Is it possible to lose interest in people in general?
I only want to stay alone, far from where people know me, I don't want to have a friend who checks on me or who calls me, as I also don't wish to check on people or call...And my house should be as silent as solitude with no unnecessary movement of people around or prying eye. Just want it standing alone.
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..far from people who know me or who might take interest in me.
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And when I meet a woman, I want it to be for the moment, nothing serious, no reason to hold anyone accountable even if it lingers for some times. Just be free as bird and as well discreet ( private)
I just want to stay by myself and my own rules. And pursuing my personal interest..
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Is this possible or is this feeling normal?

have u heard of the saying that ' loneliness is next to suicide?
its very scaring wen u become very quiet, calm and avoid people....
naso one guy for area dey avoid people all the time, he no dey comout for room, alwys stays alone...... boooooommmm... one morning dem see him dead body hanging...

You spoiled the settings when you decided that you will still want to meet a woman in the process...why not avoid women too as they are humans that you wish to stay away from...if I may ask, what do you still need a woman for.?

sam564:
have u heard of the saying that ' loneliness is next to suicide?
its very scaring wen u become very quiet, calm and avoid people....
naso one guy for area dey avoid people all the time, he no dey comout for room, alwys stays alone...... boooooommmm... one morning dem see him dead body hanging...

I'm not lonely perse....cos when I feel lonely or bored I know where to go and wat to do..But, aside those few occasion, I just want to avoid people getting close to me..I mean close pals or family or friends......Just wanna be private without close connection
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we can chichat out there on the street for limited time, but getting access to me, I feel it's intrusive and unnecessary, especially my personal space....
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@the OP!!
There is NOTHING wrong with you@all..
Either you are an Introvert or You have reached a stage in ur life When you are Trying to Get things right..
It's normal..
Suddenly, you will see yourself having a job, meeting new friends, doing sth new, etc..

Stupidquestions:


I'm not lonely perse....cos when I feel lonely or bored I know where to go and wat to do..But, aside those few occasion, I just want to avoid people getting close to me..I mean close pals or family or friends......Just wanna be private without close connection
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we can chichat out there on the street for limited time, but getting access to me, I feel it's intrusive and unnecessary, especially my personal space....
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don't u think u need deliverance

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Stupidquestions:


I'm not lonely perse....cos when I feel lonely or bored I know where to go and wat to do..But, aside those few occasion, I just want to avoid people getting close to me..I mean close pals or family or friends......Just wanna be private without close connection
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we can chichat out there on the street for limited time, but getting access to me, I feel it's intrusive and unnecessary, especially my personal space....
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don't u think u need deliverance lols...
don't ever forget that people u are shying away from are thesame people that will help u at due times.... is very gud to take precautions and get self respect from people... there are issues u can't solve alone nomata what, so u will eventually need som1

Vinnie2000:

@the OP!!
There is NOTHING wrong with you@all..
Either you are an Introvert or You have reached a stage in ur life When you are Trying to Get things right..
It's normal..
Suddenly, you will see yourself having a job, meeting new friends, doing sth new, etc..

Thanks for this....I'm not actually your typical introvert.
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I'm quite outspoken and can relate well with people.. but at same time, I'm very introspective and hate mundane shits...then human being to me are too superficial, selfish, fake and intrusive for my liking

Your own is better. I am becoming disinterested at life. I am not depressed but I think am tired.

Bodyodour:
Your own is better. I am becoming disinterested at life. I am not depressed but I think am tired.

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Life is such shit that we need to question its worth and value in a shit hole like Nigeria

Do you masturbate?

Wait don’t answer!

You obviously do.

iamadonis2:
Do you masturbate?

Wait don’t answer!

You obviously do.

I don't actually.
Im not a fan of masturbation.

Op, this is exactly the same way am feeling at the moment.. I hate seeing calls coming from close friends or anybody..I just want to be far away from people physically..maybe scroll through social media jst looking at pics nd videos..I hate seeing chats frm people..

pregnantMan:
Op, this is exactly the same way am feeling at the moment.. I hate seeing calls coming from close friends or anybody..I just want to be far away from people physically..maybe scroll through social media jst looking at pics nd videos..I hate seeing chats frm people..

Dats also what I told the OP!
You re just in a Phase of Life..

This is mainly due to Disappointment of how some things didn't turn out well, Missed opportunities you have had, some kind of betrayal from Friends, etc..

One Pastor told my Brother day he DOESN'T trust anybody in this life..Dat humans are Terrible..
Dat B4 he can trust a person, it has to be proved like 20x..Dat he rarely does anything serious with Human beings.. Pastor oo!!

So It's like Dat..
But As I told the OP, this Phase will pass..
You will find urself associating with more pple soon..
Particularly If get married, get a new Job, travel to a new place,etc..

same here bro
solitude is very dangerous... it's very addictive..once u realize how peaceful it is..then u wouldn't wanna deal with people any longer...
As 4 me bro...if not that my bizness entails meeting people...I do just prefer 2 hole up in my room...read E-books...watch Aljazeera news nd listen 2 music all day...
Human beings don tire me...
na 2 js buy pet dog or cat sure pass..

Stupidquestions:
Is it possible to lose interest in people in general?
I only want to stay alone, far from where people know me, I don't want to have a friend who checks on me or who calls me, as I also don't wish to check on people or call.
.
Just wanna be alone..far from people who know me or who might take interest in me.
.
And when I meet a woman, I want it to be for the moment, nothing serious, no reason to hold anyone accountable even if it lingers for some times. Just be free as bird and as well discreet ( private)
I just want to stay by myself and my own rules. And pursuing my personal interest..
.
Is this possible or is this feeling normal?

What happened to you before you got this way?

As for me, quality people over quantity, anytime any day. I'd rather stay alone than waste time with people who lack depth.

Robertgreene1:
same here bro
solitude is very dangerous... it's very addictive..once u realize how peaceful it is..then u wouldn't wanna deal with people any longer...
As 4 me...Apart from Meeting people 4 business...I do just prefer 2 hole up in my room..read E-books...watch news nd listen 2 music all day...
people don tire me...

Honestly...u geh my point.
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Even my choice of house...I don't want it within noisy or bustle area....love to have it far away from the pry of ordinary people..
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I crave that solitude.

[quote author=Stupidquestions post=103988764]
Thanks for this....I'm not actually your typical introvert.
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I'm quite outspoken and can relate well with people.. but at same time, I'm very introspective and hate mundane shits...then human being to me are too superficial, selfish, fake and intrusive for my liking[/quote
It’s because you have not met the right people

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I don't get

I have experienced it. But for me, solitude is an opportunity to focus strictly on me. I use those moment to focus on things I love doing and mostly to process information that I didn't have time to process.

I envy the fact that you can afford to do that. The only free time I have is when everybody is sleeping. My solitude is between 2:30am and 5:am. These are times I catched up with news, process information, write, respond to personal mails chat ....... Walai I envy you o.

Yours is better... Mine, I need an entire planet where I can live alone, no single soul except trees and birds.

This is exactly what is going on with me, I just want to be alone like I don’t wanna see anybody
I just wanna be alone in my world... mine is mostly cos of the billing, sometimes I lodge alone for weeks....

Once in a while,I choose to kill beer on my own...
No friends,no wahala...... Success is truly the only thing created by God that has many friends.. While failure is just SELF-CONTAIN......

I'm an introvert...A proud one for that matter...

Stupidquestions:
Is it possible to lose interest in people in general?
I only want to stay alone, far from where people know me, I don't want to have a friend who checks on me or who calls me, as I also don't wish to check on people or call...And my house should be as silent as solitude with no unnecessary movement of people around or prying eye. Just want it standing alone.
.
..far from people who know me or who might take interest in me.
.
And when I meet a woman, I want it to be for the moment, nothing serious, no reason to hold anyone accountable even if it lingers for some times. Just be free as bird and as well discreet ( private)
I just want to stay by myself and my own rules. And pursuing my personal interest..
.
Is this possible or is this feeling normal?

That's the price you pay for being too smart. Expecially living in a country where the average IQ is less than 99. There is a level of enlightenment a man would reach, that will make him comparable to the gods.

You'll detest fraternizing with people in general, and progressively become apathetic to the masses. You'll see most people as anchovies, who lack an independent mind of their own, can't formulate their own path in life, and just live according to the dictate of their nature and nurture. You're not alone.

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pansophist:
Women have the first and loudest laugh, but men have the last and the best laugh. Think of a 17 years old boy and give him a billion dollars, that's comparable to the gift of youthfulness women have from young. But because they never knew about the other side of loosing their beauty, and the pain of being a man, they tend to think its everlasting, fail to develop themselves and make life altering mistakes.

I know how dumb I was at even 20 years old, now imagine to be a dumb and super attractive girl, and drunk under feminism, that's a perfect recipe for failure. Women can literally date celebrities at that age, but most seems to think it last forever. At best, twenty years maximum, and life will become dark if a woman did not make good life choices when young. You think men like to work? I'll tell you for free. We hate it passionately.

But we do it so we can enjoy the beauty of life, something women get automatically just for being women. A man's life is hard, it is men that need feminism not women. But as you lay your mat, you lie on it. I don't feel sorry for her, at least she enjoyed the beauty of her youth, something most men will never experience. Most men will be invincible until they die, and if not for prostitution, they won't know how sex feels like, something women are paid to enjoy, and thanked for it.

From forth years old, life becomes meaningless and lonely for everyone including men, if you have no family. Its even worse for women because by nature, women are designed to find happiness relationally. Women deal on people, and men deal on things. You'll have to work in a job you hate, pay your dam bills and die alone. Its a lonely place. I've visited old people homes and many of this old white women wished they had kids and are married, I speak to many alot. It's a dark world for women after 40 if they are single.

Many will try to mask it and lie to themselves that it's freedom and they are developing themselves and rubbish, but its a lie and they know it. Humans need love and affection to be psychologically okay. Lots of men are depressed when they are young and romantically invincible to women, but they recover from it as they grow older, unless he is a man-child. But for women, life is awesome when they are young, but depressing if they make wrong choices and miss out on having a family and loosing her fertility.

And in a world where most people hate their job and only do it to pay bills, and with technology eroding more jobs, I don't see how one can deceive themselves and say they have career. But lots of women isntead learn from others failure, they somehow believe that are the exception, and will probably get angry at the truth, instead of accept it and work with it. Some will even hate me for telling them this, but I'm not surprised, afterall, even God described women as the weaker vessels. Do what you want with with this, but its not coming from a place of hate, if not why would I interrupt when a woman is making a mistake ?

I think it's a skit though, regardless, my point holds it validity.

Is there a difference with your comment below?

pansophist:
That's the price you pay for being too smart. Expecially living in a country where the average IQ is less than 99.

There is a level of thought a man would reach, that will make him closer to the gods. You'll detest fraternizing with people in general, and apathetic to the masses. You'll see most people as anchovies, who lack an independent mind of their own, can't formulate their own path in life, and just live according to the dictate of their nature and nature. You're not alone.

Stupidquestions:
Is it possible to lose interest in people in general?
I only want to stay alone, far from where people know me, I don't want to have a friend who checks on me or who calls me, as I also don't wish to check on people or call...And my house should be as silent as solitude with no unnecessary movement of people around or prying eye. Just want it standing alone.
.
..far from people who know me or who might take interest in me.
.
And when I meet a woman, I want it to be for the moment, nothing serious, no reason to hold anyone accountable even if it lingers for some times. Just be free as bird and as well discreet ( private)
I just want to stay by myself and my own rules. And pursuing my personal interest..
.
Is this possible or is this feeling normal?

What is your passion

Stupidquestions:
Is it possible to lose interest in people in general?
I only want to stay alone, far from where people know me, I don't want to have a friend who checks on me or who calls me, as I also don't wish to check on people or call...And my house should be as silent as solitude with no unnecessary movement of people around or prying eye. Just want it standing alone.
.
..far from people who know me or who might take interest in me.
.
And when I meet a woman, I want it to be for the moment, nothing serious, no reason to hold anyone accountable even if it lingers for some times. Just be free as bird and as well discreet ( private)
I just want to stay by myself and my own rules. And pursuing my personal interest..
.
Is this possible or is this feeling normal?

surprisingly, I had that thought this morning.. I mean I wished I could erase everyone I know and get to know new people entirely in a far away country

seguno2:


Is there a difference with your comment below?

I don't understand you bro

Na thread for depressed n low self esteem people be this .... I dey like this before thank God sey I don begin chop life small.

Daniiel:
Na thread for depressed n low self esteem people be this .... I dey like this before thank God sey I don begin chop life small.

Lol...look at this fool .... ...so tell us about your time in that mood and situation

Daniiel:
Na thread for depressed n low self esteem people be this .... I dey like this before thank God sey I don begin chop life small.

it's a thread to vent, over meeting opportunists, meaningless people in this life, Some people are better forgotten in this life. You just have to make friends with people who has a vision in life, where ever you are. Stay focused and move on with your life.

We are the same man.... Exactly how I always feel........For no reason, I always find solace in solitude.