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Re: Did She Dump Me Or Am I A Simp? by Waterlrd: 3:17pm On Jul 25, 2021
She was like,she doesn’t want to have sex again(She was like,if we have sex,the way she sees me will be different) This is a subtle way of telling you that you can't satisfy her sexual desire.
Re: Did She Dump Me Or Am I A Simp? by Nobody: 3:19pm On Jul 25, 2021
Op no long thing,na smallie olosho you carry the different be say them no dey charge your type because you are nice.




To has been to me before.
Re: Did She Dump Me Or Am I A Simp? by Premiumwriter2: 3:35pm On Jul 25, 2021
chatinent:
You didn't even wait to reach forty before you became this forever.


Well, anywhere I put a C, it was very foolish. Anywhere I put a P, please just slap yourself so hard.


Leggo..

= C.

Do people still really ask this trash anymore? Is any girl really single? Uncle, just join the list and hustle to reach the vice boyfriend, or boyfriend of reps.

= P.

= P⁷.

= P, for trying to deceive the gods.

Anyways, happy STDs.
4get it.

Even though he wasn't trying, he played the game perfectly.

As a guy, having maximum physical contact with a girl is a must especially if you want your relationship to be intimate.

You communicate that very early in the relationship. And he did that even though he may not have done it consciously.

The only fault I may have with the op is if he begged the girl to hug him. That's different but if he playfully requested for it with confidence (excellent) or commanded her in a playful mode to hug him then he did right.

And I love his video call. Though I think it was too early and needy at that point but he made it sexual wich shows that he knows what he wants. On the other side, it's bad to ask a girl about sexual history when you are just meeting. But the girl was clearly into him already (or just sex starved).

@op, you are acting too clingy. You gave yourself too easy to her. She initially saw you as the prize especially when you talk very little.

Talking very little has its own advantages. It gives you an air of mystery which girls die to unravel. You demystified yourself too early.

And how do you stand waiting for a girl moving from a guy to a guy? That shows that you do not value your time or have much options when it comes to relationships.

Please whenever a girl leaves you to talk to a guy, 2 minute start de waka comot. Even 1 minute self, just tell am say you go see am later. Waka go do wetin you wan do or go lie down for house the sleep if you de jobless.

Personally, I feel you have done everything right except that aspect of giving her too much of your time. Truly you gave her too much of it. I know you enjoy all the hangout but please cut it short. Spend less time with her.

Here's a clue: whenever you guys are hanging out and you feel she's starting to enjoy herself, tell her you want to go and do something. Leave.

Do this as many times as you can and every time you meet her.
Re: Did She Dump Me Or Am I A Simp? by Henri244: 4:47pm On Jul 25, 2021
Na Moremi hall she dey right? Those girls can prove hard to get at times.
Well, Don't get worked up, She is just trying to keep a distance so you don't see her as being too cheap after the bleep. Don't text or call her for a week, and see the magic. Na so unilag girls dey do Jare, their way don cast.
Re: Did She Dump Me Or Am I A Simp? by muller101(m): 5:21pm On Jul 25, 2021
Op you mean after shooting you are still looking for the empty cartridge.
Re: Did She Dump Me Or Am I A Simp? by Tohsynetita1: 8:19pm On Jul 25, 2021
Many problem affect this generation. what we youth are always after is sex sex sex, we've neglected intimacy, purpose, faith,fate, strength, weakness, blood compatibility, family rites and culture and we think that's a good way of starting relationship. It's well
Re: Did She Dump Me Or Am I A Simp? by Fiscus105(m): 8:29pm On Jul 25, 2021
Yeyeboi05:
Funny enough,I’m not new when it comes to girls issues but e be like say I need that red pill


Formulated a figment to sell out yeye indoctrination.
Re: Did She Dump Me Or Am I A Simp? by Yeyeboi05(m): 5:57pm On Nov 27, 2021
Update! She messaged me recently and we agreed on sex anytime..Omo,she never had any feelings for me but I don’t give here money!
Re: Did She Dump Me Or Am I A Simp? by COZA234(m): 7:28pm On Nov 27, 2021
U know what u want in life
Re: Did She Dump Me Or Am I A Simp? by Nobody: 3:11pm On Nov 06, 2022
Yeyeboi05:
Guys,help a confused guy here! It was last month,June when I wanted to chill in the Lagoon front(it’s a popular place in Unilag) in School…I went alone and surprisingly,I saw three of my male friends sitting there;They were like,Some girls Dey there wey wan snap pic..”I use a good Iphone tho’ …They told me some girls came to meet them earlier that they need a good photographer to take them because they were three and they want the three of them in one pic,so someone have to take..When I got there,my friends pushed me…I am a kind of shy guy and I refused but I later summoned courage to meet the girls ! I took them successfully and one of them was like ‘You’ll send it through WhatsApp..That was how she typed her number on my phone!!
The next day,she asked for her pic..And I told her to wait for me to edit them..She was like ‘awwwn! So,I eventually edited it and sent it to her..So,the next I asked if we could meet,outside her hostel..She agreed,I got Shawarma for her and this was how it all started..I didn’t saw much during our five hours together outside in the night cause,I’m a shy guy…During our meeting,she even met two guys;I wait for more than one hour for her to see a guy,then I followed her to see another guy that night..She was like’They are just my friends’ That same night,I asked her if she was single;She said,YES AND SHE IS HAPPY!She asked me the same Question..
When I was escorting her to her hostel,she told me •Thanks for checking up on me• And she held my hand till her hostel gate..So,,I insisted that she should hug me and she did..
The same night,I couldn’t stop thinking about her;She’s young beautiful and black OMG!!! I called her on Video call and I told her I admired her hug and it made me stand..She was like ‘Does my body move so easily?! I said..No but she made me move..That was when I asked her about her sex life and when she was defiled..She told me everything!! Then she was like’Though ,we just met,Can we? She actually asked if we could have sex..This wasn’t up to four days that we met..I said yes tho!
After that day,we met frequently and we were always outside cuddling till around 11:30pm amd we weren’t dating…We started kissing and she’ll tell me that I’m too romantic..Then I told her if she could come to my friend’s apartment outside school on a Sunday;She agreed! It was on a Friday,when we met again and I reminded her about our sex meeting..She was like,she doesn’t want to have sex again(She was like,if we have sex,the way she sees me will be different)…Then I agreed not to have sex with her.I just said,we should just meet for chilling (I use scope sha)…
It was on a Sunday after church when I called her outside from hostel,it was raining heavily so I had to order Uber..My friend left the apartment for me..I asked her if she wanted to take anything,she refused,she was looking angry seff,so I tried to cuddle with her and within seconds,she pulled it off for me and she asked if I had condom ..I was fully prepared lol..We had sex sha,it was painful because I forgot one condom in my hostel and it was too dark to buy another condom;She even begged me to continue without condom but I refused.
But my main issues is,after that day,my love for her increased and I can’t go any day without thinking about her but she doesn’t even give me face again..Sometimes when we mange to see,another guy will call her and she’ll keep me waiting..
I use to form hard guy but,how’s this different?? Did she dump me Or am I stupid??

Drop her like An album....she has too many male frnds.....no �
Re: Did She Dump Me Or Am I A Simp? by Nobody: 3:16pm On Nov 06, 2022
Gadafii:
Op, you should be wearing a hat around with "simp" embroidery


Kaaai, some men shaa,tueh

Girl wey u don already Bleep, when give you Toto Bleep, na him u dey loose guard for, one thing wey I know be says, smokers no dey loose guard like this, if not u for don find Canadian loud take clear your kokonut head, make u no dey reason anyhow girl.

You think all these guys she will keep u waiting for, na just hi, hello, have you eaten ur favorite food today Dem dey do her, those ones dey give her better quickie,in sharp corners, but u ordered Uber and even carry her go apartment, once she don Bleep u, she realise say u are no match for those other guys shey Bleep for inside worosiworo grin

She don reason say u are waste of time and pussy juice, make she continue to dey collect her quickie, as matter be so, she go turn u to mugu, you go come be simp mugu cheesy

Watch how she's about to start by first getting angry with you for no reason, while you will be doing ur possible best to please her, including buying more shawarma and other things tongue.

Omo women cruise mad gaan, I thank God for weed and that I mastered the art of understanding, that girls no dey like good, shy boys, never ever, they like them rugged on edges, someone to tickle their fantasies
I have one mamacita like this when dey quarrel me say I never get time to Bleep her since last weekend, girl wey men with cars dey find up and down, some dey entice her with gifts and money, while me na just my loud and my dicc I get, nothing else, tho right from time she don tell me say make we just 'dey dey'., Nothing serious based in my manner of approach and lamba, . but I dey almost rip her into two when I catch her, which unsurprisingly is what most girls want, a guy that can make dem feel like a bad biccch..naso girls be no think am

So OP, either you continue to simp or emancipate your self, by forgetting about that girl and act like you never met her, he go hard you, but shey go dey wonder why have you changed, and na she go find you come, if she no find you come, no reason am, plenty fish dey water and that unilag na big lagoon, all manners of fish dey there


No reason say girl too fine, they all mostly have fish brains, sorry to say??

Modified****

Abeg make you free this mumu OP, I just read thru the comments and this boy is still making excuse for girl wey no even save his number, make him simp peacefully, he go dey alright soon

U know the matters bro..... make him try dey smoke weed.....him no go dey reason b!tches matter too much
Re: Did She Dump Me Or Am I A Simp? by SIRTee15: 3:20pm On Nov 06, 2022
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Re: Did She Dump Me Or Am I A Simp? by SIRTee15: 3:21pm On Nov 06, 2022
Opak001:
Sex is a expression of your ability.
If you don't have physical power have for za oga room.
From everything you said,she lack a good sex life but have guyz around are but are no capable to satisfy her sexual need,which you just fall in the same category now.
You will need extra power to get her,that's if she will.
Peace!!!

The Kain knowledge you people get regarding women, if u have that Kain knowledge on naija economy...America sef go dey bow.
Re: Did She Dump Me Or Am I A Simp? by Konjiboii: 3:34pm On Nov 06, 2022
Women don't know what love is, like animals they are only attracted to the alpha male and how much you can provide their needs, know this now and know peace for the rest of your life. The worse kind of girl you can date in this present day is an undergrad girl,they will open office for your head and there's a high chance to catch an STD/STI since you won't be her only maga.
Re: Did She Dump Me Or Am I A Simp? by imagrg(m): 4:10pm On Nov 06, 2022
You don knack toto, what else are you looking for in a Community babe?

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