As the topic implies, I recently told it to a girl whom I felt was way older than the lifestyle she was forcing herself to live, I noticed that her mood changed and she went into a rage and said I insulted her... please house look into it, is it an insult?

And why do many girls see that statement as an insult?

That insult too much abeg

It's not an insult as I would reply you with a perfect answer if I'm the one.It's a choice after all there are people who chose to remain single

FahBuLous:
That insult too much abeg

How?

Guys tell each other even scornfully, and no one feels insulted, even girls tell guys "better go and marry" yet they don't feel insulted, but once you tell it to a girl, all hell will be let loose.

Why?

Rozcol:
It's not an insult as I would reply you with a perfect answer if I'm the one.It's a choice after all there are people who chose to remain single

True...I wish all girls have this mindset.

FalseProphet1:

How?

Guys tell each other even scornfully, and no one feels insulted, even girls tell guys "better go and marry" yet they don't feel insulted, but once you tell it to a girl, all hell will be let loose.

Why?

Telling her "go and marry" knowing quite well that in most cases, she's not in a position to make that move/decision, is enough to get anyone upset. If you tell a guy who really wants to settle down but can't do so due to financial issues to go and marry, he might shrug it off but you've definitely made his worries worse. Nigerians like to think they're just jovial but the reality is that they're just up each other's business. Otherwise, it's really no one's business if someone is married or not. And you'd have to be really close to someone to use that line as a joke.

It might not be an insult. But it could be an insensitive statement especially if you don't know what the person is going through in terms of relationships. She can't ask herself out or propose to herself.

No it's not, just as "Falseprophet1, go and make money like your mates" by a lady isn't also an insult.

Damn Niggar!!!!
Is marriage an achievement

If anyone tells me to go and marry like other ladies, I will tell them to go and die as their mates too.

Una goodnight

JeffreyJunior:
No it's not just as "Falseprophet1, go and make money like your mates" by a lady isn't also an insult.

Exactly o

It's an insult if it's not what the woman wants, then it comes off as condescending.

Parked

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The same people won't help you when you can't afford antenatal. Telling people who are not financially bouyant to go and marry is an age long insult

Neptunium:
You don't know her story, you were wrong to make the remark. Was once insensitive like you. I know better after seeing what my younger sis faced at the hands of my fellow men, had to arrange my soldier friend in Nigeria to deal with the last one she dated. She met a great guy finally, got married a year ago at 34.

Why you go arrange soldier for the guy

You well

It's a polite insult.

FalseProphet1:
As the topic implies, I recently told it to a girl whom I felt was way older than the lifestyle she was forcing herself to live, I noticed that her mood changed and she went into a rage and said insulted her... please house look into it, is it an insult?

And why do many girls see that statement as an insult?

Unsolicited advice is alway annoying.

And just because you feel that someone's lifestyle is not age appropriate, it is not for you to tell them what to do with their life.

FalseProphet1:
As the topic implies, I recently told it to a girl whom I felt was way older than the lifestyle she was forcing herself to live, I noticed that her mood changed and she went into a rage and said insulted her...

I am more interested in this. What lifestyle is she FORCING herself to live?

Damnnn niggar
Isoright

You are like telling her she is no longer a kid and she is getting old already...and soon she will be evening news paper

And you know our women hate that rubbish talk
They want to be forever young

Okay naaw

Unsolicited advice ni yen...

Obviously a sensitive part of her life...

Insult, based on the premise of this topic, u would have advised for matured conversation instead of ‘go an marry’ as if marriage is a symbol of perfection or maturity

F

It depends on the ground. might be insult or adviy

It means for you to be responsible. You were probably a nuisance.verdict; its an insult