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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by deolurexy1(m): 12:59pm On Sep 13, 2021
Kingcalls:
The guy thing de hungry am since ....as she don collect , im body done calm now ...unfortunately u are the mugu ...go and mk money if u want loyalty...thats the only thing women respect

So you think money no go make am cheat?
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Midas01: 12:59pm On Sep 13, 2021
Nice description of your mother.
Equal2DeTask:
angry



Forgive her for been remorse and feeling guilty. But don't trust her as before. These creatures can go back to their vomits anytime. (Fish Brain)


Keep one eye on her if you still love her....
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Juicy001: 1:02pm On Sep 13, 2021
The night this thing happened, how much did she return with, the next day?
I wan to check something

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Figger(m): 1:02pm On Sep 13, 2021
Equal2DeTask:
angry



Forgive her for been remorse and feeling guilty. But don't trust her as before. These creatures can go back to their vomits anytime. (Fish Brain)


Keep one eye on her if you still love her....
Seriously bro, they can always go back to their vomit, very indecisive set of people. Spits!

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Susu888(m): 1:02pm On Sep 13, 2021
Guy if you don't want to suffer free her!
It will happen again and again nd even if it doesn't you will never trust her again like before so just end it for your peace of mind.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by efficiencie(m): 1:02pm On Sep 13, 2021
Obinna53:
There's this Girl, I love so much,so one Day she went to stay at a Friends place for a justifiable reason.The next Day she came back Home everything was fine but after a couple of Days I noticed how fragile she became and always had this pity face.Then she sat me down one Day crying and told me she wanted to tell me something and Should Forgive her Please and Boom!!! She Told me what ensured between her and the Guy that Night,Right now I am really Moody, I would like to here your Individual Opinion on this Situation and how you handled it, if you had like my Experience, Thank You


If GOD has given you the grace to forgive, forgive and help her live above her demons but if you do not have the grace bros kindly wakanow before you wake up one day and find blood on your hands!
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by armadeo(m): 1:03pm On Sep 13, 2021
You never react since you dey wait for people to advice you to react.


My advice pls forgive and forget. It's hard for a woman not to cheat and confess easily to a man when she's sure of how he will react.
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by blazerinno(m): 1:04pm On Sep 13, 2021
If it was me, I’d breakup. I’ve faced this before. She cried and all and still cheated again.
She even went to the extent of telling her friends I was begging her when she cheated.
Leave the relationship like a boss. No simping allowed.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by joepentwo(m): 1:08pm On Sep 13, 2021
Pls can someone help with a phone or laptop.
My business is down without access to the internet, I barely feed myself.


Location is Uyo... I Appreciate in advance
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Smithwilliams826: 1:09pm On Sep 13, 2021

I don't understand. Was she raped or drugged? Or were they high? If the answer is no, ask her why she con dey tell you. Abi she dey pity you self, sad
The truth now is that you can only forgive her but you can't trust her. Convert her to your friend or f*ck mate. Move on with your life.
But wait...
What if she hasn't told you at first?

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by ThinkSmarter: 1:15pm On Sep 13, 2021
Obinna53:
There's this Girl, I love so much,so one Day she went to stay at a Friends place for a justifiable reason.The next Day she came back Home everything was fine but after a couple of Days I noticed how fragile she became and always had this pity face.Then she sat me down one Day crying and told me she wanted to tell me something and Should Forgive her Please and Boom!!! She Told me what ensured between her and the Guy that Night,Right now I am really Moody, I would like to here your Individual Opinion on this Situation and how you handled it, if you had like my Experience, Thank You

Nwanna, just chill.
Cheating is a basic evolutionary tendency among animals.
The most attractive animals, males and females alikes have the highest number of sexual partners.
If your girlfriend is sexually appealing, there is every tendency that other men out there will always ask her out.
And you know you are not the only handsome or rich dude out there.
Don't attach your emotions to any fvcking pvssy, because all pvssies are universal configured for all di.cks being it Asian, Arab, African or white.
If you try to monopolize it.
The resultant effects include heartbreak, disappointment, unfaithfulness ,etc.
The human society use cultural rules, religion, moral teachings and punishment to checkmate that basic animal instinct among their females.
Na Talibans fit women gaskiya.
Accept her, after all, you won't have known if not that he decided to tell you.
The pussy is like the mouth in anatomy and physiology.
U can't notice which mouth ate fufu and which one ate rice or which one ate no food.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by gonkin(m): 1:19pm On Sep 13, 2021
Unless you're also a cheat, just Walk away. Cheating is a thing of choice. She made hers

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by BenDrickz(m): 1:27pm On Sep 13, 2021
Same thing happened to me
She told me to my face.
I backed out from the Relationship.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by CSTRR: 1:27pm On Sep 13, 2021
Do not forgive a cheating partner.

She willingly opened her legs.

If she did it before, it means she does not have the will not to do it again.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Rastaramsey(m): 1:29pm On Sep 13, 2021
Damnnnn niggarr
That's why I don't like this relationship of a thing..... See guy, if you forgive her, she will go back and cheat.... The best thing is do is to bin her cus she belongs to the street �....
Bin her, dey single, no stress, hookup steady... Live your life... Girls doesn't deserve to be in your mind.... Most of them are hoes

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by CSTRR: 1:30pm On Sep 13, 2021
BenDrickz:
Same thing happened to me
She told me to my face.
I backed out from the Relationship.
That is the right thing to do.

Leave.

Most of these husbands crying about paternity fraud made mistake during the dating stage.

They saw the signs that she is a cheat and is hardly content, but they chose to forgive and ended up marrying them.

Never forgive a cheating partner.
Move on.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by chikason22(m): 1:31pm On Sep 13, 2021
Obinna53:
There's this Girl, I love so much,so one Day she went to stay at a Friends place for a justifiable reason.The next Day she came back Home everything was fine but after a couple of Days I noticed how fragile she became and always had this pity face.Then she sat me down one Day crying and told me she wanted to tell me something and Should Forgive her Please and Boom!!! She Told me what ensured between her and the Guy that Night,Right now I am really Moody, I would like to here your Individual Opinion on this Situation and how you handled it, if you had like my Experience, Thank You

Give her a second and final chance. If she repeat same or doesn't change, dump her and move on.

Meanwhile, single guys out there are the once enjoying life to it's fullest. You want to know why??

Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Munzy14(m): 1:38pm On Sep 13, 2021
Obinna53:
There's this Girl, I love so much,so one Day she went to stay at a Friends place for a justifiable reason.The next Day she came back Home everything was fine but after a couple of Days I noticed how fragile she became and always had this pity face.Then she sat me down one Day crying and told me she wanted to tell me something and Should Forgive her Please and Boom!!! She Told me what ensured between her and the Guy that Night,Right now I am really Moody, I would like to here your Individual Opinion on this Situation and how you handled it, if you had like my Experience, Thank You

Unless cheating is not a deal breaker for you...


You see cheating and stealing I no fit can....grin

If you cheat, I am not enough....If I cheat, you are not enough for me...Then what are we still doing together?

Too many fishes in the ocean.

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Munzy14(m): 1:40pm On Sep 13, 2021
chikason22:
Give her a second and final chance. If she repeat same or doesn't change, dump her and move on.

Meanwhile, single guys out there are the once enjoying life to it's fullest. You want to know why??
Single and happy na em make Oga titus become a retired bachelor at 55..grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by rickleye: 1:40pm On Sep 13, 2021
I think she telling you means something - However, I am interested as to what led to that. This is not something that just happens.
When I cheated on my S.O ... It was because of the following
1. Getting into unnecessary arguments
2. Sex was uneventful
3. Occurrence - It went from 3 days a week to once every 2 weeks . So I found it easier paying someone ( we spoke the same language - Trade by barter) than
4. Communicating with her. ) I could not experience my feelings or expected her to be in the mood and read my mind)
5. She was disinterested - No sexy laundry anymore or perfume. always excuses - I am tired, no period , not in the mood.
6. Did not initiate . Screw Hollywood... It was always me not those women on TV that made the first move. As men sometimes you want to be desired.
So I turned to porn and then sex workers.

In any case - those were my reasons - What were hers ?
You need her to be open and address the break down in communication that led to that infidelity. Do not rush to amend or else an occurrence happen. Let her have the bed and sleep on the couch .. Do not linger but be thorough ....

Its easier for me to say Move On but everyone has a load of baggage they carry. Don't forget to have her give you an STD and HIV report and pregnancy report . If she doesnt - then call off the relationship and move on.
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by 1billi(m): 1:41pm On Sep 13, 2021
Drink sniper and die or get out..ozwor

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by ramatintin(m): 1:44pm On Sep 13, 2021
Your mumu go cure soon.
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by streetsoldier1(m): 1:52pm On Sep 13, 2021
for sake of your mental health, abeg forgive her and walk away....
No cheating woman confess, once a woman cheats, she cant stop cheating. No be everybody mature to continue or stay in such, you will always reflect on it and it will start affecting your peraonality.
Just forgive her and quit!!!

No let motivational speaker decieve you ooo. Just quit.
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Blackdisciple(m): 1:53pm On Sep 13, 2021
You mean her friends place she went to was a guys place ok....

You too go to your friends place and come back , few days later call her and tell her what ensure between you and your friend...

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by yommyoke: 1:55pm On Sep 13, 2021
first, you said she was feeling bad about it,
two, she confessed to you.
not every lady has that heart o, they will cheat and not even show any sign of regret, that's even if they tell you.
she's just like an unloyal but honest GF, what I can actually say is that you pardon her IF YOU CAN, but never lose guard.
but you can just follow your mind sha,
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Nobody: 1:56pm On Sep 13, 2021
Obinna53:
There's this Girl, I love so much,so one Day she went to stay at a Friends place for a justifiable reason.The next Day she came back Home everything was fine but after a couple of Days I noticed how fragile she became and always had this pity face.Then she sat me down one Day crying and told me she wanted to tell me something and Should Forgive her Please and Boom!!! She Told me what ensured between her and the Guy that Night,Right now I am really Moody, I would like to here your Individual Opinion on this Situation and how you handled it, if you had like my Experience, Thank You


For you to post this publicly, it implies that you love her and most probably not willing to leave her. For she to tell you her mistakes, it means she feels guilty and recognizes her wrongs towards you. She could have kept it a secret and you may never know.

Forgive her and don’t ask for an explanation of how it transpired and just continue your love right from where it was.

However since she wasn’t drugged or raped based on your post, that means she most probably gave herself in after many words and convictions. Maybe she’s a cheat. Maybe she’s not. KEEP AN EYE ON HER.

That’s my 2 cents on the issue.
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Jasy(m): 1:59pm On Sep 13, 2021
Bro, that thing u call love is a scam. Until u get married, do not take all these girls to heart. They will always find a way to keep falling your hand. U just have to learn to start using her as she is using u. She knows u love her and will probably forgive her, that's why she can boldly tell u that she cheated.
She is not scared to lose you!!!, I wish I can say same for u angry angry

Take heart and be a man. Conquer as many girls as u can while u are still single. When u are married tho, be responsible!

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by arthurwillia(m): 2:04pm On Sep 13, 2021
Kingcalls:
The guy thing de hungry am since ....as she don collect , im body done calm now ...unfortunately u are the mugu ...go and mk money if u want loyalty...thats the only thing women respect

Lol Dey there dey yarn Okpe! I don lash one yahoo guy babe like him real babe before and the guy get bastard money

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Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by uthlaw: 2:04pm On Sep 13, 2021
justmondris:
Forgive her and love her more. If she did not tell you, you will not have known. Please don’t make her regret telling you because that is what 90% of men will do and they will end up creating a monster in their home. She made a mistake and she is deeply sorry about it.
what are you saying?
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by caandi: 2:06pm On Sep 13, 2021
Hang yourself
Re: My Girlfriend Cheated And She Told Me, How Do I React? by Newboss(m): 2:24pm On Sep 13, 2021
Bloody simp!

Dey there dey speak English

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