Wow, but at least she still showed signs of loving you back then right? I'm just totally fed up with this, as if I'm forcing myself on her, the feelings have just died down. So how did you two get back together?

seunny4lif:
I swear mine cut off communication for 4 mouth out of 2 years
Mine was just pure wickedness and she told me herself after we got together
Fear women and she was young.
She was only 19 years then
I do catch them young

Good write up....had to read it twice

Ategberoson:
for guy it doesn't matter how long once you've test her, abeg no marry someone you've not tested in many ways


Test: when she needed cash and you've the cash, sometimes pretend you don't have but show concerns, her reaction will judge the level of her endurance, also test the Level of her fantasy, loyalty and responsibilities. once she passed then take her to the altar


for the lady, the time matters because men can be complex sometimes, we love to be care for and when you're dating a guy and she met another caring but cunning lady, you could lose such guy


so before entertaining the guy with your pussy, ensure she's not demanding for your body than his readiness to settle down with you.


if you're dating a guy that's proposing marriage to you and he's not showing you his family and not willing to meet your family within 3-4months in the relationship, just know you're a sex toyy in his hand



finally, if your guy is financially fine, capable of taking care of a home and he's not showing a sign of settling down, no matter how young you might be as a lady. you're with a well to do guy for more than 2 years and up to 2years and he's not showing readiness of settling down, you're only investing on nothing

seunny4lif:
I had a long distance relationship for 2 years and it’s was crazy
Calling her and if she is not picking can cause a lot of 2 weeks fighting.
Mine will be online on FB and yet wouldn’t pick my calls or call me.
I was in love but it was driving me crazy

Fast forward to a 1 year later again, I promised myself, not to call her again and I deleted all her contacts on my phone but only for me to broke my promises, I was calling and texting her for not picking.
It’s was hell.
Fast forward
I wicked her back by get married and having my own family

Wetin una dey think
Na her I marry oooh and we have 3 kids now.
God forbid I do long distance relationship again
That thing was a punishment jooor

You still had the guts to marry her? Do you know how many abortions she has done while she was away? Do you know how many time those two guys has slept with her? You made a mistake bruh .

What keeps you in long relationship?

The question is, what would you guys be discussing in 2 years and not talk about marriage?

It’s was worst then you think oooh
Everyday I questioned her like does she still at least like me?
I was the one always calling like mad, I called it quit many times and her replied are always OK
Like she will said OK
No other words
No fighting
No insult
Just OK
I taya self
She changed later oooh but I almost lost faith

Emeraldfynest:
Wow, but at least she still showed signs of loving you back then right? I'm just totally fed up with this, as if I'm forcing myself on her, the feelings have just died down. So how did you two get back together?

Abortion ke
Guys sleep with her or not is not my problem as long as I don’t have full evidence.
What I don’t know will not kill me

nijaomegacode:

You still had the guts to marry her? Do you know how many abortions she has done while she was away? Do you know how many time those two guys has slept with her? You made a mistake bruh .

7 years.. By then they can't hide their characters anymore.

seunny4lif:
I had a long distance relationship for 2 years and it’s was crazy
Calling her and if she is not picking can cause a lot of 2 weeks fighting.
Mine will be online on FB and yet wouldn’t pick my calls or call me.
I was in love but it was driving me crazy

Fast forward to a 1 year later again, I promised myself, not to call her again and I deleted all her contacts on my phone but only for me to broke my promises, I was calling and texting her for not picking.
It’s was hell.
Fast forward
I wicked her back by get married and having my own family

Wetin una dey think
Na her I marry oooh and we have 3 kids now.
God forbid I do long distance relationship again
That thing was a punishment jooor

Wicked her by getting married and having a family . You don't wicked people by getting married to another dude.

Wow, just exactly my situation. I'm waiting to see her reaction though. But whatever she says, I've made up my mind. Its not healthy to be in love with a girl more than she is with you.

seunny4lif:
It’s was worst then you think oooh
Everyday I questioned her like does she still at least like me?
I was the one always calling like mad, I called it quit many times and her replied are always OK
Like she will said OK
No other words
No fighting
No insult
Just OK
I taya self
She changed later oooh but I almost lost faith

What I know is if she is yours then no matter what happens, you will be together.
I have never been in any relationship longer than 6 months but this one carry me
I have been into diff ones and I call it quit faster than speed of light but this hold my neck.
Now na me dey do shakara

Emeraldfynest:
Wow, just exactly my situation. I'm waiting to see her reaction though. But whatever she says, I've made up my mind. Its not healthy to be in love with a girl more than she is with you.

You should know that what just adding fun to it

Exodora:

Wicked her by getting married and having a family . You don't wicked people by getting married to another dude.

Dated a guy for 4 years and 3 months. He cheated on me twice (the ones i know). I noticed that anytime we talk about introduction, he keeps on posting me.
I blocked his family members numbers on my phone, blocked him and relocated to another town.

My neighbor told me that he started to date his (now wife) girlfriend in 2002 and they got married in 2019. I was surprised because they lived in the same Lagos untill he started working outside lagos in 2018. My kidbro I'd almost 10years into a relationship and he doesn't look like he's going to marry this year.

So, me, I can't answer this question. I'm not much of a woman guy.

seunny4lif:
I had a long distance relationship for 2 years and it’s was crazy
Calling her and if she is not picking can cause a lot of 2 weeks fighting.
Mine will be online on FB and yet wouldn’t pick my calls or call me.
I was in love but it was driving me crazy

Fast forward to a 1 year later again, I promised myself, not to call her again and I deleted all her contacts on my phone but only for me to broke my promises, I was calling and texting her for not picking.
It’s was hell.
Fast forward
I wicked her back by get married and having my own family

Wetin una dey think
Na her I marry oooh and we have 3 kids now.
God forbid I do long distance relationship again
That thing was a punishment jooor

You didn't wicked her, you did her a big favour. She played you and took you for granted.

You disappointed men. You simped on her.

Yeah, I disappointed guys by been married for almost 5 years
How is your girl friend

Reeberry:
You didn't wicked her, you did her a big favour. She played you and took you for granted.

You disappointed men. You simped on her.

Which one you give me?

seunny4lif:
Yeah, I disappointed guys by been married for almost 5 years
How is your girl friend

No time limit, someone I knw has been dating a girl for 12years.... Started dating since sec school

So, you no get any
Eeeya
Pele
Na Oloshos you dey carry
I will tell your pastor

Reeberry:
Which one you give me?

seunny4lif:
So, you no get any
Eeeya
Pele
Na Oloshos you dey carry
I will tell your pastor

No be person wey chop Belleful dey carry olosho these days, my brother.

Look for free money ones Abeg
Be a good friend in your street to girls, na my trick for Nigeria before be that

Reeberry:
No be person wey chop Belleful dey carry olosho these days, my brother.

You no serious. Me just dey low-key recently.

Money no dey.

seunny4lif:

Look for free money ones Abeg
Be a good friend in your street to girls, na my trick for Nigeria before be that

That method dey work well and I no dey spend on them
Good bed warning

Reeberry:
You no serious. Me just dey low-key recently.

Money no dey.

seunny4lif:
That method dey work well and I no dey spend on them
Good bed warning

You no need that level again na. Shebi you don marry?

Give me anyone you get, wey get big yansh.

I'm not just Lucky when it comes to relationship at all.

That’s was long time ago
I no get contact oooh because all don marry.
One must dey your street

Reeberry:
You no need that level again na. Shebi you don marry?

Give me anyone you get, wey get big yansh.

Idgaf long as it’s not toxic and with good sex

Blew seven years on that shiiiiiii called relationship.

Nowadays, commitment is kinda hard for the man even though we keep getting ladies who are tryna commited to see things work out.

If you can relate with 'It's Complicated by Wale' you should know how a nigga feel...

Nigerian girls are useless

You fit still get Na.

Na grandmas full my street. When last I see young ladies last?

seunny4lif:
That’s was long time ago
I no get contact oooh because all don marry.
One must dey your street

No go bang your awon Iya oooh

Reeberry:
You fit still get Na.

Na grandmas full my street. When last I see young ladies last?