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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by cPapaAjascO: 12:21pm On Jul 07
richmond500:
I think taking her out and relaxing is a good thing, if the relationship is new, she may be uncomfortable coming to his house, let them meet in a neutral ground where she will be comfortable and he also will be, what he needs right now is confidence, him go just fvck up if him try to do alpha male, he will embarrass himself, he needs confidence first before trying to pretend he is in charge so he doesn't scare her away trying to make her feel she's lucky to have him.

The only time u try to be a redpiller is when u meet a feminist, if u try to be like a lion on an obedient girl, she will be defensive, its good not to make early mistakes
thanks bro
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by cPapaAjascO: 12:32pm On Jul 07
PrimeWatermark:
Send her money.
Congratulations, you just had your first non-biological child.
grin grin
how boss
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Agbebakun22(m): 12:35pm On Jul 07
Kill yaself my brother since u no wan get sense for this economy

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Ayo2004: 1:35pm On Jul 07
Mumu don dey fo grin
I see you coming back to create a thread on heartbreak in a few weeks since u have refused to listen to the words of the wise one,mosdii
Better smash that Toto and pack your load cheesy

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by joinnow: 1:45pm On Jul 07
cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin

Wahala no dey finish !!!
CRUSH her
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by LostMyZeal(m): 3:01pm On Jul 07
cPapaAjascO:
I heard joe clef's ideas can set a relationship ablaze... I want to be careful so I dont get misguided
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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by OSDD(m): 3:32pm On Jul 07
richmond500:
don't ever try to bring the relationship matter, don't try so hard to make her feel calm, she probably trying to handle her own anxiety, u too try to be calm (though its hard) and discuss like u are a friend, if u are anxious, u will make her anxious too, ur boldness and friendliness should be ur weapon here, bet everything u had on it.

U can talk about other things like what u want to do in the near future, dont allow anxiety to make u start asking her what is her favourite colour or her favourite food bla bla.

Ask questions where she could express herself, instead of asking her what's her favourite food, u can ask her what she thinks about garri and okra soup without oil just try to flow and don't over do it like she's in an exam hall, everybody deh fear inside exam hall no matter how hard u read

You are too good
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by talk2hb1(m): 6:38pm On Jul 07
cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin

Wahala no dey finish !!!
Instead of you to be busy with your study, you are thinking of girlfriend relationship.
If you understand the challenges going on globally, that will be the least of your problem.
Youth of your age are coming up with innovative solutions, your environment put you at great disadvantages to your global cohort. Yet you are thinking of relationship, come 10years that beautiful girl will look like trash to you.
I hope our youth won't be enslaved in the next coming years

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Makaveli217(m): 7:09pm On Jul 07
So just because a girl accepted your proposal mean she's special and you want to start sending her money.
This is 2021, please don't be a simp.

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Nobody: 8:06pm On Jul 07
See this one. That years when we self dey chase women, poverty don harden my soul and open my eyes. Who woman help? Na me want come dey follow you smell your yansh because say I want Bleep.

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Obasempirecomdy: 8:07pm On Jul 07
Fear the female GENDER, THEY CAN DO ANS UNDO...
Here's how anther female lured her victims and had them raped by asasins..


https://youtu.be/b0Ni4D3QlF8
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by abeniagbon(m): 8:10pm On Jul 07
cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin

Wahala no dey finish !!!

Carry her go to hotel.. give her correct fu^k before she turn you to mugu

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by mariahAngel: 8:12pm On Jul 07
cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin

Wahala no dey finish !!!

After una go dey form redpill online grin

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by OSDD(m): 8:15pm On Jul 07
talk2hb1:

Instead of you to be busy with your study, you are thinking of girlfriend relationship.
If you understand the challenges going on globally, that will be the least of your problem.
Youth of your age are coming up with innovative solutions, your environment put you at great disadvantages to your global cohort. Yet you are thinking of relationship, come 10years that beautiful girl will look like trash to you.
I hope our youth won't be enslaved in the next coming years
How many innovations have you come up with? Cut him some slack FFS!!!....

You "innovative " folks are quick to see the speck in someone's eyes but Na stick dey Una own

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Nobody: 8:44pm On Jul 07
cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin

Wahala no dey finish !!!

Listen carefully, the first thing you need to do is chop that lady's okra soup and make sure to give her the best night of her life.. This qualifies you for Okafor's law so don't delay or joke about this.

But before that, what you should focus on more than anything is to get her talking.. Ask her important questions and let her talk about herself and share intimate stuff with you as much as possible, be a good and attentive listener.

And when she's said enough put her in the mood and apply my first paragraph. Datzall!

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by fineberry(m): 8:57pm On Jul 07
cPapaAjascO:
it's more than 2 hrs bro... since yesterday afternoon
grin grin grin grin grin.....op you're funny ajeh.




One advice I have to tell you is....Don't think of how to love her in a special way than you have always been loving her..... Just go ahead and love her freely like you would your sister.

Make sure she's comfortable around you, let her know you're cool with her just the way she is...that she doesn't av to go out of her way to impress you. Bcus bro, one major thing that normally collapse r/ship is when its all start on the ground of pretense and not been oneself.

All the best man.

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by talk2hb1(m): 9:56pm On Jul 07
OSDD:

How many innovations have you come up with? Cut him some slack FFS!!!....

You "innovative " folks are quick to see the speck in someone's eyes but Na stick dey Una own
Every time you were able to send money from one bank to another bank successfully in this country you should always remember people like us.
What's your own contribution to yourself?
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by OSDD(m): 10:01pm On Jul 07
talk2hb1:

Every time you were able to send money from one bank to another bank successfully in this country you should always remember people like us.
What's your own contribution to yourself?

People like us? That's your innovative idea?
When your system is down or have network issues, people like us are always a call away...

This is the Romance section, you don't have to shove your "innovative ideas " down our throats....

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by talk2hb1(m): 10:27pm On Jul 07
OSDD:


People like us? That's your innovative idea?
When your system is down or have network issues, people like us are always a call away...

This is the Romance section, you don't have to shove your "innovative ideas " down our throats....
What's your contribution to yourself?
Feel bitter and cry alone wink
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by OSDD(m): 10:36pm On Jul 07
talk2hb1:

What's your contribution to yourself?
Feel bitter and cry alone wink
Just another pathetic sicko who feels on top of the world... I don't waste my time on such people

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by talk2hb1(m): 10:47pm On Jul 07
OSDD:

Just another pathetic sicko who feels on top of the world... I don't waste my time on such people
Epain you grin
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by sirp9898(m): 11:33pm On Jul 07
How much will u pay me before I will teach u what to do
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Panda7(m): 11:54pm On Jul 07
why did you ask her out in the first place mr joker
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Ajibade123(m): 12:55am On Jul 08
talk2hb1:

Instead of you to be busy with your study, you are thinking of girlfriend relationship.
If you understand the challenges going on globally, that will be the least of your problem.
Youth of your age are coming up with innovative solutions, your environment put you at great disadvantages to your global cohort. Yet you are thinking of relationship, come 10years that beautiful girl will look like trash to you.
I hope our youth won't be enslaved in the next coming years
Una type ehn
as if you didn't went through this age when you were a teen

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Cousin9999: 5:28am On Jul 08
Dinner, dancing, and

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Cousin9999: 5:39am On Jul 08
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by talk2hb1(m): 6:29am On Jul 08
Ajibade123:

Una type ehn
as if you didn't went through this age when you were a teen
Common man, I just feel that shouldn't be his priority. Its normal thing to have girlfriend, but he shouldn't loose focus.
Importantly where are those girls now?

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Cowbell521: 6:31am On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin

Wahala no dey finish !!!
Go and prepare for your Junior Waec

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by phemmyfour: 6:40am On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin

Wahala no dey finish !!!
Just be yourself...no dey carry girl matter for head like gala
Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Dahunsipaul(m): 7:19am On Jul 08
Oga find a way to kpansh her real soon, cause this one belongs to the street, na your turn for now, na why e easy, if in the next 2 weeks you no kpansh, forget it [left][/left] tongue angry

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by TSBO: 7:36am On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
time is running out against me... the relationship is already some hours old and I have done nothing and said nothing... she will soon start growing cold feet


Help me nah... I heard u are Ubunja and this is your alternate moniker. Help me nahgrin

You better stop this nowww... You are setting yourself up for problems. She isn't doing you a favour by saying yes, you both are doing each other a favour. You be spec too ogbeni..

Don't be afraid of her leaving. She actually can and there's nothing you can do to change that possibility, no matter how remote.

And don't try to overimpress... Very bad idea. Do your part, communication, friendship etc, but don't be trying to prove your worth. Trust me if you weren't a viable option she wouldn't have said yes. So enjoy.. She won't develop cold feet and if she does, they'll get warm again.

She also needs to be up and doing by the way. Hope you know that. It is not solely your job to make it work o. Both of you have to, and if she's not doing that, and you have a healthy sense of self worth, you know what to do.

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Re: I Just Asked My Crush Out And She Obliged Me, What Do I Do Next? by Tomilola360: 8:43am On Jul 08
cPapaAjascO:
Well it didnt take up to an hour asking her out and she gave me a yes. But I am lost and confused as to what to do next.

This would be my very first real relationship and I dont want to screw it up. This babe is special and well versed in almost every topic of discussion. She tickles my brain with her intelligence and I want to quit old odd escapades with desperate girls and start a real relationship.

Thing is, I dont know how to go about it.

Day 1 she said YES

Day 2 I dont have an idea of how to get it started.



Do I call her or text her or send her money or gifts or take her out shopping or swimming


I m already scared that my relationship with her may end even before it starts. I need ideas guys.

Help me!!! grin

Wahala no dey finish !!!

You wasted data and time to post this nonsense?

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