You must be covered head to toe when out in public.
You have absolutely no rights at all.
Your husband can have as many wifes as he wishes.
You get stoned to death should you commit adultary.
In a divorce you get nothing, not even your kids.
You cannot be out unescorted.
You cannot worship in the same room with your men.
You have no say in the day to day events in your country.
You cannot hold political office.
You cannot hold an outside job.
You cannot have a career.
You must do whatever your husband tells you without question.
You are the housekeeper/mother/wife/cook/sexual object all rolled into one.
You have as many children as your husband wants.
If your husband tires of you, you can lose everything.
He can use you as a human shield like Osama Bin Laden did.

Isn't being a Muslim woman great?

it sure beats letting the two bad boys 'all hang out' for every tom jones to see.

i know purestboy wants a peep show.

hi purestboy
i think u re a fool for wat u posted here
if u don't know anything about Muslim way of life,
why embarrass urselve

Haraam; Forbidden.

How many things we do in Islam that is anchored to this word; Haraam?

In salah, the first Takbiyat [raising of hand to begin the salah], is Takbiyat Al Hiram [The Haraam]. When Allahu Akbar is uttered at the raising of the hand, you can't eat or talk or indulge in anything that is not part of the Salah. if you do, the salah is nullified.

In Hajj and or Umrah, you begin it by wearing the 'Hiram' cloth [The Haraam]. From the time you put on this 'Al Hiram', you can not purposely remove a single strand of hair from your body or indulge in vain talk or be angry, etc. It is a beginning of your actually beginning the Hajj and or Umrah.

In a relationship among mankind, Harem to a person, male or female is person that you are definitely not permissible [forbidden as in Al Haraam] to have sexual relationship with. A father is a Harem to his mother, his sister, his aunt, daughter, his niece, while before he married his wife he was harem to her, his stepdaughter, his daughter inlaw, his mother inlaw, etc. All the women listed above were his harem, and his wife stopped being his harem the moment they got married.

The son of a woman, her brother, her uncle, her father, her son inlaw, her nephew, etc and her future husband until she marries him is harem [Haraam forbidden] to her.

When your harem, in either gender reaches the age of sexual consciousness, there is no reason for you to see the unclothedness of each other. Even the people in the same gender, there are parts of the body that is haraam to everyone. the only people who have the biggest allowance to each other are husband and wife.

so i am wondering what is wrong with harem [the way turks pronounce Haraam] which sets up the boundary for decency?

PurestBoy:

You must be covered head to toe when out in public.
You have absolutely no rights at all.
Your husband can have as many wifes as he wishes.
You get stoned to death should you commit adultary.
In a divorce you get nothing, not even your kids.
You cannot be out unescorted.
You cannot worship in the same room with your men.
You have no say in the day to day events in your country.
You cannot hold political office.
You cannot hold an outside job.
You cannot have a career.
You must do whatever your husband tells you without question.
You are the housekeeper/mother/wife/cook/intimate object all rolled into one.
You have as many children as your husband wants.
If your husband tires of you, you can lose everything.
He can use you as a human shield like Osama Bin Laden did.

Isn't being a Muslim woman great?

some pple writtin will judge dem into hell,though am not a muslim but i know much about d religion cos most of my friends r muslim and they r very simple,this thread is stinking and irritative,i believe purestboy wil found himself in hell cos of dis,hypocrite

PurestBoy:

You must be covered head to toe when out in public.
You have absolutely no rights at all.
Your husband can have as many wifes as he wishes.
You get stoned to death should you commit adultary.
In a divorce you get nothing, not even your kids.
You cannot be out unescorted.
You cannot worship in the same room with your men.
You have no say in the day to day events in your country.
You cannot hold political office.
You cannot hold an outside job.
You cannot have a career.
You must do whatever your husband tells you without question.

You are the housekeeper/mother/wife/cook/intimate object all rolled into one.
You have as many children as your husband wants.
If your husband tires of you, you can lose everything.
He can use you as a human shield like Osama Bin Laden did.

Isn't being a Muslim woman great?

hey dummie,do u know that is in the bible also?

@lepasharon that's why the bible is just as sexist and repulsive and very barbaric attack on women by men.

Mr purest Boy u never know what islam means. Islam protect the rights of women beyond ur understanding. We respect our women and live a better and fulfilling life with them. Almighty Allah said in the Glorious Qur'an: "wa ashiruhunna bil ma'aruf". Meaning: "treat all ur (women) well. The Messenger of God said, The most perfect of believers in belief is the best of them in character.  The best of you are those who are the best to their women.’ The Prophet of Mercy tells us that a husband’s treatment of his wife reflects a Muslim’s good character, which in turn is a reflection of the man’s faith.  How can a Muslim husband be good to his wife?  He should smile, not hurt her emotionally, remove anything that will harm her, treat her gently, and be patient with her.

Being nice includes good communication.  A husband should be willing to open up, and be willing to listen to his wife.  Many times a husband wants to air his frustrations (like work).  He should not forget to ask her about what annoys her (like when children would not do their homework).  A husband should not talk about important things with her when he or his wife is angry, tired, or hungry.  Communication, compromise, and consideration are the cornerstone of marriage.

Being nice includes encouraging one’s wife.  The most meaningful admiration comes from a sincere heart that notices what really matters — what the wife really values.  So a husband should ask himself what she feels most insecure about and discover what she values.  That is the wife’s sweet spot of praise.  The more the husband compliments it, the more the wife will admire it, the more on target this healthy habit will be.  Kind words are like, "I like the way you think," "You look beautiful in those clothes," and "I love hearing your voice on the phone."

Human beings are imperfect.  The Messenger of God said, "A believing man should not hate a believing woman.  If he dislikes something in her character, he should be pleased with some other trait of hers." A man should not hate his wife because if he dislikes something in her, he will find something he likes about her if he gives it a chance.  One way to be aware of what he likes in his wife is for the husband to make a list of a half dozen things he appreciates about her.  Marriage experts recommend that one be as specific as possible and focus on character traits — just as the Prophet of Islam recommended, not just what she does for the husband.  For example, a husband may appreciate the way she arranges his clean laundry, but the underlying character trait may be that she is thoughtful.  The husband should consider admirable traits such as being compassionate, generous, kind, devout, creative, elegant, honest, affectionate, energetic, gentle, optimistic, committed, faithful, confident, cheerful, and so on.  A husband should give himself some time to construct this list, and review it in times of conflict when he is most likely to feel averse towards his wife.  It will help him be more aware of his wife’s good attributes and far more likely to compliment them.

A companion asked the Prophet of God what is the right of a wife over her husband?’  He said, "That you feed her when you eat and clothe her when you clothe yourself and do not strike her face.  Do not malign her and do not keep apart from her, except in the house."

Conflict in marriage is virtually inevitable and it leads to lot of anger.  Although anger is one of the most difficult emotions to manage, the first step toward controlling it can be learning how to forgive those who hurt us.  In case of conflict, a husband should not stop talking to his wife and emotionally hurt her, but he may stop sleeping in the same bed if it will improve the situation.  Under no circumstance, even when he is angry or somehow feels justified, is a husband allowed to malign her by using hurtful words or cause her any injury.


Mr. Purest boy it seems like u are a pagan that's why u are accusing muslims about these issues.

Zeezahbee and YourMain come read dis

PurestBoy:
You must be covered head to toe when out in public.
You have absolutely no rights at all.
Your husband can have as many wifes as he wishes.
You get stoned to death should you commit adultary.
In a divorce you get nothing, not even your kids.
You cannot be out unescorted.
You cannot worship in the same room with your men.
You have no say in the day to day events in your country.
You cannot hold political office.
You cannot hold an outside job.
You cannot have a career.
You must do whatever your husband tells you without question.
You are the housekeeper/mother/wife/cook/sexual object all rolled into one.
You have as many children as your husband wants.
If your husband tires of you, you can lose everything.
He can use you as a human shield like Osama Bin Laden did.

Isn't being a Muslim woman great?

I call it 'Torture' in disguise

From all your long epistle, this got me curious

YaseerGombe:


A companion asked the Prophet of God what is the RIGHT of a wife over her husband?’ He said, "That you feed her WHEN YOU EAT and clothe her when you clothe yourself and do not strike her face. Do not malign her and do not keep apart from her, except in the house."

So according to your prophet (as quoted by you above):

1. The wife has to starve when the husband does not eat right?

2. The husband is to provide clothing for the wife only when he has first done same for himself right?

3. The husband is permitted to strike his wife, so long as it is not on her face right?

4. The husband is free to keep apart from his wife indoors right?

lolafowowe:
hi purestboy
i think u re a fool for wat u posted here
if u don't know anything about Muslim way of life,
why embarrass urselve

How can a lady like u use such insulting language. . Didn't ur muslim parents teach u good manners. .apologize to the op and explain to him where u think he is wrong. ..

The Qur'an advocates the beating of wives who are perceived
to be misbehaving.
Qur'an - 4:34 Men are the protectors and maintainers of women,
because Allâh has made one of them to excel the other, and because
they spend (to support them) from their means. Therefore the
righteous women are devoutly obedient (to Allâh and to their
husbands), and guard in the husband's absence what Allâh orders
them to guard (e.g. their chastity, their husband's property, etc.).
As to those women on whose part you see ill-conduct, admonish them
(first), (next), refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat them
(lightly, if it is useful), but if they return to obedience, seek not
against them means (of annoyance). Surely, Allâh is Ever Most High,
Most Great.

Before u start singing this is misinterpretion let's look at how others ttanslated it


Eg ALIM CDRom translations
Asad –beat,
Malik- beat
Pickthall –scourge
Ali- beat
USC site
Yusufali –beat
Pichthall –scourge
Shakir –beat
The free Saudi versionof the Koran also has BEAT
Robert Spencer also includes these :
Al-Hilali/Khan: “(and last) beat them (lightly, if it is useful)”
Sher Ali: “and chastise them”
Khalifa: “then you may (as a last alternative) beat them”
Arberry: “and beat them”
Rodwell: “and scourge them”
Sale: “and chastise them”
Daryabadi: "and beat them"
Pickthall, Yusuf Ali, Al-Hilali/Khan, Malik, Shakir, Sher Ali, Khalifa, Daryabadi and Asad are Muslims. Are their translations all "incorrect and offensive"? (reference)

Note: chastise means punish, thrash, inflict corporal punishment and scourge means whip, lash etc (Encyclopedic World Dictionary 1971, The Australian concise Oxford Dictionary 1987).

For more information on the cruel treatment of women by their prophet click

https://www.nairaland.com/2141191/muslim-women-ur-husbands-like