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Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by RisenJoe(m): 10:15pm On Jul 11, 2021
Lonliness, how do you guys deal with lonliness not physical but mental cos you can't find someone to challenge you mentally even our ladies aren't helping matters at all.... Am really lonely here living all alone for a long time, no gf cos the ones I usually see aren't intellectually sound but dunce.... Pls guys how do you deal with it....

Cc... redGidpillar

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Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by Opak001(m): 10:21pm On Jul 11, 2021
Get into a social group,it will help before you get depressed. Make use of your social media app
Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by mardis: 10:33pm On Jul 11, 2021
I have a girl for you. Intellect at its peak

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Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by chatinent: 2:36am On Jul 12, 2021
mardis:
I have a girl for you. Intellect at its peak

He doesn't need a girl. He needs to build his life to accommodate humans.

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Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by Yusufisraelj(m): 4:07am On Jul 12, 2021
chatinent:


He doesn't need a girl. He needs to build his life to accommodate humans.

Nicely said

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Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by adexpa(m): 5:57am On Jul 12, 2021
Find good books that are of interest. You probably will not see people that will engage you according to your expectations. I do not have friends aside people I got to talk to briefly accidentally.
Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by Bluezy13(m): 6:15am On Jul 12, 2021
And here I am, thinking I was the only one.
Just two days ago, something happened at the office and I tried to bring up an intellectual philosophical conversation with my Cashier about it because I thought that since she appears smart and learned...still schooling...she would at least have an opinion no matter how little it would be. But I was greatly disappointed...she was not even comprehending even after I managed my language as simple and coherent as possible.
I think she noticed how disappointed I was because her countenance changed when I smiled and walked away.

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Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by BigDan69: 6:45am On Jul 12, 2021
One of the reasons I left my babe o, na only sex she dey contribute, had to leave.


Bluezy13:
And here I am, thinking I was the only one.
Just two days ago, something happened at the office and I tried to bring up an intellectual philosophical conversation with my Cashier about it because I thought that since she appears smart and learned...still schooling...she would at least have an opinion no matter how little it would be. But I was greatly disappointed...she was not even comprehending even after I managed my language as simple and coherent as possible.
I think she noticed how disappointed I was because her countenance changed when I smiled and walked away.

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Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by BarrSly: 8:48am On Jul 12, 2021
Get busy then loneliness will disappear.
Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by Pricelessruby(f): 8:52am On Jul 12, 2021
Join a WhatsApp group, or make intelligent friends online
RisenJoe:
Lonliness, how do you guys deal with lonliness not physical but mental cos you can't find someone to challenge you mentally even our ladies aren't helping matters at all.... Am really lonely here living all alone for a long time, no gf cos the ones I usually see aren't intellectually sound but dunce.... Pls guys how do you deal with it....

Cc... redGidpillar
Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by Armstrong57(m): 9:06am On Jul 12, 2021
While away ur time with good books(prefer novels) and movies, join international chats and broaden ur horizons... Don't limit urself to chatting with just Nigerians, even people all over the world feel the same.
It's also one of the reason am still single, try searching for "A humble but ambitious lady that is independent, driven towards her dream. A lady that's book smart and less street smart. Someone I can have an intelligent chat abt anything and open abt life ", ...U'll get depressed by the options. But I know one will come up someday, we just gotta stay hopeful.
Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by RisenJoe(m): 9:13am On Jul 12, 2021
Pricelessruby:
Join a WhatsApp group, or make intelligent friends online

Intelligence is a rare virtue among the youths of nowadays.
Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by Lilchucks(f): 9:13am On Jul 12, 2021
Pricelessruby:
Join a WhatsApp group, or make intelligent friends online
. Bunch of hypocrites.

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Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by RisenJoe(m): 9:16am On Jul 12, 2021
BarrSly:
Get busy then loneliness will disappear.


Am a multi million naira building material merchant.... So am always busy but the issue here is that no matter how much money you have, if you don't have people to challenge your intellectuality then you will have some feeling of lonliness
Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by RisenJoe(m): 9:16am On Jul 12, 2021
Lilchucks:
. Bunch of hypocrites.

You mean the female folks
Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by phemmyfour: 9:22am On Jul 12, 2021
RisenJoe:
Lonliness, how do you guys deal with lonliness not physical but mental cos you can't find someone to challenge you mentally even our ladies aren't helping matters at all.... Am really lonely here living all alone for a long time, no gf cos the ones I usually see aren't intellectually sound but dunce.... Pls guys how do you deal with it....

Cc... redGidpillar
Social group, attend intellectual gatherings e.g seminars
Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by bigcee(m): 9:30am On Jul 12, 2021
RisenJoe:
Lonliness, how do you guys deal with lonliness not physical but mental cos you can't find someone to challenge you mentally even our ladies aren't helping matters at all.... Am really lonely here living all alone for a long time, no gf cos the ones I usually see aren't intellectually sound but dunce.... Pls guys how do you deal with it....

Cc... redGidpillar
Learn to love yourself and enjoy your solitude. Once in a while you go out and have fun. Baba, sha do the things you love. Na happiness sure pass

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Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by Vulcanheph(m): 9:45am On Jul 12, 2021
I was thinking about the same things some time ago, I think the OP is referring to our Naija girls.....
I hardly chatt up with naija girls online because most of them have are very low intelligence and make communication boring....
Most times I just lower my expectations just to be able to be able to relate with them but I'm always still end up disappointed.
These days I simply join foreign groups because that's the only way I can meet girls who challenge me intellectually, the only things naija girls know how to talk about is BBN, Slaying , Nollywood etc.

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Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by AngelicDamsel(f): 9:59am On Jul 12, 2021
A wise man once said "Anyone who calls himself intelligent or smart is probably quite the opposite." undecided undecided undecided

There are lots of girls with good stuff upstairs, but it all depends on your social circle.

If I ask you all about the last time you all went to a library, I doubt you all will give a favourable answer.

Afterall the current world mathematics champion is a Nigerian girl, but you all like to downplay Nigerian girls at every little opportunity you get.



Epositive:


Intelligence is relative. However, I strongly doubt the OP is referring to "book smart" girls. I have met some students who are slightly above average but are very resourceful in archaeological, historical and other sociopolitical discourses. Likewise are there First class students who knows next to nothing - asides their Course materials.

Intelligence, in this context, is beyond passing with good grades.

Don't misconstrue my point. I only used that academic example because it is more agreeable, if I had pointed so many other examples of females leading in sectors like creative, athletic, leadership, entertainment, entrepreneurship etc............these narrow minded bigots will still try to reinforce their claims using their social circle as a parameter for judgement.

If I ask you all what an intelligent conversation should be like, you all might say it is relative.


My advice to Op: Improve your social circle.......... It is as simple as that!

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Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by Nobody: 10:05am On Jul 12, 2021
Why would you be looking for a boring intellectual conversation with a female when you should be banging her senseless?

Besides you have your hommies for that. Or better still pick up an educative book and add more to your knowledge.

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Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by SporaD8: 10:24am On Jul 12, 2021
adexpa:
Find good books that are of interest. You probably will not see people that will engage you according to your expectations. I do not have friends aside people I got to talk to briefly accidentally.
Chop knuckles!
Good books have shaped better and more interesting mind than any human through oral speech will ever do.
Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by Pricelessruby(f): 11:05am On Jul 12, 2021
Really cheesy
Lilchucks:
. Bunch of hypocrites.
Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by BarrSly: 11:19am On Jul 12, 2021
Lol see this one.. who dy talk of money... I said get busy not get money... I have MONEY and when I get bored I travel around the world to keep my mind BUSY.... that’s two different things
RisenJoe:



Am a multi million naira building material merchant.... So am always busy but the issue here is that no matter how much money you have, if you don't have people to challenge your intellectuality then you will have some feeling of lonliness
Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by rex444(m): 2:01pm On Jul 12, 2021
Sometimes it beats me how we'd have the potential of communicating with our fellow humans but choose to find everything in books ... Our girls, no insults but it's depressing how very few of them can keep up a healthy convo...yes truly environment does affect in some ways but then, we can help ourselves...try having a conversation with 25/27 years old girls from other countries and then see how ours reason ...very disappointing

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Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by RisenJoe(m): 4:32pm On Jul 12, 2021
rex444:
Sometimes it beats me how we'd have the potential of communicating with our fellow humans but choose to find everything in books ... Our girls, no insults but it's depressing how very few of them can keep up a healthy convo...yes truly environment does affect in some ways but then, we can help ourselves...try having a conversation with 25/27 years old girls from other countries and then see how ours reason ...very disappointing

My brother you said it all, all of them are shouting book book like as if books will take the place of a human being or if I don't read books
Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by bepositive11: 5:36pm On Jul 12, 2021
Armstrong57:
While away ur time with good books(prefer novels) and movies, join international chats and broaden ur horizons... Don't limit urself to chatting with just Nigerians, even people all over the world feel the same.
It's also one of the reason am still single, try searching for "A humble but ambitious lady that is independent, driven towards her dream. A lady that's book smart and less street smart. Someone I can have an intelligent chat abt anything and open abt life ", ...U'll get depressed by the options. But I know one will come up someday, we just gotta stay hopeful.

Why book smart and "less street smart"?
Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by pansophist(m): 10:14am On Jul 13, 2021
Should I create a WhatsApp group for intelligent folks to congregate, make friends and discuss? But before I'll add you, I'll read through your previous post. If it appears that you're dumb, stupid or both, then no addy grin

Back to topic, I'm hardly lonely. It's simply because I have my schedule full everyday, that I even wish there were more than 24 hours in a day. That's the formula, you full your schedule and not leave space to be dictated by spontaneity. You choose what happen with your time, not the opposite. But if it happens that due to something beyond my control, I have free time, I just go do something that will make my heart beat. It can by sport, gym, biking etc. That you'll be so tired, that you will have no energy to think, and just want to crash.

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Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by Epositive(m): 12:36pm On Jul 13, 2021
AngelicDamsel:
A wise man once said "Anyone who calls himself intelligent or smart is probably quite the opposite." undecided undecided undecided

There are lots of girls with good stuff upstairs, but it all depends on your social circle.

If I ask you all about the last time you all went to a library, I doubt you all will give a favourable answer.

Afterall the current world mathematics champion is a Nigerian girl, but you all like to downplay Nigerian girls at every little opportunity you get.

Intelligence is relative. However, I strongly doubt the OP is referring to "book smart" girls. I have met some students who are slightly above average but are very resourceful in archaeological, historical and other sociopolitical discourses. Likewise are there First class students who knows next to nothing - asides their Course materials.

Intelligence, in this context, is beyond passing with good grades.
Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by Epositive(m): 12:51pm On Jul 13, 2021
BigDan69:
One of the reasons I left my babe o, na only sex she dey contribute, had to leave.


The same issue I am having or should I say, used to have. cheesy This babe is good and homely but when it comes to intellectual discourse, it's a dead end for her. There's nothing tangible to converse about If it's not marriage and family talks. Celebrity gist is even out of it because she's quite conservative.

Few months ago, I took it up and told her straight to her face, "I'm tired of these boring recycled talks". She felt bad but promise to work on herself. She's on her 5th book already and asking for more. She now read news and have become more observant.

Of course, she's not yet there but the efforts are worthwhile and encouraging.

I read about astronomy, religion, arts (poems and literature), history, local and international politics, human nature et al. And I post them on status atimes, but my friends online consider me "weird and boring".
Re: Pls How Do You Guys Deal With This? by BigDan69: 2:11pm On Jul 13, 2021
Epositive:

The same issue I am having or should I say, used to have. cheesy This babe is good and homely but when it comes to intellectual discourse, it's a dead end for her. There's nothing tangible to converse about If it's not marriage and family talks. Celebrity gist is even out of it because she's quite conservative.

Few months ago, I took it up and told her straight to her face, "I'm tired of these boring recycled talks". She felt bad but promise to work on herself. She's on her 5th book already and asking for more. She now read news and have become more observant.

Of course, she's not yet there but the efforts are worthwhile and encouraging.

I read about astronomy, religion, arts (poems and literature), history, local and international politics, human nature et al. And I post them on status atimes, but my friends online consider me "weird and boring".




Wow I wish my ex did same, told her too to her face that she is boring, omo she held grudge on that and didn't want to push herself out of her comfort zone, after every effort to make her see things my way. All she does is barely 10mins into discussion, she don open boobs, well I dey always dive right in dem boobs sha and strange thing is that her pussy was always wet, like really really wet. Like freaky wet

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