Can you go out with your [former] guy's brother or your [former] girl's sister?

What am really asking is:
- For the ladies, if you can date your [former] guy's brother.
- For you guys, if you can date your [former] girl's sister.

If "yes", what's your reason? If "no", what's your reason?

I do not think anyone in their right sences should do such.

I have not said it is right or wrong to go out with your ex's sibling. But if you have to do it, then we must examine your state of mind and conclude you  certainly need to visit a psychiatric doctor.

Inasmuch as it makes some people uncomfortable, I don't think there's anything wrong with it. Once you've dumped your boyfriend/girldriend/fiance/fiancee it's none of your business who chooses to fall in love with him or her.

If you choose to reject a plate of food you shouldn't complain when you see someone else enjoying it. If you don't want your sibling to take over your lover, then stick to him/her.

Seun,

The very reason why your ex dropped you, is the same reason you will be chucked by his/her sibling. I seriously doubt if such a relationship will last.

That's totally absurd.

IAH:

That's totally absurd.

How absurd?

No, I can't date my ex-lover's sister. what sister in her right mind will do such a thing? At some point, my ex and I have had feelings for each other, shared special moments together and all....all of a sudden I'm trying to experience the same thing with my ex's sister? In the event that it does happen, I know the relationship with my ex's sister won't lead to anything serious.

babadudu:

No, I can't date my ex-lover's sister. what sister in her right mind will do such a thing? At some point, my ex and I have had feelings for each other, shared special moments together and all....all of a sudden I'm trying to experience the same thing with my ex's sister? In the event that it does happen, I know the relationship with my ex's sister won't lead to anything serious.

God bless you! You said it all!

dablessed:


God bless you! You said it all!

Amen....and you too.

Well...I wouldn't wanna have anything to do with my ex-brother. That is just not right.

Ex-brother? HNow how does someone become an ex-brother?

I think the issue at hand cannot be answered outrightly, coz alot of constraint shld be taken into consideration, first, wht happed between u and the girl/bou b4 u left her or him, this hv to be cleared first.

but if ur ex-gurl\boy's brotha is much intelligent and hansome/beautiful and two of u hv a mutual understd, then no then happun. ---i mean go head.

the platform matters alot

No. nobody can do that, any person who does is sick in the head.

Seun:

Ex-brother?  HNow how does someone become an ex-brother?

My ex-bf's brother. My ex's brother.. Sorry for the mistake.

I can’t do such thing but for whoever is interested…..there is nothing bad.

I support Seun's view.

solo2:

No. nobody can do that, any person who does is sick in the head.

which is why I have been trying to tell people that Princess Diana must have been sick in her head!!

I cannot imagine my brother going out with my ex-girlfriend!

eyama!

so I will not do it to someone else, and if worse comes to worse and I have fallen in love with the sister of my ex and she feels the same way then i must date in secret becuase I know there is no way my ex will be happy about it!

I, like the Debugger(one of the forumists) Would only support Seun's view if the case of the rejection of a lover by the other is considered strictly though I will not do it no matter the case.

However, a friend did it sometime ago but just as a way to avenge himself on his ex for what she did; it succeed at first but turned diastrous later cos the ex is a senior to her sister(the new lover).

It's bee done, but how long would it last?

Damn!!!!!!!!!!! what a question ? where lies my dignity if i do such a thing .

that is out my thinks and it is not normal to do please

It's just not right.

why not?

But that would "cos wahala o". Because, that would mean the ladies house is no go zone, and besides it might cause a lot of troubles between the sisters. Jelousy can cause a lot of damages. So its a "NO" if you have feelings for other people's sensitivity, but if you dont, why not .

@kazey what is your answer yes or no cos i don't get your post.

its kinda not right cos your ex can tell bad stuff bout u to his/her brother that is not right and might not let the relationship work
plus its not cool

Exactly, but some girls do it.

i can depending on what da guy might have done 2 cause da breakup
if he did something 2 really hurt me,dat will be ma way of paying him back
but then also,i wouldn't like 2 cause bad blood between 2 brothers

Rhodalyn:

i can depending on what da guy might have done 2 cause da breakup
if he did something 2 really hurt me,theat will be ma way of paying him back
but then also,i wouldn't like 2 cause bad blood between 2 brothers

i totally agree u rhodalyn

why will I want to date inside the family I already dated, if I do that that mean I don't have respect for my self and for him, that is just wrong leave that family alone.

Tell them?

cheekee:

i totally agree u rhodalyn

Cheers cheekee

please you guyz should understand that ur feelings matters alot,no matter how or what will take you to satisfy ur feeling then u must lean how to archive that out to your self.it is time we all learn how to leave a easy relationship life that could be judge with how much feelings and care you have for that person cos it last better than thinking of a relationship that the outside mind will admire very much,may be she is pretty or he his handsome,a social home,rich or the other way round from a particular home,tribe or a relation should stop you from going out with him or she.

men!!

as for me i worship my heart very much...........so i can go out with my ex-girlfriend sister if right inside me i discover that we both love and want ourselves........ no matter what have cause me to be her sister ex boyfriend.i will establish my love known to her.

icingbaby:

why will I want to date inside the family I already dated, if I do that that mean I don't have respect for my self and for him, that is just wrong leave that family alone.

i wouldnt do that even though my exes brother is sooo fine

it woud mess up our friendship