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Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by NwaIgboBoy(m): 6:42pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Just After sex |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by Lotti(m): 6:43pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Depends on the man's pocket 1 Like |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by LegalOpinion: 6:46pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
It should not be more than 26 years. |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by Bonab: 6:46pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
As LONG as both of you are certain and determined that you can live together as husband and wife Courtships are usually long when one person is not ready to settle or there is doubts. But when the people involved are ready and wants the same thing, they tend to hurry thing; say 3 to 6 months they're talking wedding. Note: whenever you're in doubt about him /her give it more time. Don't let the pressure make you hurry into marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by YelloweWest: 6:55pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
6 months max! If they not ready move on. Life is short, no time to waste 1 Like |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by bmdmix11: 6:55pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Payperboii:until aza tear u begin off phone |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by SATELLITENET: 7:04pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by koyyess: 7:09pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
8 months to a year is fine. FYI, be friends first before you start dating. The courtship period is to know if you are both compatible as a couple. |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by egunna(m): 7:11pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
udokofootball:Is this how u want to promote ur channel?too much noise ND repetition. |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by akdjr(m): 7:15pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Just find a beautiful girl and start having kids. If u like court, date, go on many vacation with your bae you will still face a different person in both of you when u finally marry. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by Bolarineliza202: 7:17pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Katier00:As far as I am corncerned their is no difference Dating (to form a romantic relationship with someone) which leads to courtship(to woo someone in love usually with the intention of marriage). |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by stevups(m): 7:21pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Iyaebe:you make sense 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by bukatyne(f): 7:39pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Depends on the stage of life you meet yourselves. The younger you both are, the longer you court and/or afford to. This talk of not knowing someone finish: If you open your eyes well, you will know someone's major characters and can decide if you want to continue or move on. Sometimes, people focus on the symptoms (an exhibition of a character) than the disease (the character). For instance; Saying a man doesn't like women talking back at him instead of seeing that he is condescending towards women; Saying a woman is argumentative instead of seeing that she has a victimhood mentality/low self-esteem/rancorous Saying a man is tight fisted instead of seeing he is selfish or doesn't love you. Etc. Etc. When the person now starts to exhibit other traits of that character, you say they have changed or they were pretenders 4 Likes |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by Skseries: 7:43pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Ochecanny2:then that's dating not courtship. Courtship doesn't take long at all, 1 Like |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by almarthins(m): 7:54pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Ochecanny2: Maximum 1 yr. If nothing happens thereafter. Abeg lose hope. me my own no go pass 8 months. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by almarthins(m): 7:55pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
bukatyne: I tell you. Very correct 1 Like |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by adexpa(m): 8:00pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
The only person that should be looking for who to marry is a man/woman who's ready to marry, a woman/man who understands what it takes to be married and ready to face the responsibilities, a man/woman who's ready financial and emotional. Relationship/courtship for this set of people should not more than 6-12 months. A relationship with clear objectives coupled with specific definition. These set of people knows what they are looking for and can identify those things in few months. Any other relationship outside this is a waste/fun and not meaningful. People who are not ready for marriage should not be looking for something serious, they can have fun with whoever that got the time as they got too but there shouldn't be commitments because heartbroken is guaranteed, somebody will waste money and somebody will waste body. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by EmperorTolson: 8:06pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Payperboii:Bless me |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by frozen70(f): 8:10pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Iyaebe: Exactly 1 Like |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by kwasoly(m): 8:26pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Ochecanny2: Courting is 6months Max else to your tent oh isreal. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by CXLVII: 8:31pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
15 years averagely |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by ityP(m): 8:47pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Bolarineliza202: Actually, this isn't true. Most times, people see these bad characters, but desperation and mumu love still make them to give excuses. You see them minimizing the faults of their partner. I agree though, that you don't need to date for too long to see your partner for what he or she truly is |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by ityP(m): 8:50pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
bukatyne: You made so much sense from the beginning, but you drifted later. Your bias became clearly seen |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by spiceadole: 8:53pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Ochecanny2: 3-12months |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by wonseun(m): 8:56pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
Hmmm. This is a good question. I think as long as both of them are faithful and love each other... 2 years Sha |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by Focusmind: 9:10pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
I didn't do any courtship with my current wife. We fixed wedding after meeting 2 times. We are now 8 years in marriage. I never married those I courted. 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by Cousin9999: 9:32pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
It depends on the individuals. Some people take longer than others to figure out if they can't stand someone. |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by Payperboii(m): 10:10pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by raphy(m): 10:20pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
If u like some one and u start dating aaffer 6 months go see her parents.. after another 6 months do the introduction no waste time ..if money de ya hand love is good |
Re: How Long Do You Think Courtship Should Take? by Olawaleslimfit(m): 10:47pm On Sep 11, 2021 |
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