offended me so he has to apologize first should be left in your church bin after the ceremony biko! Don’t keep malice oooo...I repeat, do not and never keep malice! Forget pride, just walk to hubby or wife and start bombarding him or her with kisses and hugs, whether you are at fault or not. Be childish, tell Your spouse to carry you like a baby, pull a childish stunt to get your spouse attention and let peace reign. It is for your own good o! Don’t be forming I can keep malice for 200 years, na bitterness and sadness go finish you.
Also learn to forgive like a child. Don’t say things like, I need time to forgive you...which time biko? Unless of course he is a cheat and a wife beater, then you might forgive but I understand emotionally things can’t go back to normal. But once you pray for the right spouse, God will fight for you.

6. No room for Laziness in marriage darlings! You are Lazy? Dirty? Go work on yourselves now! You can’t enjoy such marriage. Also assist each other, wives are not slaves so men do what you have to do as a loving husband and how a king treats his queen.

7. Ehhhhh!!!! Third party Hian! Don’t try it!!! Erm “ I’ll report you to your Mom, Dad, Sister, Brother, Friend etc ...” eh! Don’t try it o! You only need God to resolve your issues. No single outsider should know what is going on in your marriage o! Quickly settle things before it gets out of hands.

8. Erm “My best friend is coming, My friends are coming “ ughhhh! Which nonsense friends? Better shut your home against friends if you want peace of mind. Not literally in a rude way, but there should be no form of closeness again, you are now married! Men! I understand you like to hang out with your friends but limit this as you are no longer a boy! You are now a man with responsibilities, so spend your time on productive things.

9. Be a good example. Treat each other in a way that you’d be grateful to God for bringing you two together. Communicate often, be each other’s best friend, look at situations from two angles and not just yours, correct each other with love, Study the word of God together and discuss your flaws and how to work on your flaws together. Laugh more and frown little or at all. Be an example of how a Christian home should be.

10. Don’t cheat on your spouse as all I have stated would totally be a waste of time if you do this. You won’t even escape God’s punishment and your life would remain sour unless you repent.
Don’t cheat on your spouse o!

10b. Ahhhh Finance! How could I have skipped this shocked Ladies and Gentlemen, this is one of the major Koko in marriage o! Wives be like “ I can’t spend my money o” mostly after getting sick advice and Lori iro advice from fake friends! Hubby be like, “pay me back that money you borrowed from me” shior! Mtchew!!!!
If you can’t handle having a joint account, not with a cheat o! Those cheats will spend your money on side chicks and side boos, that’s why it’s essential you pray like Elijah before accepting to marry anyone biko! Nothing is more sweet like having a joint account with your spouse with super understanding and same spending lifestyles! You will so enjoy this marriage ehn! Especially if you both are not materialistic and would rather invest than buy overrated Aso ebis!
Ladies, this is majorly for you! Who told you that man is your ATM? You work, he works but your money is for yourself in particular ? What happened to being joined as ONE? Why would you watch your hubby suffer while you have more than enough to support him with even if you don’t want a joint account. I’m begging you please, do not leave financial responsibilities to men only! They are not robots na! Work hard, improve on yourselves, pray to God for creation of wealth opportunities, Be each other’s support pillar, don’t frustrate and fight over money issues. You must understand that you are no longer different individuals but now ONE.
Men if your spouse agreed to submit her salary or profits to you, and you spend such money on useless things like giving one side chick girl that is playing mind tricks on you or you trying to get in her pants....I hope you know God will forget you and no one will help you.
Don’t fight over finance please, and if you need to do things 50-50, do it peacefully and if you as a husband you are capable of shouldering all the responsibilities please do it without feeling like a god.


I have so much to say but I pray the Holy Spirit leads you right and help you to speak when you should, act right and stay mute when you should, also do not forget your in-laws are important! Treat them like your blood even if this is a bit stressful, God will definitely find a way to reward you and there is nothing we ask our Dear Father in Heaven that He won’t do. For instance you could say, “Daddy, I’m stressed could you please make my brother in-law to stop acting irresponsible “ and He will answer you.

God bless you as you invite Jesus into your home.

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by zoedew: 12:04am On Jun 15, 2021
Accord God His place in your individual and shared lives. Have value for the other person. Don’t have premarital sex. Premarital sex is an agent of devaluation! Marriage is essentially a shared life. That is why scriptures say two becomes one. Intentionally share your lives! All things considered, marriage is worth celebrating!

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by Flier: 12:04am On Jun 15, 2021
If you are a lady, try to get married between the age of 21-26 if you meet a very serious man.DO NOT PROCASTINATE,you might never find the right man again (this is your pick DO NOT WASTE IT)
If you are man,... try get a stable high paying job and try to make as much money as possible before you get married

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by mrsage(m): 12:04am On Jun 15, 2021
Watching
Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by SilkyKolaSyrup(f): 12:05am On Jun 15, 2021
Vote wisely come 2023. We Don too suffer

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by neyyoh: 12:05am On Jun 15, 2021
Inflation is your worst enemy, fight it with all your might!

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by todaynewsreview: 12:05am On Jun 15, 2021
Tolerance, patience, understanding

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Re: Married People: What Advice Do You Have For Singles? by sanmtiago(m): 12:06am On Jun 15, 2021
Nigerian girls are useless

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