Why on earth would she spend her money on you, a boyfriend. She can only spend for her husband and kids or support you during wedding NOT Traditional marriage. In Africa it's the man's pride to pay for the wife's dowry, not vice-versa. Even we the married men, do not rely on our wife's money,cos you may be disappointed. Always try to call the shots as the man. Don't even act as if you are aware of her cash, but be Judicious in spending your money. My father once admonished me that money spent on a lady you are not married to, is like spending money on a prostitute. I understood better after training a girl for five years in the University with my meagre 25k salary and on graduation she opted for another man with a salary of 400k as contract staff in an oil firm, not minding if he was someone else's husband. If you can avoid them and face your future, better. Be guided!

Hi

Op,What business is she managing..?

ednut1:
I once saw a ladies investment account na 11m dey there. Same babe used to follow me and my friends go buka to chop. We get car she no get. Omo fear women o

The babe na wife material

This is what average guys experience in real life... As I am talking to you now, my acct is 11k balance where as my gf has close to 100k in hers but if I fail to provide her 1k whenever she ask, she will call me all sort of names..

E no funny being a man.

jaelz:
So in the Nigerian context, the guys always do all the spendings in a relationship and that leaves us wondering what the ladies do with their money, although many atimes I have always heard that women have more money that men in the real sense, I didn't believe until it happened to me, see my story below:

So I have been dating this girl for like a year plus now, and I always do all the spendings, bills, outings spendings and so on, but just last week she gave me her ATM and told me to help her witdthraw 80,000 from her account for her while coming back from work, on my way back I stopped at an ATM to withdraw for her, but one mind prompted me to check her account balance, when I did guys guess what I saw? This my babe wey dey always do like say she no get one Naira had close to 3.1 Million Naira in her account lying there breathing.

Omo I almost fainted at the ATM queue. Many ladies have money guys o, please guys kindly share how you found out your girlfriend had more money than she has been revealing.

I smell lies

First of all ,be careful about checking your gfs bank balance, She’s not even your wife. I personally don’t even check my wives balance, phone , email even though we have each other’s passwords to everything. But that’s me, back to you:

Do you know if it’s all Her money?

Are you sure she has not been saving for something?

Finally is She stingy? (Personally, no matter how wealthy I am, I will avoid a stingy woman.)

The answers to these questions might help you make sense of it.

I would have said you should confront her,but what were you doing checking her balance? Except maybe you saw it on the transaction slip.

jaelz:
So in the Nigerian context, the guys always do all the spendings in a relationship and that leaves us wondering what the ladies do with their money, although many atimes I have always heard that women have more money that men in the real sense, I didn't believe until it happened to me, see my story below:

So I have been dating this girl for like a year plus now, and I always do all the spendings, bills, outings spendings and so on, but just last week she gave me her ATM and told me to help her witdthraw 80,000 from her account for her while coming back from work, on my way back I stopped at an ATM to withdraw for her, but one mind prompted me to check her account balance, when I did guys guess what I saw? This my babe wey dey always do like say she no get one Naira had close to 3.1 Million Naira in her account lying there breathing.

Omo I almost fainted at the ATM queue. Many ladies have money guys o, please guys kindly share how you found out your girlfriend had more money than she has been revealing.

Cholls:
My brother now that you've found out what are you planning on doing

Very important question

mariahAngel:
Oloju kokoro boyfriend!

Anya ahu n’agha!

She’s saving for when you guys get married. Maybe.

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ubola:
Why on earth would she spend her money on you, a boyfriend. She can only spend for her husband and kids or support you during wedding NOT Traditional marriage. In Africa it's the man's pride to pay for the wife's dowry, not vice-versa. Even we the married men, do not rely on our wife's money,cos you may be disappointed. Always try to call the shots as the man. Don't even act as if you are aware of her cash, but be Judicious in spending your money. My father once admonished me that money spent on a lady you are not married to, is like spending money on a prostitute. I understood better after training a girl for five years in the University with my meagre 25k salary and on graduation she opted for another man with a salary of 400k as contract staff in an oil firm, not minding if he was someone else's husband. If you can avoid them and face your future, better. Be guided!

The ending to your story is so scaring, may God bless all the real men out there, Amiiiin

Eyah sorry, Na you know. Take it as an eye opener

jericco1:
Is this post relevant?

Yes it is

Ishilove:
Another mumu thread

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jericco1:
Is this post relevant?

larryjonze:

You’ve really suffered! You’re pathetic!

Cholls:
My brother now that you've found out what are you planning on doing

chidinma sorry ebuka strategy..

I believe your story cos it happened to a very close friend in Abuja. My guy was dating this girl with a fat ass even tho the guy was just a barber. This girl will come to his shop and be buying everything buyable tho the guy was the one paying. She would open his drawer and spend From his savings; always needing cash for one thing or the other.

One time, my guy met a woman that was ready to spend heavily on him but he refused because of this babe. The guy shop rent expired and the babe couldn’t assist him. One day my guy mistakenly stumbled on her account balance and saw almost 3million inside lol. We later discovered the guy had a sugar daddy but didn’t allow my guy to have a sugar mummy.

It’s easy for a naija girlfriend to give you her pussy than her money

SouthSouth1914:


She is not the owner of the money! If she is, you won’t even see that ATM card in the first place, not to talk of her handing it to you with her pin! Offcourse that’s if this your write up is true

You smart, G.

ODJ124:


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� *Call that lady ,pretend to be his sister and thank her for encouraging him for taking his H.I.V. drugs ��,then sit back and watch. God will handle the rest.*⏰

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Lol

Why would you withdraw her money and give her to settle her bills, you should use your own money to pay the bill that is what real men do.
We that are not real men don't spend.. you peeps that are real men should always foot all your women bills and don't allow them spend a Kobo of theirs..

Story

Guys will never learn.
Simps commented most on the first page. So I reserve my comment

Isupaefugbemi00:
Nah lie, nor be she get the money, she just intentionally wants you to see it, so you can respect her more

What if he come steal am that day

Don’t be in a haste to conclude.
Not denying the possibility though, but you could be wrong.

There are a million ways or reasons for the cash being there at that point.
What if it’s not hers and could be a family arrangement, meant for something specific.
Mind you, she has every right to save or keep her money in there.

You are at liberty to feel bad about the revelation but talking to her about it might get her to clear your doubt.
Her reason for not discussing the origin and presence of the said amount is what you should inquire rather than jump to conclusion.

The money doesn’t have to be from a sugar daddy or a proceed of prostitution as alleged by some up there.

I have an old class mate during Uni days whose dad discreetly kept a part of his gratuity with her for a specific purpose.

Let’s imagine this deal was strictly between her and the dad, the spouse, unaware, might be forced to give room for ugly thoughts.

Talk to her first.
Let her explain herself.
Even in a law court, an accused is afforded a right to be heard.

@OP no be today.those are stingy girls.if you check your olosho girlfriend got that money from shortime night fucking sending of nude pics trip off and many more.dont be surprise she as even collecting money from you heavily even when the stupid stingy fellow has almost 3.5 millon.just forget girlfriend go marry a good if not next story we go hear say you dont comit suice.After devil na vagina people.This the real truth take it or leave it.who quote me hug transformer.

;Dnow you know nigga

chrisifeanyi:
When it comes to saving money, most women know how to do that. If I want to keep any money safe, I will just give it to my wife. She can have 5M in her account and pretend like she doesn't even have 1k.
Few women are like that. Many will use their last saving to buy hair.

na those ones i fear pass. shi shi no dey always dey deir hand

[size=8pt][I was just laughing when I read this article ....I have a similar experience but mine is like this she handover her phone to check her setting so I just go to her message and I check her debt alert and I saw above 2m ...and
i was shocking because she still asked me for money sometime.......

jaelz:
So in the Nigerian context, the guys always do all the spendings in a relationship and that leaves us wondering what the ladies do with their money, although many atimes I have always heard that women have more money that men in the real sense, I didn't believe until it happened to me, see my story below:

So I have been dating this girl for like a year plus now, and I always do all the spendings, bills, outings spendings and so on, but just last week she gave me her ATM and told me to help her witdthraw 80,000 from her account for her while coming back from work, on my way back I stopped at an ATM to withdraw for her, but one mind prompted me to check her account balance, when I did guys guess what I saw? This my babe wey dey always do like say she no get one Naira had close to 3.1 Million Naira in her account lying there breathing.

Omo I almost fainted at the ATM queue. Many ladies have money guys o, please guys kindly share how you found out your girlfriend had more money than she has been revealing.

Marry her obviously as a sharp guy na!!! Just open eyes well and know her money is hers. Continue being u and let things flow like u saw nothing.

Cholls:
My brother now that you've found out what are you planning on doing

Edusouls:
Fake story with poorly scripted lies, why would she give u her atm to withdraw for her at first place? Bank no dey her work area? Infact you people should stop pasting fake interesting stories here to get traffic..

She could have easily transferred to his bank account to withdraw on her behalf but since he claimed he saw 3.1 million which could be true or false let's pretend to believe him and wish him a successful marriage in advance if what he said is true.

[size=8pt][I was just laughing when I read this article ....I have a similar experience but mine is like this she handover her phone to check her setting so I just go to her message and I check her debt alert and I saw above 2m ...and
i was so shock because she still asked me for money sometime.......

jaelz:
So in the Nigerian context, the guys always do all the spendings in a relationship and that leaves us wondering what the ladies do with their money, although many atimes I have always heard that women have more money that men in the real sense, I didn't believe until it happened to me, see my story below:

So I have been dating this girl for like a year plus now, and I always do all the spendings, bills, outings spendings and so on, but just last week she gave me her ATM and told me to help her witdthraw 80,000 from her account for her while coming back from work, on my way back I stopped at an ATM to withdraw for her, but one mind prompted me to check her account balance, when I did guys guess what I saw? This my babe wey dey always do like say she no get one Naira had close to 3.1 Million Naira in her account lying there breathing.

Omo I almost fainted at the ATM queue. Many ladies have money guys o, please guys kindly share how you found out your girlfriend had more money than she has been revealing.

Finemoore:
The ending to your story is so scaring, may God bless all the real men out there, Amiiiin

I gradually realized that the good guys pay their bills while the bad guys come in their faces. Lesson I learnt the hard way.