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Re: Tired Of My Marriage by Ben404040: 9:43pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
It's a big cross that you ve carried. Fortunately or unfortunately your wife is the first daughter. There z nothing you can do at this time. They are always over caring. They most at times carry the burden of the family on their shoulders. They ll just need your support. You are actually an answered prayer to someone/ somepeople. She will choose her family if it comes to that. Just work hard and pray you have more money to feed a nation. You will also be getting blessings from giving. You are lucky they are many, see them as your own too. Like my grandma will say...he that feeds a belly saves a life. Thank God na just food they are eating. In my cousins case, the brothers fought him too. On another note, you would have seen this before marriage too. My girlfriend does same thing. She works too. Salary finishes before month end. Now I am making plans to have 2 of them busy with school and skills. 1 Like |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by Daniety(m): 9:43pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Ninobraw: Hahahahahahah i know but keep ON enjoy her comfort pls because she your wife there is noting you can do about it's |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by LOKOLESCO(m): 9:43pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
I prayed to almighty Allah that he should provide enough wealth for you cos when there is enough money,u wont even bother.don't blame the family of your wife cos u see them before you married your wife. |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by Joseph08(m): 9:43pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Make I laugh small first That's part of marriage my guy, you knew the family background before entering the marriage proper didn't you? Your wife's siblings are now part of your family also, so chasing them away or frowning your face whenever they visit sends a bad signal to their parents and your wife won't be happy with you at all. My little advice sit your wife down and explain the situation calmly in a way she would understand, so she can caution them on how to visit. Nothing last forever a time will come when you will relocate and it won't be easy for them to come as usual. For better for worse no be for mouth o 1 Like |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by Abfinest007(m): 9:44pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Ninobraw:honest reply bros move to a distance place |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by Cruziero75: 9:44pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Kuku fry him, e be tinz Sapa nice one Xenry: |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by sgtponzihater1(m): 9:44pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Shouldn't ideally end your marriage because of food. Anyone that visit me should be able to eat and he/she likes. Feed people with joy is a secret to wealth, but with grudge, then the burden piles. 1 Like |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by Successmind(m): 9:45pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
I laugh like lion. |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by ThatFairGuy: 9:45pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Why una dey eat like elephant HONESTFACT101: |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by emonis88: 9:45pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
HONESTFACT101:So na u dey go chop d guy food finish abi? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by tellwisdom: 9:45pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Bola146: 2 Likes |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by Cutehector(m): 9:45pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Icumsa45:thats how one wanted to trick me into marrying her , she says she wants to settle her siblings first.. Omo i run. Before you know it, na me go turn to UNICEF 2 Likes |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by Yankee101: 9:45pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Oga your problem is not the family, pray to earn more money. If you don't have enough resources to have free food available for a few extra people in need in your house, it's poverty. Ask God for more resources, not divorce. 2 Likes |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by BareFacedLies(m): 9:46pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Slimdan360: So he should bankrupt himself because he wants to be generous? |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by OvaSabi1(f): 9:46pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
You need to think properly. If you relocate, they will find an excuse to travel down to where you are. When next they come around, sit them down and ask them how school is going for them and what they're up to. Suggest they try to learn a skill/handwork and profer business and academic advise to them. Tailors for example are always booked, busy and running away from customers because of the workload especially those who are really good. Is it that type who will now have time to be visiting people upandan? The best thing is to talk to your sister and both of you should talk to them about finding one hustle or the other to keep them busy. People are saying that it is poverty. See, those family members will compete with your children. When my brother's wife died you need to see how her sisters rushed to come and pack her bags and shoes. They were also coming to the house to take some of the children's things before my brother remarried. The presence of a new woman was what stopped them from coming to take things from the house. Even if you were a billionaire this would still happen. 1 Like |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by IFSHR: 9:46pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Relocate to a place where the tfare is like 2000 to and fro. |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by duality(m): 9:46pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
xavuv: And when there's none you do what You starve you immediate family? At what point did your parents stopped feeding you. |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Change ur mentality op . stop seeing ur family menbers around u as people who are there to consume your food. food is nothing op. am nt sure u even lov ur wife. do u knw that these are family menbres, and that you wil not always have them around you. be wise op, think like a matured man. 4 Likes |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by Femeto: 9:47pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
For better for worse. You didn't only marry your wife you also married her family. |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by uuzba(m): 9:47pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
ebuclassic18:Which kine it's part of marriage? Oya they should bring their own toto when he wants to do that thing na, as them don put their hand inside him marry complete. |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by TruthinAction: 9:48pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Discus with your wife how you both can empower a few of them to own their own businesses. Tell her you don't want them to keep coming to the house to eat. You can help from a distance. They should work with their hands no matter how small the business is. |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by MaaziIgbokwe(m): 9:48pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Op.....This is a cross you have to carry, the lord will grease your elbow... Overpopulation has done more harm to Nigeria than bad government 2 Likes |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by Nobody: 9:48pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Choi see as local man dn tire |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by Cutehector(m): 9:48pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
IFSHR:2000naira? Thats small.. They should relocate to niger state. Let me see how they will travel and meet him. 1 Like |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by AuroraB(f): 9:49pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Ninobraw:If your wife weren't earning money, you'd have flogged her back to her parent's. Bros, even if you were rich, you'll still feel this way about your in-laws, nekwe gi 1 Like |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by duality(m): 9:49pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Yankee101: You people just throw around the word " poverty" like clowns. 3 Likes |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by nanauju(f): 9:49pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
okoroemeka: Please keep quiet! Because your own don ready ready no mean say another person own no go done Be humble |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by Cutehector(m): 9:49pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
BareFacedLies:no mind them..it is easy for them to spew rubbish on public forum without thinking through |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by Hushmoni: 9:50pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
The fact is that your the one that is poor, it's better you accept that, why must you be complaining of your in-law eating what you have. It's better you leave their sister for them, I can see that she's the one feeding you. MUGU |
Re: Tired Of My Marriage by adecz: 9:50pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
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Re: Tired Of My Marriage by Seunhezy: 9:51pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
This one na everyday na,,,there are many things that kills faster than death itself okoroemeka: |
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