I mean how can u marry and your wife is abroad while u are in Nigeria. I don't quite understand especially for young marriage.

A cousin of mine married 3 years ago, my age mate , till today he hasn't been able to relocate to meet his wife. I mean is it possible one guy wont be servicing her steady? How do such husband handle such thought. The Lady is Nigerian and nurse in the U.S. They commhnicate with zoom.
I hear of husband keeping their wife in Nigeria while hustling abroad . But the case of wife husling abroad while husband in Nigeria has no wherewithal or visa luck of going abroad is strange.
You can imagine the confidence and rest of mind the wife over there will be serviced...this life ehn. You can share ur thought and experience.

Kuriosmynd:
I mean how can u marry and your wife is abroad while u are in Nigeria. I don't quite understand.
A cousin of mine married 3 years ago, my age mate , till today he hasn't been able to relocate to meet his wife. I mean is it possible one guy wont be servicing her steady? How do such husband handle such thought. The Lady is Nigerian and nurse in the U.S. They commhnicate with zoom.
I hear of husband keeping their wife in Nigeria while hustling abroad . But the case of wife husling abroad while husband in Nigeria has no wherewithal or visa luck of going abroad is strange.
You can imagine the confidence and rest of mind the wife over there will be serviced...this life ehn. You can share ur thought and experience.

If men can do it...women can do it too. Mind your business

Skyfornia:


If men can do it...women can do it too. Mind your business

I only pity the husband

Why did you glorify it when it is the men abroad and the wives home!

Inasmuch as I don't do distant relationships, it has nothing to do with gender. If sb is faithful, they are faithful. If they will cheat, they will cheat. Still contact me to write your assignments, thesis, and dissertations.

Kuriosmynd:

I only pity the husband

Honestly, sometimes, I wish I could be the other guy servicing the hort pvssy of the lonely wife. While they both deceive themselves on video call that they are faithful and miss each other...da kine nacking dey sweet

When I get to that particular bridge,I go know by then...

Ok

Stupidquestions:

Honestly, sometimes, I wish I could be the other guy servicing the hort pvssy of the lonely wife. While they both deceive themselves on video call that they are faithful and miss each other...da kine nacking dey sweet

Do they also call it marriage?

Kuriosmynd:
I mean how can u marry and your wife is abroad while u are in Nigeria. I don't quite understand.
A cousin of mine married 3 years ago, my age mate , till today he hasn't been able to relocate to meet his wife. I mean is it possible one guy wont be servicing her steady? How do such husband handle such thought. The Lady is Nigerian and nurse in the U.S. They commhnicate with zoom.
I hear of husband keeping their wife in Nigeria while hustling abroad . But the case of wife husling abroad while husband in Nigeria has no wherewithal or visa luck of going abroad is strange.
You can imagine the confidence and rest of mind the wife over there will be serviced...this life ehn. You can share ur thought and experience.

Even if na d wife dey Nigeria , thoughts will still be there and she is receiving steady knacking, either ways ,e go happen! I think, instead of men to be puzzled by such thought, they need to continuously re-orientate their wives into the kind of person they should identify with and advocate a distance knacking( where she is not known and with whom no sabi her wella) eg. You are living in ketu, Lagos , get knacking from someone in Ayobo after ipaja and don't tell him real details about you.

And also get her sex stuff, like a Love Machine to use, when she needs it. This will curb her quest to explore , until she sees/ meet the Ayobo guy again. And she will do just that.

But, re-orientation no dey work with guyz situation. They will knack anybody (that appeals to them) available.

LMAO
Anything long distance is usually scam

IamCookie:


Even if na d wife dey Nigeria , thoughts will still be there and she is receiving steady knacking, either ways ,e go happen! I think, instead of men to be puzzled by such thought, they need to continuously re-orientate their wives into the kind of person they should identify with and advocate a distance knacking( where she is not known and with whom no sabi her wella) eg. You are living in ketu, Lagos , get knacking from someone in Ayobo after ipaja and don't tell him real details about you.

And also get her sex stuff, like a Love Machine to use, when she needs it. This will curb her quest to explore , until she sees/ meet the Ayobo guy again. And she will do just that.

But, re-orientation no dey work with guyz situation. They will knack anybody (that appeals to them) available.

You may be right but no man will ever allow his woman to be fvcked even by a stranger! And once the man agree to it, forget it there won't be love between them both again just lust.

MufasaLion:


You may be right but no man will ever allow his woman to be fvcked even by a stranger! And once the man agree to it, forget it there won't be love between them both again just lust.

I know of someone that did that. He resides in the US and haven't been to Nigeria since 2016.. He and his wife have a kid before he left... He told my friend(his wife) not to get involved with anyone within Ikorodu(where they live) but in case she needs to explore, she can try somewhere far and with just that person. He further said , he doesn't want to know that person. That s why i said re-orientation is better. Somethingz are just inevitable! No need to shy away from such discussion. Otherwise , your wife's action may be disgraceful , when she bleeps individuals within

IamCookie:


I know of someone that did that. He resides in the US and haven't been to Nigeria since 2016.. He and his wife have a kid before he left... He told my friend(his wife) not to get involved with anyone within Ikorodu(where they live) but in case she needs to explore, she can try somewhere far and with just that person. He further said , he doesn't want to know that person. That s why i said re-orientation is better. Somethingz are just inevitable! No need to shy away from such discussion. Otherwise , your wife's action may be disgraceful , when she bleeps individuals within

Yes, there's no reason to shy away from such discussion but not all men can handle such burden

Nothing much so long as the woman keeps sending the money from abroad, we are ok.

The main thing here is trust n both partners being focus n committed. Distance will never be a barrier!

Trust me, these arrangements are made with the best of intentions. However, humans are weak and Nigerians are weakest. The woman usually ends up getting serviced by somebody else. The man will usually have women back in Nigeria. Some couples know this might happen and they even promise themselves that, God forbid if such should happen, condom must be involved and there should be no romantic involvement. Such arrangement is usually easy for a man but a woman, 9 times out of 10 will start developing feelings for anyone nacking her and will end up getting emotionally involved. She might even get pregnant for this person which will lead her to make an emergency trip back to Nigeria for cover up nacking with her husband.

MufasaLion:


Yes, there's no reason to shy away from such discussion but not all men can handle such burden

I agree. Suppose you are in Nigeria and your wife stays over there(USA) for about 3-4years now , will you do the do ? Do you expect her to do the do OR you'd believe she isn't gonna do it ?

IamCookie:


I agree. Suppose you are in Nigeria and your wife stays over there(USA) for about 3-4years now , will you do the do ? Do you expect her to do the do OR you'd believe she isn't gonna do it ?

Trust is something I can't afford especially when it's about women

Only two options

uptownmusic:
Only two options

How

Kuriosmynd:

How

You know na

uptownmusic:

You know na

.I mean the two options

They should just forget it

my guy e no easy oo...
one of my bros for jand bin de send moni Gv e wife for lag n also de send small tips give my big broda to de police him wife codedly based on Wetin him de hear about naija women n him de work on papers make the wife kum join am for jand before covid spoil plans..
my big bro say, d Kain tin wey e de hear n see the wife do with her fellow cartel babes eeh, him no fit open mouth tell big bros for jand based on say d marriage go scatter
but when he notice say d wife Kum de constantly log out with big men, him use anonymous number text her say if she no stop am, her husband go hear all with pictures as proves...
na then d wife reply n start to de beg say she no go like Mk the husband hear based on say the husband de build family ous for her parents for town n the news go follow spoil d marriage...
na so she take stop d Waka Waka o BT streets boys know say na just pretending tiz n she go jus de run d map very codedly, maybe other states bcox a hoe is always a hoe..

To an extent...I can't do it.....e get why I talk so

Such a dirty mind! Think pure thoughts and get wise to yourself, brother. There are more man-made adversities ranged against marriage, a young marriage, by our rulers than physical separation of spouses!

Dream of most 9ja men. There are many single and willing babes around to nack

No a big deal ,they will both be coping with the help others

lol
They are getting laid steadily, we dey see them here.