Guys I need help, I am 34 years and I started masturbation in 2014 because I don't have girl friend till date I always mastubate once a day some twice. The only time I abstain from it was 3weeks and two weeks. I have never stay a month with masturbating. I am in relationship now but during sex my penis goes down and I can't perform again. Even I can't even release unless I was giving handjob by a girl. My girlfriend is worried why I have not release inside her since we started making. I lied is beer. Please how do I stop and how can I have full erection to have a good sex. Your advice is highly needed.

Experts, over to you

Well there is really fire on the mountain, first of all is about your mindset, you always stay at home right ? All alone?

Self determination will help you stop

Oya masturbators advise one of your own. Busy with my tea in this cold weather

Frank2021:
Guys I need help, I am 34 years and I started masturbation in 2014 because I don't have girl friend till date I always mastubate once a day some twice. The only time I abstain from it was 3weeks and two weeks. I have never stay a month with masturbating. I am in relationship now but during sex my penis goes down and I can't perform again. Even I can't even release unless I was giving handjob by a girl. My girlfriend is worried why I have not release inside her since we started making. I lied is beer. Please how do I stop and how can I have full erection to have a good sex. Your advice is highly needed.

then kill masturbation to restore your sexual urge. You can't eat ur cake and have it.

First of all I want to say that am totally disappointed in you
We keep preaching flee from fornication everyday n you still have the courage to type this nonesense
Wait let me call @Righteousness, he has something to say

The living Faith church winners chapel is ur plug this month...the teaching is how to conquer sin so pls attend all services physically and online via YouTube wen it's impossible to be there
Congratulations, the key to overcoming all forms of sin will be placed in ur hands.amen

You have a girlfriend now so stop na. Once you stop you get your full erection back shikena.

Frank2021:
Guys I need help, I am 34 years and I started masturbation in 2014 because I don't have girl friend till date I always mastubate once a day some twice. The only time I abstain from it was 3weeks and two weeks. I have never stay a month with masturbating. I am in relationship now but during sex my penis goes down and I can't perform again. Even I can't even release unless I was giving handjob by a girl. My girlfriend is worried why I have not release inside her since we started making. I lied is beer. Please how do I stop and how can I have full erection to have a good sex. Your advice is highly needed.

mindset thing, a strong mindset that is what you need right now? If you tell your girlfriend i dont know if that would help you or not, depending on how she handle issue, she should be of great help, if you tell her the truth but depending of how she handle issue. You need to be busy all the time and always be with someone, that will stop you from doing the act.

E don happen!
Please don't blame it on innocent beer mbok.
Any bad habit without self control is as bad as falling in love without a job

Stop blaming masturbation abeg..

Mtchewwwww

Onyi22:
First of all I want to say that am totally disappointed in you
We keep preaching flee from fornication everyday n you still have the courage to type this nonesense
Wait let me call @Righteousness, he has something to say

Righteousness will just complicate the whole issue more with his fire and brimstone approach.

If you stop doing it, you'll regain your full erection and you'll be releasing.

A Penis/masturbation topics?

Ok, @OP..

From my knowledge
First of all, Try to Quit the masturbation act itself..
Stay away from Porn and even your Girlfriend!!

When you have Abstain from sex/Pornography for@least 6 months, take supplements such as
Bitter Kola
Bitter Leaf
Canned Milk
Tiger nuts and Coconut continuously..

Den Call her GF back and this time, U will Fvckk her well..

Just reset your brain

When you're ready to stop masturbation you'll get your erection back

Problem solved

What you're suffering from is known as PIED, porn induced erectile dysfunction..

I can bet you masturbate to porn. Porn is the reason for your weak erection or why you lose it halfway through sex..

Just google "your brain on porn"

Also read success stories of people who stopped watching porn for a particular period of time from the link https://forum.rebootnation.org/index.php?forums/12/

There's been a crazy surge in masturbation threads recently. Shit is really doing more harm than 'allerged' good.

Oga I was once in your shoes. Quit masturbation and feed your muscles with push up exercise and see how your erection will be restored. I'm speaking from a place of experience.

first of all... go down low....

It's your body please control it before it totally takes control of you...

Abstain from jerking off for like 3-5days, then go ahead and fvck ur gf.

...To cum in her, just be in ur jerk-off mode... as in put ur mind to whatever that makes you cum while jerking off and... there you go!

Cum thank me later!

yungpowers:
Oga I was once in your shoes. Quit masturbation and feed your muscles with push up exercise and see how your erection will be restored. I'm speaking from a place of experience.

Really?

OP, so u wan release inside ur girlfriend when u never marry her later nw una go dey talk abt unwanted pregnancy or even STDs...l jus dey pity ur mumulization

Frank2021:
Guys I need help, I am 34 years and I started masturbation in 2014 because I don't have girl friend till date I always mastubate once a day some twice. The only time I abstain from it was 3weeks and two weeks. I have never stay a month with masturbating. I am in relationship now but during sex my penis goes down and I can't perform again. Even I can't even release unless I was giving handjob by a girl. My girlfriend is worried why I have not release inside her since we started making. I lied is beer. Please how do I stop and how can I have full erection to have a good sex. Your advice is highly needed.

Although masturbation could be an unhealthy habit, it may not be the issue here.

How old are you?

Most Nigerian women can be very robotic in bed and expect a man to have a raging erection by just looking at them. Many of them have their egos affected when it is not happening like that. Meanwhile a man has to do all types of pre-intimacy and give them head to get them wet and in the mood. They will just lie on their backs and spread leg, no reciprocal winding or grinding from them.

As earlier mentioned, masturbation might not be the issue because a lot of men (including myself in the past) would masturbate (rubbing off an easy one) a few hours before a real sex date with a woman so that we can last longer on first round.

It could be the case that you require a woman who is much more hands on, especially with pre-intimacy, and more participatory in bed.

Or maybe she doesn't really do it for you? Perhaps try someone else or a quality olosho?

Perhaps it's a condom issue? Condom reducing the feeling for you?

Or maybe you are having erection issues?

How will you beating your meat 3 times daily, that's no fun, your just using your meat and killing the engine. Some of us that does it once in a week feel irritated.

Your spirit wife is really enjoying your meat more than your real girlfriends

Onyi22:
First of all I want to say that am totally disappointed in you
We keep preaching flee from fornication everyday n you still have the courage to type this nonesense
Wait let me call @Righteousness, he has something to say

What you display on your dp is more than formication, young lady.

yungpowers:
Oga I was once in your shoes. Quit masturbation and feed your muscles with push up exercise and see how your erection will be restored. I'm speaking from a place of experience.

So pushups enhances erection

Guy u need to keep masturbating, u need it for the now as you need to gather all the money u need.... Leave women till ur financially balanced....

Give your life to Christ

SmellySperm:
E don happen!
Please don't blame it on innocent beer mbok.
Any bad habit without self control is as bad as falling in love without a job

áfô èdï eyiñ akwa ibom .