Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

Bros she's using you. And as it stands, she's only dating you because of the little change you have. And very soon, she'll soon upgrade her level by finding a deep-pocket boyfriend(or maga) that can meet up with her demands, which of course will give you more than just a heartbreak. So here is my advise: dump her (now) and save yourself the heartache of losing a promising financial future with a peaceful state of mind. A word is enough for the wise

E sure say na advise you need or na slap?

OP issa mumu...una mumu no too much...

How do you niggas attract all these small small Hoelosho self

Tueh! on OP's medulla

She's a wife material
Just keep spending till you're capable of purchasing the material

.....
Her mission in your life is obvious

Sorry Bruh! Only Sincere and confused Being sounds like you,in this situation...... PINNED.

Sometimes I dey wonder where una dey see this girls them self..

but wait o...all this crazy post about girls wey i de always see for here na real life story? or person jus use us dey catch cruise?
azin person wey dey earn 45k for dis hard Inflationary period still de mumu like this?.
bea wey broke vex block u n u beg am to unblock u back??...jus imagine the level of downgrading..
instead of wasting all this time n strength on broke entitled bea wey go still dump you, why not place them on ur hustle, i swear u go de make above 45k a month....reason am bross

Why are u throwing urself under the bus?

U never manage yourself finish, u carry woman gum body. And na leech u still carry.

Purpose/ Ambition before any bullshit woman. Cut yourself loose from dat bullshit relationship. And FOCUS.

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

How I wish I can see you face to face so that I can slap you..Op you must be simp how can you allow this leech and entitled bitch who has nothing to offer expect her pucci to manipulate you to the extent you lose focus on your dream.I pity you if like go ahead and marry her.las las na frustration from her that lead you to your grave....Nonsense,some men I don't understand

Damn Niggar!!!!!
Any girl/lady you’re going extra miles to please or satisfying inconveniently is not yours my nigga!!!! She belong to the street so wise up

You should av screen shot the "Broken abi Breaking message" let see. .







Your junior bro or cousin that is 15 or 18years will no better that you're just a poverty alleviation source to her.




Op, the long n short of what I'm saying, is that, She does not like you much less to LOVE you.

Bruv
Don't inconvenience yourself just cos you want to please a grown up adult workable lady.
If you get and you no give her, that case is different
But as you no get, oga no go kill yourself.

Please for good 30 years + on earth, you suppose to be able to use your head. This is not relationship o, this is more like death sentence

zoeA:
E sure say na advise you need or na slap?

My brother how do you Advice someone something is getting on his nerves

You want me to send you perfect description of my name without the "g"

You're not in a toxic relationship.
You're just a simp.

Run

Bros OP, just read this your message again, and imagine if it was written by someone else.

What would you think?

Why you go dey chase woman when any day she fit dey with another person.

YOU ARE NOT!!
But I pray ur brain shouldn't be on suspension till infinity.
Some of you guys seeking for advice here, do not deserve to be given one!!!

For the sake of your family and loved ones, please quit that toxic relationship. Don't be a chump. She's a hustling you like maye.

Jashub:
Bros she's using you. And as it stands, she's only dating you because of the little change you have. And very soon, she'll soon upgrade her level by finding a deep-pocket boyfriend(or maga) that can meet up with her demands, which of course will give you more than just a heartbreak. So here is my advise: dump her (now) and save yourself the heartache of losing a promising financial future with a peaceful state of mind. A word is enough for the wise

I really appreciate your word of advice. I already made up my mind and move on.

Thank you boss

LordPherule:
For the sake of your family and loved ones, please quit that toxic relationship. Don't be a chump. She's a hustling you like maye.

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

You should not add another liability to ur problems...invest in urself more n move on wit ur life

Guy, she is using manipulative tactics to leech from you . Indeed you're in a toxic relationship. Let her go so you can focus on yourself.

Er u sure ure in ur 30s like dis.. cos to slap u dey hungry me

paulolee:
but wait o...all this Mumu post na real life story? or person jus use us dey catch cruise?
azin person wey dey earn 45k dis hard Inflationary period still de mumu like this?.
bea wey broke vex block u n u beg am to unblock u back...jus imagine
if u place same hunger for ur hustle u go de make above 45k...

Believe it or not, 93.672% of such posts are real including this one. It is a known fact that most people lose their senses when they are in ‘love’ or under the influence of religion.

We can only pray for them.

Not only are you dating yourself, you're lavishing all your income on a gold digger. Wise up bro.

ultiabaz36:
Good day my people, please your advise is needed. I am in my 30s and I came into this relationship this year January. I like and I love this babe so much but she’s always demanding financially despite being a working class and I am only surviving on 45k job here in lagos. I have target and ambition for my life and everything is placed on this my job. So, I have a proportion of my income to be saved for this my ambition but since I met this girl, I never have anything called savings again while I still go on borrowing to satisfy her needs.

The most painful part of it all is that anytime she asks of anything and I’m not capable of what she asked for, she will first block me on Whatsapp and drop a breakup message. I will be the one to call and persuade her and when she feels like to unblock me she will do that.

But now, she’s asking for salah cloth and I don’t have the amount she’s asking for. I told her I don’t have the money for now while I told her that I don’t know what tomorrow will say and as soon as I said this, she dropped the breakup message as usual and block me on WhatsApp.

Please Advise me on what to do as this is getting on my nerves.

I don't want to finish reading this nonsense because I'm angry with you already

All a have to tell you is that you are not ready for your future yet until you leave that girl