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Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by Frank2021: 9:31pm On Sep 03
Guys I need help, I am 34 years and I started masturbation in 2014 because I don't have girl friend till date I always mastubate once a day some twice. The only time I abstain from it was 3weeks and two weeks. I have never stay a month with masturbating. I am in relationship now but during sex my penis goes down and I can't perform again. Even I can't even release unless I was giving handjob by a girl. My girlfriend is worried why I have not release inside her since we started making. I lied is beer. Please how do I stop and how can I have full erection to have a good sex. Your advice is highly needed.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by Offorgerald15(m): 9:32pm On Sep 03
Experts, over to you

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by Goldbw122: 9:37pm On Sep 03
Well there is really fire on the mountain, first of all is about your mindset, you always stay at home right ? All alone?

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by Explicit02: 9:39pm On Sep 03
Self determination will help you stop

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by ceejay10(m): 9:40pm On Sep 03
Oya masturbators advise one of your own. Busy with my tea in this cold weather

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by 24brains(m): 9:41pm On Sep 03
Frank2021:
Guys I need help, I am 34 years and I started masturbation in 2014 because I don't have girl friend till date I always mastubate once a day some twice. The only time I abstain from it was 3weeks and two weeks. I have never stay a month with masturbating. I am in relationship now but during sex my penis goes down and I can't perform again. Even I can't even release unless I was giving handjob by a girl. My girlfriend is worried why I have not release inside her since we started making. I lied is beer. Please how do I stop and how can I have full erection to have a good sex. Your advice is highly needed.
then kill masturbation to restore your sexual urge. You can't eat ur cake and have it.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by Onyi22(f): 9:41pm On Sep 03
First of all I want to say that am totally disappointed in you cheesy grin
We keep preaching flee from fornication everyday n you still have the courage to type this nonesense cheesy
Wait let me call @Righteousness, he has something to say

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by SanctifiedSista(f): 9:46pm On Sep 03
The living Faith church winners chapel is ur plug this month...the teaching is how to conquer sin so pls attend all services physically and online via YouTube wen it's impossible to be there
Congratulations, the key to overcoming all forms of sin will be placed in ur hands.amen

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by Tokskob2008: 9:46pm On Sep 03
You have a girlfriend now so stop na. Once you stop you get your full erection back shikena.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by Goldbw122: 9:48pm On Sep 03
Frank2021:
Guys I need help, I am 34 years and I started masturbation in 2014 because I don't have girl friend till date I always mastubate once a day some twice. The only time I abstain from it was 3weeks and two weeks. I have never stay a month with masturbating. I am in relationship now but during sex my penis goes down and I can't perform again. Even I can't even release unless I was giving handjob by a girl. My girlfriend is worried why I have not release inside her since we started making. I lied is beer. Please how do I stop and how can I have full erection to have a good sex. Your advice is highly needed.
mindset thing, a strong mindset that is what you need right now? If you tell your girlfriend i dont know if that would help you or not, depending on how she handle issue, she should be of great help, if you tell her the truth but depending of how she handle issue. You need to be busy all the time and always be with someone, that will stop you from doing the act.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by SmellySperm(m): 9:49pm On Sep 03
E don happen!
Please don't blame it on innocent beer mbok.
Any bad habit without self control is as bad as falling in love without a job

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by lilvicky68(m): 9:51pm On Sep 03
Stop blaming masturbation abeg..

Mtchewwwww
Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by Tokskob2008: 9:51pm On Sep 03
Onyi22:
First of all I want to say that am totally disappointed in you cheesy grin
We keep preaching flee from fornication everyday n you still have the courage to type this nonesense cheesy
Wait let me call @Righteousness, he has something to say
Righteousness will just complicate the whole issue more with his fire and brimstone approach.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by RealSolution001: 9:57pm On Sep 03
If you stop doing it, you'll regain your full erection and you'll be releasing.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by Vinnie2000(m): 10:09pm On Sep 03
A Penis/masturbation topics? sad kiss

Ok, @OP..

From my knowledge
First of all, Try to Quit the masturbation act itself..
Stay away from Porn and even your Girlfriend!!

When you have Abstain from sex/Pornography for@least 6 months, take supplements such as
Bitter Kola
Bitter Leaf
Canned Milk
Tiger nuts and Coconut continuously..

Den Call her GF back and this time, U will Fvckk her well.. lipsrsealed smiley

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by guuudy87(m): 10:40pm On Sep 03
Just reset your brain
Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by obinna58(m): 10:46pm On Sep 03
When you're ready to stop masturbation you'll get your erection back

Problem solved

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by internationalman(m): 10:58pm On Sep 03
What you're suffering from is known as PIED, porn induced erectile dysfunction..

I can bet you masturbate to porn. Porn is the reason for your weak erection or why you lose it halfway through sex..

Just google "your brain on porn"

Also read success stories of people who stopped watching porn for a particular period of time from the link https://forum.rebootnation.org/index.php?forums/12/

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by ChasinGood(m): 11:08pm On Sep 03
There's been a crazy surge in masturbation threads recently. Shit is really doing more harm than 'allerged' good.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by yungpowers(m): 11:18pm On Sep 03
Oga I was once in your shoes. Quit masturbation and feed your muscles with push up exercise and see how your erection will be restored. I'm speaking from a place of experience.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by samology2000: 12:24am On Sep 04
first of all... go down low.... grin
Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by MVLOX(m): 1:46am On Sep 04
It's your body please control it before it totally takes control of you...
Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by RPirez: 2:01am On Sep 04
Abstain from jerking off for like 3-5days, then go ahead and fvck ur gf. cheesy

...To cum in her, just be in ur jerk-off mode... as in put ur mind to whatever that makes you cum while jerking off and... there you go!

Cum thank me later! cool

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by Polynek(m): 4:19am On Sep 04
yungpowers:
Oga I was once in your shoes. Quit masturbation and feed your muscles with push up exercise and see how your erection will be restored. I'm speaking from a place of experience.
Really?
Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by Chidexsco8448(m): 5:17am On Sep 04
OP, so u wan release inside ur girlfriend when u never marry her later nw una go dey talk abt unwanted pregnancy or even STDs...l jus dey pity ur mumulization undecided

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 6:25am On Sep 04
Frank2021:
Guys I need help, I am 34 years and I started masturbation in 2014 because I don't have girl friend till date I always mastubate once a day some twice. The only time I abstain from it was 3weeks and two weeks. I have never stay a month with masturbating. I am in relationship now but during sex my penis goes down and I can't perform again. Even I can't even release unless I was giving handjob by a girl. My girlfriend is worried why I have not release inside her since we started making. I lied is beer. Please how do I stop and how can I have full erection to have a good sex. Your advice is highly needed.

Although masturbation could be an unhealthy habit, it may not be the issue here.

How old are you?

Most Nigerian women can be very robotic in bed and expect a man to have a raging erection by just looking at them. Many of them have their egos affected when it is not happening like that. Meanwhile a man has to do all types of pre-intimacy and give them head to get them wet and in the mood. They will just lie on their backs and spread leg, no reciprocal winding or grinding from them.

As earlier mentioned, masturbation might not be the issue because a lot of men (including myself in the past) would masturbate (rubbing off an easy one) a few hours before a real sex date with a woman so that we can last longer on first round.

It could be the case that you require a woman who is much more hands on, especially with pre-intimacy, and more participatory in bed.

Or maybe she doesn't really do it for you? Perhaps try someone else or a quality olosho?

Perhaps it's a condom issue? Condom reducing the feeling for you?

Or maybe you are having erection issues?

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by Mr100Dollars: 8:01am On Sep 04
How will you beating your meat 3 times daily, that's no fun, your just using your meat and killing the engine. Some of us that does it once in a week feel irritated.

Your spirit wife is really enjoying your meat more than your real girlfriends

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by parkervero(m): 8:14am On Sep 04
Onyi22:
First of all I want to say that am totally disappointed in you cheesy grin
We keep preaching flee from fornication everyday n you still have the courage to type this nonesense cheesy
Wait let me call @Righteousness, he has something to say
What you display on your dp is more than formication, young lady.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by internationalman(m): 9:40am On Sep 04
yungpowers:
Oga I was once in your shoes. Quit masturbation and feed your muscles with push up exercise and see how your erection will be restored. I'm speaking from a place of experience.

So pushups enhances erection
Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by bigpicture001: 9:44am On Sep 04
Guy u need to keep masturbating, u need it for the now as you need to gather all the money u need.... Leave women till ur financially balanced....

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by Expresswriter: 9:44am On Sep 04
Give your life to Christ
Re: Masturbation Is Killing My Sexual Urge by OGWILLS123: 9:45am On Sep 04
SmellySperm:
E don happen!
Please don't blame it on innocent beer mbok.
Any bad habit without self control is as bad as falling in love without a job

áfô èdï eyiñ akwa ibom cheesy.

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