KristaPretty:
Do whatever makes you happy my dear.

After being counselled and talked to but you're still scared of marriage and don't want to to get married? Please don't so. It is not a do or die issue as some people are married but unhappy. Society puts pressure on people too much in Nigeria (which I am sure of).

Due to personal encounters with several women who had severe issues and died, I developed severe Tokophobia (make una check google ) and no matter the pressure do not see myself wanting to go down that path when married - Gestational surrogacy is the plan and I am hoping and praying for a man who would understand this.

You see this life ehn, na how you do am you go enjoy am. Do only what makes you happy without thinking of these negative shallow minded people. They judge others without hearing their story, they act like saints but are devils inside.

I no kukuma send anybody

And who'll pay for the gestational surrogacy, you or the man

Pelxmiye:


And who'll pay for the gestational surrogacy, you or the man

You who have decided to pokenose will make payment.

KristaPretty:


You who have decided to pokenose will make payment.

Okay ma

KristaPretty:


You who have decided to pokenose will make payment.

oya come and force me nah

HRHQueenPhil:
If u are a Muslim, listen to all apostle Joshua Selman messages on YouTube everyday and obey the instructions. It will convert u to a Christian and infuse the Holy Spirit in you that helps to clear all fears, doubts and timidity

So she has to convert to Christianity before she will be without fear and able to consider marriage?

Lord have mercy on Us all.

I'm definitely bookmarking this thread. I'm also afraid of the marriage thingy. Let me bookmark this for future reference. I know and trust myself, but how about my potential partner? Now, that's the million dollar question no one can answer with certainty.