Marriage differs to every individual, so is any type of relationship. The type of spouse you marry determine how you define marriage, that's why if you ask some , they will tell you ". oh my marriage is heaven on earth " while some will say " I wish I never met my spouse " Yes! that's how bad it can be. It all depends on our choices of life partner . That's why there is much emphasis on prayer and direction when choosing a life partner, unlike our father ,mother , siblings or relatives , you can't choose who they should be , but it's your choice of life partner that will determine your definition of marriage .

I do ask a question, that "is there a predestined individual prepared for us from heaven for us to marry" , and even asked further that "what if that predestined individual is in UK, and you are here in Nigeria" lol , I got a lot of answers until when someone said a point that suits my soul too.
He said " Truly you can marry anyone, but God knows the perfect person for you. let's take for example there are some people you marry and find 90% happiness and joy in them, and there are some you marry and find 60% happiness and joy in them , both are actually ok, but who would prefer 60 over 90. None. And there are some that if you marry , hmmm happiness might not even be up to 10%.
It's through prayer and direction that could actually lead you to whom will make you happy truly thereafter .

just my little knowledge.
ayo's writings ✍️.

There is no particular partner for a person but there are SEVERAL possible partners that can help you to fulfill destiny.


The idea that there's one particular person for an individual is NOT rooted in the scriptures but popularized by Nigerian Pentecostal Churches, whose founders grew-up in typical African societies and as such, their teaching are actually influenced by Traditional Religious myths/beliefs.

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There is no particular partner for a person but there are SEVERAL possible partners that can help you to fulfill destiny.


The idea that there's one particular person for an individual is NOT rooted in the scriptures but popularized by Nigerian Pentecostal Churches, whose founders grew-up in typical African societies and as such, their teaching are actually influenced by Traditional Religious myths/beliefs.

Absolute truth.