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I have discovered that love doesn't
guarantee the success of a relationship.
Love cannot help you stick to one person all
years round, and on the other hand,
cheating isn't always a product of not
lovingyour partner.
In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee
not falling in love with someone
else.Relationships work out mostly because
of our head not our heart.
It works out because of our emotional
maturity, empathetic intelligence and self
discipline because, time will come when
you'll see more beautiful, handsome,
romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich,curvy and
God fearing people than the one you're in a
relationship with.
In those times, love will not help you; self
control will help you, emotional intelligence
will come to your rescue and commitment
will keep you going. With those
characteristics,no matter how you feel for
someone else, the person you're committed
to will rank first in your life.
You think happily married people don't see
better people than the ones they married?
You think they don't feel funny sometimes?
You think they don't catch feelings? They
do!
But understanding that commitment is
greater than feelings is the great arsenal
that do destroy that impulse.You can fall in
love with anyone, but building a relationship
takes absolutely more than what attracted
you to them and takes more than love.We
are too fond of loving when it's convenient
and sweet.
We are too fond of loving when love is there
but that can only last for just the first 3-6
months of the relationship. After then, you'll
realise that the feelings have dropped, it's
now your responsibility to make it work, not
love's responsibility.
Relationships cannot be ready made.You
have to build it and it's never always about
love, it requires commitment and
intelligence.
On the long run in marriages, it's not just
love that keeps them together forever, it's
determination and commitment. Everyone
falls in love; it takes little or no effort to do
that. But staying in love? Building a
relationship? Only the strong and committed
ones do that.That's why we must find that
one person and commit to that one,
discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.
Building a relationship is hard work, it's like
building a career, It's like pursuing a dream.
It's always tough, at some point it will be so
bitter but you can make it work by putting
your heads together, you can scale through
the trying time by being focus and
committed.
The kind of love that attracts two people
together is not the kind of love that will
keep them together. Be emotionally strong
and be self disciplined.