It is true if redpill is conscientiously swallowed, a man will see his self esteem skyrocket, that it gives him more control of his emotions and relationship.
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Redpill will also constantly embarrass you with the charge that you have to own your shit, work on yourself to earn the title of being called a man. Otherwise don't even bother.
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Because being a man entails being responsible for yourself, making things work for your own life and people who look up to you.

Thus self dependence and personal achievement are ingredients to boost your redpill credentials, without which u will probably feel powerless and in less control of your life and in extension it will seep down into your relationship with women that the application of redpill truths become difficult or unrealistic.

For instance, abundance mindset come from knowing u have enough wherewithals to make things happen, to make people gravitate towards you and to make people see you as a magnet where fun and goodness is resident; A trait or air women can smell from afar.

But if u are so destitute, in confusion of where ur life is headed, or being unable to carve an headway for your life, no matter all theories of redpill u swallow, your mind will be burdened by the contradiction of lack of means and purpose which aren't congruent with redpill.

This will manifest in your carriage, decision making, self esteem and ur over-prioritising of female gender. It will also affect the quality of men u move with, which are usually essential for preselection.
But when in control of ur life and economic means...u have so much going that women takes less important position and applying redpill knowledge to ur advantage becomes easy and less of disillusionment as seen in young confused Redpillers .

a lot of things will work for u when u have money. u cant be broke and be shouting redpill up and down the street on an empty stomach. no one will take u serious and u will look like a tactical mad man