sirjamesjnr:
Of course. Looks are fun, but they are just the wrapping on the package. Again why? After the average looks and some desirability, Intelligence is something that I think has a far reaching impact on the relationship than looks. With intelligence, you can solve any and all the problems and build a great future and educate a generation and conquer the world and all of these things are more important to me than marginal looks I called this PERSON OF CLASS. Looks are fine and having these would be a great plus and I would welcome that but I'd put more premium on intelligence any day. Because sooner or later, you have to find out what’s inside.

I must tell you Intelligence is sexy, no matter what your gender or preferences. He or she doesn't need to know the "Theory of Relativity, or QUANTUM PHYSICS" or have an IQ over 150, but at least tickle our brain cells with interesting conversation. The more tidbits of random knowledge that a man and a woman know, the more physically attractive he/she will be as well. Given a chance, I choose three women in romance land namely ISLIlove, Poco, and Drfunmi. Thank goodness I am blessed to be with one of them. I mean looking at their posts most time they are logical, calculative, and straight up. It may not favour your disposition but trust me there is something to look at for.
So do you find intelligence sexier than looks, or let me put it this way, Do you prefer Regina Daniel to Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala? Whom will you take to your mama. In most cases, smart guy or lady look prettier and more sexy, especially if the gender is a female....... There is this smart lady friend of my....each time we are having a scientific conversation or discussing about "space and latest discoveries in the space" she look so beautiful especially if she try to bring out some facts. Op i guess you have a point.

phazotron:
Nigerian girls prefer looks to intelligence

Sad reality

SavageBoy:
A lot of us claim to be sapiosexual in words of mouth, but our actions usually say contrary.

An average Nigerian guy wouldn't mind dumping a smart girl who gat the brain of Michelle Obama for a gorgeous empty vessel with Kim kardashian's body

For girls; many of them don't know what they want.
The very few that know what they want and deliberately chase it are becoming extinct species

phazotron:
Nigerian girls prefer looks to intelligence

Sad reality

sirjamesjnr:
You can't have it all. Just so you know.

Karlifate:



Just because "you can't have it all" doesn't mean you should settle for a mediocre and/or as a mediocre.


Everyone should continually work towards perfection -- It's not a destination BUT a lifelong journey.


Ciao!

sirjamesjnr:
If I am correct this is what you mean.... IQ tests measure your ability to solve problems, use logic, and grasp or communicate complex ideas. EQ tests measure your ability to recognize emotion in yourself and others and to use that awareness to guide your decisions.

I make haste to quote you earlier on because one of my eyes was on my work, my apologies. I clearly understand what you mean earlier on.

Seniorwriter:
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Ability to balance your EQ with your IQ in matters of relationship and love is a superpower!



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Seniorwriter:
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Ability to balance your EQ with your IQ in matters of relationship and love is a superpower!


Balance isn't equated to all.....try to read to comprehend rather than for quoting sake.

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Ability to read and comprehend is a superpower....@sirjamesjnr try learn to build that ability it!


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SavageBoy:
A lot of us claim to be sapiosexual in words of mouth, but our actions usually say contrary.

An average Nigerian guy wouldn't mind dumping a smart girl who gat the brain of Michelle Obama for a gorgeous empty vessel with Kim kardashian's body

For girls;many of them don't know what they want.
The very few that know what they want and deliberately chase it are becoming extinct species

pansophist:


Actually there is nothing wrong going for looks, but going for looks only is wrong. Beauty is life, and what makes it worth living.

Well for me, you must get sense, but again, don't be ugly. You don't have to be that fine, but at least a good makeup should be able to do justice to your looks. If after all the make up and you're still not fine, then well, there is a place called the friend zone. We can just be friends

Please try not to deceive yourself people. Looks are important. It's easier to forgive a sexy partner than a ugly one. Even if he/she annoys you, you'll be looking at their cute face and imagining how you'll end the pain in the bedroom, meanwhile if it's the other one, na to break up go de your mind.

Naija is hard enough, so don't make it harder on yourself by latching unto a ugly partner. And if you're fine, people will treat you better, and respect you. And its smart to play by the game, and to be with someone moderately good looking is playing to win. You think it's a coincidence banks always display fine girls and boys in their customer care area?

And see, it's not hard to be fine. Eat healthy and exercise. So basic, yet so difficult for most people to do. Anyways I don talk my own. In a nutshell, its not shallow to want a good looking partner, but shallow if that's the only quality one wants from their partner.

sirjamesjnr:
You can't have it all. Just so you know.

sirjamesjnr:
I tend to agree with you but let me use the banking industry as a case study because I once worked in the bank, truth finer girls and guys are the front desk but my dear, the tink tank of any bank are the top management staff who are moderate in term of beauty. So in essence beauty can get you a banking job but to belong to the " WHO REALLY MATTERS" You must have a High IQ. When next you are in the banking hall, take a look at their inner room. My post is to encourage self-development, paying attention to LOOKS only will only make you a sex object. Beauty with your brain will place you high above your imagination.

pansophist:


True, your observation is astute. Men and women are guilty of it. Lots of men hustle so hard while completely disregarding their looks. They made the money and have a good social status, but their appearance, vigor and strength doesn't turn women on, making their women settle for them as providers only.

For women, it's the opposite. Many focus so much on their external, while leaving their internal to rot. You must have come across those bimbos that are so finee, but immediately they open their mouth, they just become instantly ugly. Balance is the key.

sirjamesjnr:
Of course. Looks are fun, but they are just the wrapping on the package. Again why? After the average looks and some desirability, Intelligence is something that I think has a far reaching impact on the relationship than looks. With intelligence, you can solve any and all the problems and build a great future and educate a generation and conquer the world and all of these things are more important to me than marginal looks I called this PERSON OF CLASS. Looks are fine and having these would be a great plus and I would welcome that but I'd put more premium on intelligence any day. Because sooner or later, you have to find out what’s inside.

sirjamesjnr:

So do you find intelligence sexier than looks, or let me put it this way, Do you prefer Regina Daniel to Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala? Whom will you take to your mama.

pansophist:


Actually there is nothing wrong going for looks, but going for looks only is wrong. Beauty is life, and what makes it worth living. Wetin de pain me pass na those people wey go talk say looks doesn't matter, but they never go for ugly people

Well for me, you must get sense, but again, don't be ugly. You don't have to be that fine, but at least a good makeup should be able to do justice to your looks. If after all the make up and you're still not fine, then well, there is a place called the friend zone. We can just be friends

Please try not to deceive yourself people. Looks are important. It's easier to forgive a sexy partner than a ugly one. Even if he/she annoys you, you'll be looking at their cute face and imagining how you'll end the pain in the bedroom, meanwhile if it's the other one, ending the damn relationship will be what's on your mind.

Humans are shallow, and Naija is hard enough, so don't make it harder on yourself by latching unto a ugly partner. And if you're fine, people will treat you better, and respect you. And to be with someone moderately good looking is playing to win. You think it's a coincidence banks always display fine girls and boys in their customer care area? Or most models are fine? We are not equal okay? Humans are inequal. Deal with it.

And see, it's not hard to be fine. Eat healthy and exercise. So basic, yet so difficult for most people to do. Anyways I don talk my own. In a nutshell, its not shallow to want a good looking partner, but shallow if that's the only quality one wants from their partner.

Magnoliaa:

Okay? Okay, what? To who? Whom?

Humans are equal. Deal with it.

pansophist:


Actually there is nothing wrong going for looks, but going for looks only is wrong. Beauty is life, and what makes it worth living. Wetin de pain me pass na those people wey go talk say looks doesn't matter, but they never go for ugly people

Well for me, you must get sense, but again, don't be ugly. You don't have to be that fine, but at least a good makeup should be able to do justice to your looks. If after all the make up and you're still not fine, then well, there is a place called the friend zone. We can just be friends

Please try not to deceive yourself people. Looks are important. It's easier to forgive a sexy partner than a ugly one. Even if he/she annoys you, you'll be looking at their cute face and imagining how you'll end the pain in the bedroom, meanwhile if it's the other one, ending the damn relationship will be what's on your mind.

Humans are shallow, and Naija is hard enough, so don't make it harder on yourself by latching unto a ugly partner. And if you're fine, people will treat you better, and respect you. And to be with someone moderately good looking is playing to win. You think it's a coincidence banks always display fine girls and boys in their customer care area? Or most models are fine? We are not equal okay? Humans are inequal. Deal with it.

And see, it's not hard to be fine. Eat healthy and exercise. So basic, yet so difficult for most people to do. Anyways I don talk my own. In a nutshell, its not shallow to want a good looking partner, but shallow if that's the only quality one wants from their partner.

phazotron:
Nigerian girls prefer looks to intelligence

Sad reality

bodybuilder:
Intelligence is good, but when it comes to sexual attraction is not necessary. Looks over intelligence any day.

Intelligence is not meant to be sexy. Guy you get a hard on when you see a girl solve complex equations or what? Come on that's so pretentious.