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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by xynerise: 8:57am On Jul 20, 2021
dingbang:
So by 60, your kids will be entering uni? By that that you will be retired and not capable to support them in university.

This is a dumbass thinking grin

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Whatshallido: 8:58am On Jul 20, 2021
I'm 39 not yet married, no job, no money but i want to marry. Can a nairaland female marry me the way I'm? . I'm handsome and brilliant.

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by AlphaStorm: 8:58am On Jul 20, 2021
EXLOVER:


If not for age difference between yourself and your kids, no time is late for marriage.

Before a man should go into marriage he should be financially ready, even if your woman love you, without money she will get tired at a point.

I'm ripe for marriage, but i don't see myself marrying right now, cause i can't use my preek to raise a family. My present savings can't even afford 5 bags of rice. But some people will marry with such amount of money.

Bros no b lie. Financial standing is very important

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by ibechris(m): 8:59am On Jul 20, 2021
Teaser4:
Get married whenever you feel you’re ready!!! Age na numbers. I’m in my early 30’s I never reason marriage......



At retirement u will know if u are right or not.

Wait when pampass would be 10k.
Children Vaccines would be 10k
Milk would be 10k.

U better start reasoning now,the sleepness night men go through to assist their wife's can be frustrating and consuming at the same. Old age isn't good for nurturing children.
Time shall tell.

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by abiaumo(m): 8:59am On Jul 20, 2021
simplepee:
It's not late or abnormal.

Infact I'm not sure I can marry a man under 35. Men are very slow with sense. That 35 sef, some of them still don't have sense.

Lol
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Ropostic120(m): 9:00am On Jul 20, 2021
I married in 2019 at 39 and God even gave me a virgin lady
It is not how far but how well
God's TIME is different from ours and He will always make things beautiful in His own TIME

I was in marital wilderness for many years and disappointments but when it came,it came easily and also with a virtuous woman




understand age is just a number, but all numbers are not equal still. The society tend to fix a standard for everything. Most guys will want to get married on or before they turn 30, but a couple of uncontrollable factors preclude that from happening.

What's your take concerning marrying at 35 for guys. Do you think it's


a bit late?[/quote]

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by mekusmanuel(f): 9:00am On Jul 20, 2021
In all honesty, many men would prefer to marry even before clocking 30, but problems and challenges facing them leave them no option. It is only in Nigeria that 35 is an ideal age for a man to marry. Meanwhile, the Western marry at their early 20's.

For me, age doesn't matter. What matters is are you truly in love with the right person? This to an extent guarantees a happy marriage

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Obakashdee(m): 9:00am On Jul 20, 2021
omhor:



My dear you're on point.



which point abeg? Lol your father was senseless at age below 35 then when he married your mother even your brothers below 35 are all senseless
grin

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by limcar: 9:00am On Jul 20, 2021
poweredcom:
That is f required age to settle down but naija problems don make many youth hopeless and again our gals in dis country are not honest in relationship
Hoes G

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by goatandyam: 9:01am On Jul 20, 2021
When age reversing technology is almost around the corner. If you are under 50 you have a great chance of making it. No rush yasef into settling down with one useless bitch.

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by makeitijn: 9:02am On Jul 20, 2021
My pastor is 62 and still very hot and single.

Just make sure your JT is working properly..

At 67yrs you're still good to go

35? Well you are still a kid

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Obakashdee(m): 9:02am On Jul 20, 2021
Ropostic120:
I married in 2019 at 39 and God even gave me a virgin lady
It is not how far but how well
God's TIME is different from ours and He will always make things beautiful in His own TIME

I was in marital wilderness for many years and disappointments but when it came,it came easily and also with a virtuous woman




understand age is just a number, but all numbers are not equal still. The society tend to fix a standard for everything. Most guys will want to get married on or before they turn 30, but a couple of uncontrollable factors preclude that from happening.

God gave you a virgin woman, congrats but e no Dey relevant

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by solidmyk(m): 9:02am On Jul 20, 2021
Styluss:
there is nothing bad till your oldest kid is 15 when you 50.
Abeg leave am like that, why are you so concerned about someone else's life

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by ibechris(m): 9:02am On Jul 20, 2021
makeitijn:
My neighbour married at 55


That ur neighbour dey craze,even if he get the whole world full of money,he took the wrong decision.

U will never know this now until u take similar decision,then ur eyes will open like a child who just entered school for the first time.

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by frozen70(f): 9:03am On Jul 20, 2021
englishmart:
I understand age is just a number, but all numbers are not equal still. The society tend to fix a standard for everything. Most guys will want to get married on or before they turn 30, but a couple of uncontrollable factors preclude that from happening.

What's your take concerning marrying at 35 for guys. Do you think it's a bit late?

Once a guy is getting married at any thing after 35yrs, he must hustle double to meet up so that when the children starts entering secondary school, he must have finished establishing his family, especially building house

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by makeitijn: 9:03am On Jul 20, 2021
Whatshallido:
I'm 39 not yet married, no job, no money but i want to marry. Can a nairaland female marry me the way I'm? . I'm handsome and brilliant.
dm your pics to me..

Would you like a wealthy sugar mummy of 48 who has a daughter of 27.

She's ready if you're ready

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Hajokexyz: 9:04am On Jul 20, 2021
There's nothing like too early and nothing like too late ...we will all get married and do successful things in life when the time comes .

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Divoc19(f): 9:04am On Jul 20, 2021
Very correct my dear

simplepee:
It's not late or abnormal.

Infact I'm not sure I can marry a man under 35. Men are very slow with sense. That 35 sef, some of them still don't have sense.

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by limcar: 9:04am On Jul 20, 2021
EmmanuelScott1:


Unah dey bash men below 35 yrs, if men below 35 yrs no get sense, I wonder what female below 35 yrs get grin grin
nuts grin
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by harsysky(m): 9:05am On Jul 20, 2021

Some people are just dumb. When you need people's approval on the best time to marry, you will still need their approval on the best time to have intercourse with your wife.
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by makeitijn: 9:05am On Jul 20, 2021
ibechris:



That ur neighbour dey craze,even if he get the whole world full of money,he took the wrong decision.

U will never know this now until u take similar decision,then ur eyes will open like a child who just entered school for the first time.
how?
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by DarlingtonC: 9:06am On Jul 20, 2021
simplepee:
It's not late or abnormal.

Infact I'm not sure I can marry a man under 35. Men are very slow with sense. That 35 sef, some of them still don't have sense.
grin grin grin

Funny insult
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by shadeyinka(m): 9:06am On Jul 20, 2021
stupidmod3:
stop thinking like a child.
dingbang actually spoke very maturely.
There is no fun when at 60 years you are paying school fees.

Late marriages usually for men is due to economic uncertainties. The earlier you make your money for men the earlier they settle down except they are playboys.

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by JohnBullMySon: 9:07am On Jul 20, 2021
simplepee:
It's not late or abnormal.

Infact I'm not sure I can marry a man under 35. Men are very slow with sense. That 35 sef, some of them still don't have sense.
Don't allow outward looks and mannerisms deceive you. Many of those older men who then go to marry young ladies have the worst marriages. They only know how to pretend on the outside.

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by limcar: 9:08am On Jul 20, 2021
PAWG:



35 is right bros. My dad is 77 and comfortably paid my younger bro’s fees (Bsc-PhD) and refused all form of assistance from us.


It’s better to marry late than bring kids to this world early to suffer, making money could be a competition but starting a family [b]shouldn’t be[/b].
this is deep

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by thaoriginator: 9:08am On Jul 20, 2021
simplepee:
It's not late or abnormal.

Infact I'm not sure I can marry a man under 35. Men are very slow with sense. That 35 sef, some of them still don't have sense.]
Omo, dis one deeep o shocked
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by crafteck(m): 9:09am On Jul 20, 2021
Nothing matters but your happiness
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by JohnBullMySon: 9:10am On Jul 20, 2021
VTJN:
spot on

You are absolutely right

Naturally a girl child is intellectually ahead of a male child

Moreso, a girl child act maturedly much more than her male counterparts

I've seen an18years old upright girl from a good family that can actually build a home with a sensible man

I'm yet to see any 18years old boy that can be upright enough to play the role of a responsible husband/father

Not these boys that sag with dirty boxers and hairstyle on their head

The best bet for a guy to settle down is 35 above

Provided he's being found worthy by his supposedly fiance and het family

Sagging or hairstyle doesn't determine who makes a good husband. An 18-24 year old marrying a 35 year old is a potential disaster. Unless the woman wants to be a housewife and not a companion.

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by Uniquisite: 9:10am On Jul 20, 2021
Pocohantas, over to you grin
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by BlueAir: 9:11am On Jul 20, 2021
I swear. Marriage is a trap that favors women only. If u want to achieve more in this life,avoid marriage. At worst,get a babymama as last resort
GOFRONT:
Na Babymama things now...

Marriage is now a scam.

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Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by jericco1(m): 9:12am On Jul 20, 2021
simplepee:
It's not late or abnormal.

Infact I'm not sure I can marry a man under 35. Men are very slow with sense. That 35 sef, some of them still don't have sense.

Nonsense talk
Re: Getting Married At 35. Is It Late, Normal Or early For Guys. by limcar: 9:13am On Jul 20, 2021
supportnija:

don't mind the idiot, Yakubu Gowon married at 40
its 35 not 40

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