When you think you have seen enough, another emerges. A friend of mine has a roomie (who, he thinks, is a friend) with whom he shares a room for 3 years. According to him, the roomie left with a bag on a Friday evening & when he asked to know where he was heading, he told him that he's just going to spend the night with his girlfriend & in the bag were some clothes for laundry. It was not his first time going to spend even the weekends with his girlfriend, so my guy saw no need making a mountain out of molehill. Only to find out on Sunday that the roomie held a marriage ceremony on Saturday with pictures & IVs confirmation. He called him on phone & he begged for forgiveness that he would explain to him when he returns. My guy didn't wait for his return before he left with his belongings. What I do not really like is that he had to leave the environment (where they both hustle) & returned home, but then he is a soft-hearted person who can't handle a betrayal. He feels he's not safe being around such a person because they had so much plans together.

The Roomate relationship is a strong one. If you can live under the same roof with someone and share the same bed, you two are basically siblings.

I support him moving out but, anything for his peace of mind and sanity.

But it's not worth leaving the place he hustles.