Originalsly:
Bend the tree while it is young. Almost always ... parents are responsible for the path their children take.

chatinent:


No, that's why I don't know them.

yazga:
I fortunately we are bunch of hypocrites I'm Nigeria

NwaEzefuNaMba:


My brother, i have seen things with my eyes o. But if i recount my experience during my time as undergraduate eh, one may think i have beef with the other gender; but in all, there problem.
I came to realise why many men today are vowing not to marry graduates.

ney0hh:


What caused this to happen in your opinion.

Social media?

Bad role models?

Bad parenting?

Poverty?

Vinnie2000:



Simple!!
It's Peer Pressure and mostly Social media Influence!!..

Both Males n Females Now wants to be like Davido, Migos, Drake, Cardi B, Doja Cat, etc and their Papa nor get money oo..

They want to Live Thug Life they see in d Media, Drive Big Benz and Do Wild Stuffs, just to Show off to their friends!..

So, some get dier Hands Dirty e.g Chidinma..

Her dad was giving her money, but she claims dat d money was not enough!!
No, She wanted to be an Hot happening Babe!!!
She wanted to be like Nicki Minaj, Megan tha Stallion, JaneMena by Force!!
An Instagram Queen/Diva, wowing and slaying Men while intimidating other Girls that they are LowClass Inferior Chicks..

So Dats it!!
Doz 70's,80's and 90's Times, People were not so Influenced by Media to do some Bad Stuffs!!

KiNg0G:
Mahn..I ain't married... neither got no kids.

But still....I wanna have 3 boys.

When I do


Lawyer✓


Police✓

No footballar?


Slawomirr ✓ ( if you know you know)

KiNg0G:
Mahn..I ain't married... neither got no kids.

But still....I wanna have 3 boys.

When I do


Lawyer✓


Police✓


Slawomirr ✓ ( if you know you know)

PAGAN9JA:
Very well

CharisEleos:
Parents of nowadays don't even care to know their children

I remember growing up, my elder sisters then will tell my mum who their friends were, the men toasting them. The one they like and dislike. And my mum will always advise them accordingly.

We were the smallys, so we just sat and listened to them, also picking the advice my mum dished out to them.

I also remember, then my mum would question them if they came home with goodies like pizza or tasty fiesta then and until they explained to the letter, no body will eat it. But some parents will see their children with big phones, cars that they know the child can't afford, they'll keep mute. How will the child not climb to worst levels?

Forget this generation. Though there are still a few good ones but majority are the cause of the communication gap between them and their children. No body cares these days.

Frales6:
the truth is that those children portray to their parents the kind of character the parents want to see meanwhile the main behavior of that child is shown when the parents are not there. the parents don't bother to know how the children feel or what they really want, instead they the parents want the children to behave the way the parents want by all means. So many times the children go into depression, they can't communicate with their parents and that makes dem go to their so called friends. so if na good friend, the parents will be lucky but the na bad friend, the parents don enter one chance be that

Fiscus105:



Is it the generation that mother will tell her daughter who is yet to work ,to go out and get money where are peers are getting it.

Where father will be driving exotic car that his child gives him, a child who he still in sch without doing any known work aside schooling!

We are in generation where, when children enter University or starting having sex, parents won't be able to chastise him or her again.

akposking:
if I catch you one on one for that bed eeh. Chei am a good child ba.

IyaTola:
There is a major scam going out there and it's young people scamming their parents. The entire visage of Chidinma Ojukwu is a scam, her innocent look is a veil fo preying unsuspecting men and women, with such look she can take anyone to the cleaners and yea she started drugs at eleven years old.

Chidinma story that's lead to the question, how much of your children do you know? And guess what, today's children do not want us to know who they are. Who they say they are is not who they are. Very sad.

Today.....nah, there is a rebellion among the youth today towards tjeor parents that suggest that there was a long-standing quarrel for centuries between them and thwir parents. Conversation are far and and few between and what we have are agitation, argument & anger by the youth. Most Nigerian home see that.

All you need to see American youth challenge is to watch my favorite TV show, Judge Judy. All you need for Nigeria is to read the papers, the crime pages and go to the internet and your heart will be broken. Very few families are lucky to escape the thieves at night and in broad day light who steal our joy and turn our children against society and destroy themselves for good.

Chidinma is the symbol of this results. Let us begin. The internet, peer pressure, the Nigeria society's need to go big or go home. We worship money and our children aspire. The big boys who are living large, runs girls who make money from filth and their bodies who turn it into salons and lounges while laundering and the money.

Our kid think they worked hard in honest dealings and discover to late that is is something else. Drugs, pretence, poor role modeling, ostentation living, big and insane parties and Tv programmes and tell you it's okay. Lost values, modernity, imported values, poor judgement, absentee parenting, fake churches and religious orientation.

Rich kids living on borrowed time who splash the money on insanities and attract the Chidinma's of this world, thieves in suit whose only job is to party in Ghana and work in Nigeria, the Yahoo life poverty, poor educational systems, lack of time for the youth, broken down health system, boredom, broken homes and broken children. Adding up we have rape, sadist, child traffickers, armed robbers who need the likes of Chidinma's company, white collar thieves, yahoo plus and inordinate ambition


Except from Eugenia Abu's Tales from the main road

saphiere:
My kids would be the best kids in the world.

Vinnie2000:



Simple!!
It's Peer Pressure and mostly Social media Influence!!..

Both Males n Females Now wants to be like Davido, Migos, Drake, Cardi B, Doja Cat, etc and their Papa nor get money oo..

They want to Live Thug Life they see in d Media, Drive Big Benz and Do Wild Stuffs, just to Show off to their friends!..

So, some get dier Hands Dirty e.g Chidinma..

Her dad was giving her money, but she claims dat d money was not enough!!
No, She wanted to be an Hot happening Babe!!!
She wanted to be like Nicki Minaj, Megan tha Stallion, JaneMena by Force!!
An Instagram Queen/Diva, wowing and slaying Men while intimidating other Girls that they are LowClass Inferior Chicks..

So Dats it!!
Doz 70's,80's and 90's Times, People were not so Influenced by Media to do some Bad Stuffs!!

macdammy:


With due respect, you don't have sense e

saphiere:
My kids would be the best kids in the world.

Originalsly:
Bend the tree while it is young. Almost always ... parents are responsible for the path their children take.

NwaEzefuNaMba:


My brother, i have seen things with my eyes o. But if i recount my experience during my time as undergraduate eh, one may think i have beef with the other gender; but in all, there problem.
I came to realise why many men today are vowing not to marry graduates.

CharisEleos:


The parents themselves are immoral and greedy. using this children to achieve what they could not achieve even if it means giving their girl child to the highest bidder.

That is why a girl can boldly bring pregnancy home and the mother will take her for abortion. I see a lot of these happenings and I just shake my head.