another1:
Good morning great people,

I have an issue at hand now that I need your input. I was in a serious relationship with a lady, we both live the same city. After prayers and studying each other as well as both families approval, we decided to approached her church for approval of our courtship.

She went to her church for registration and interview, she was told to invite me of course which i went. After much talk and introduction, questions and answers, I was told that since we met through a friend, that it was acceptable in their doctrine.

Please be reminded that I personally went there more than 5 times i mean their church mc and she too did same to tried convinced them to change their mind. We committed no crime, she haven`t visited or know my place for over 3 and half years we are dating because she said it is against their church mc doctrine.

Now, the issue is this, after all the stress and pain to get approval from her church marriage committee ended exercise in futility her family called me for a meeting in their place where we concluded that we are going to their village for both traditional marriage and wedding with their village church. I accepted in good faith, marriage list was given to me, we also fixed date for both and communicated with the village church about our plan and they accepted. Just last week she told me that her church mc invited her and her dad after 4 months and she wouldn`t be around till September and her dad said all our plans with village church must be on hold pending when she come back to answer her church mc that wasted our time.

I am confused, please advise me what to do.

Niggaaaaaaaaaaaa!!


Why the flying hell would you need to approach her church for approval?

Are they her parents!!!

So if the church says no then you end things between her? This is why Nigerians are the most gullible and ignorant people ever to grace

this Green earth. Boy take your woman home and WIFE her

What the fck wrong with you!

luvmijeje:
What's the meaning of mc?

luvmijeje:
MC is marriage committee.

Anyway, for me there are more issues you should be bothered about. After marriage, will she still be going to her church?

If yes, just know that you have ceded your right to that church.
The Church will be the one to decide how to bleeped your wife and and what kind of relationship to have with your wife.

If no, will your wife still be going to that church for spiritual advice. That means you are in bigger soup. The church will know everything that happens in your house. Every little quarrel will be settled by the church.

You are getting married to a woman who is indecisive about her life. I wish you best of luck.