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Re: Why Am I Treating My Wife Like This� by CsRockefeller(m): 10:23am On Jun 16, 2021 |
CharisEleos: Not entirely true. People change, their body adjusts as they grow older. I have seen some of my female course mates of 10 years ago, people I was "dying to be with" but today, they aren't too appealing anymore. In fact, I saw my ex of 10 years ago and o boy! She has over expanded. I love them slim without too much flesh, the lady I hope to be with is slim, but I know very soon it won't be the same so I'm trying hard to see beyond the beauty so that when that time comes, I don't fall out of love. As for me, I've basically improved in looks since then too, do a lot of exercise and added small flesh, I look fit but that cannot be said of the women in my age group. 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I Treating My Wife Like This� by Nobody: 11:26am On Jun 16, 2021 |
yum01: Ah.. oga Op, I'm sorry I didn't mean to throw shades at you but was only replying the moniker that mentioned me. This thing is, the did is done and what you need now is self discipline and control to manage the situation. Otherwise you might live to regret it. Now, from what you just divulged about being a virgin and not doing all that dating stuff is the major cause of your recent behavior because since you never had the chance to play the dating game, your body feels kinda "underdiscovered" and now seeks to discover and go into that adventure it was deprived of as a youth. So now, you're doing what you ought to have done to satisfy your youthful exuberance before marriage at a wrong time. Just pray to God for grace to lead a decent married life. It is easy in Jesus name. 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I Treating My Wife Like This� by Nobody: 11:31am On Jun 16, 2021 |
CsRockefeller: To you, you are working to keep shape but what you don't know is, no matter the amount of exercise you do, you can never look the same way you did ten years ago. So for all you know, some of those girls may be viewing you differently and you may not really look that dashing to them like before . 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I Treating My Wife Like This� by CsRockefeller(m): 2:52pm On Jun 16, 2021 |
CharisEleos: At least, we both agree on something. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Am I Treating My Wife Like This� by Vyolet(f): 6:38pm On Jun 16, 2021 |
I can bet you would find your wife attractive as soon as other guys begin to hit on her to your knowledge. Can you sincerely ask her to go out and have fun with some other guy? Would you feel jealous of not? Cheating is in you , accept that and have peace,it is not about your wife's physical attribute, it is about you. Brolosho 2 Likes |
Re: Why Am I Treating My Wife Like This� by Reasonwithme2(m): 6:40pm On Jun 16, 2021 |
yum01: I like the fact that you acknowledge you are at fault, The reason why you don't feel attracted to your wife is because of a decline in your spiritual Life. Forget all those people telling you it's normal, it's not normal and it's a big sin, you violated one of the ten commandments. Seek forgiveness from God, and go back to your spiritual Life, when looks doesn't matter, you would definitely feel peace. You are a good man, that's why it hurts you when you are doing wrong, so stop the acts, be more spiritual and carry your wife along if she isn't, everything will be alright.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I Treating My Wife Like This� by iamL(f): 4:41pm On Jun 17, 2021 |
Rozcol: No, Not confused but hypocrites, they condem runs babes but maintain them as side chicks. |
Re: Why Am I Treating My Wife Like This� by iamL(f): 4:47pm On Jun 17, 2021 |
loffyloffy: U too much. |
Re: Why Am I Treating My Wife Like This� by iamL(f): 4:54pm On Jun 17, 2021 |
Nazgul: So those that love slim, tall beautiful girls and got them as mate their home is peaceful abi? And those ladies that prefers tall husband their home is perfect abi? That your friend is a potential cheater am sure she must have cheated on poor husband by now. |
Re: Why Am I Treating My Wife Like This� by Mstick: 8:05am On Jun 18, 2021 |
You're literally on a thread of a man that has fallen in love with his mistress and you still made this comment!? Am guessing you copied this comment and couldn't wait to use it. Ogbotobo77: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Am I Treating My Wife Like This� by Ogbotobo77(m): 8:44pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
Mstick:My post wasn't centered on him falling in love..rather it's on why men have an abundance mindset and why loyalty is relative for both men and women |
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