Olivertwist1985:


4. Even another issue that she complained when she reported the case to my pastor before she finally left,was that we sleeping on the same bed for about two weeks but I am seeing her like a log of wood but for me iam afraid of anything pregnancy because the loads are too much on me.

Thanks you all for your advices,
May God bless.

Olivertwist1985:
My wife which we have been married for the past thirteen (13) years and have five(5) children, four boys and girl for me ,just left my house on Sunday to her parent house without informed me.

She left because we have little disagreement about monthly food allowance which I used to give her every month but I failed to give her this month when she requested for

She left with the girl which is six months old and a boy two years and left three boys for me.

Please I need your advice, should I go and beg her or I should forget about her and continue with my life. According to my family members, they said I should forget about her because of the manner she left.

pocohantas:


Oga place your mother above your wife, as your papa sef take place your grandmother above your mother. Last last every woman would have a man that would place her highly, na just patience.

OP, we have to hear your wife’s side of the story. 13yrs with 5kids? No woman would throw all that away over 1 month allowance. Try again.

Richy4:




I'm through with you... But I must leave u with these
<<< try and do something about your frustrated life.. see a therapist or psychiatrists.. That initial outburst without provocation was not normal... It won't be fair on someone who was genuinely seeking for advice to appear on a forum like this only for you to pour all your venom of frustration on that person..

Have a good day dear.. it's good to know you no matter how unpleasant it was...

Olivertwist1985:
4.Another issue is that of bearing kids which I cannot take care of them,.Actually my wife didn't support family, when she gave birth to our third Child, i told her that we should embarked on family planning but she turned it down, citing that her mother did not do ,hence she can't do it as well.Even another issue that she complained when she reported the case to my pastor before she finally left,was that we sleeping on the same bed for about two weeks but I am seeing her like a log of wood but for me iam afraid of anything pregnancy because the loads are too much on me.

Kobojunkie:
Seems you are Christian, so the best I can tell you is that you listen to God on this. According to JesusChrist, you cannot end it with your wife based on this - Matthew 5 vs 28 - 32 & Matthew 19 vs 1 - 12. You and your wife have to come back together and figure out a way to work things out

You married a woman with her mentality and maturity level - she was the picture of love for you and you tool her as she was, as wife. She didn't have her own business, and, even "worldly" knowhow when you met and married her and you took her nonetheless as you wife. My guess is you probably thought she would change over time.

Now you have seen what that mentality and maturity is capable of- you have seen the downside -sadly that is not enough of reason for you to decide to check out of the marriage. You need to sincerely work at the relationship beginning now.

Maybe you should begin now doing what Jesus Christ said...die to your self/ego and go beg your wife so you can both hash things out and learn a way out of this together. What would be ideal is if you and your wife can come together as grown-ups to plan your life together(family planning included) without involving third parties, giving yourselves time to heal from the hurts and also to learn new solutions to old issues.

Olivertwist1985:
My wife which we have been married for the past thirteen (13) years and have five(5) children, four boys and girl for me ,just left my house on Sunday to her parent house without informed me.

She left because we have little disagreement about monthly food allowance which I used to give her every month but I failed to give her this month when she requested for

She left with the girl which is six months old and a boy two years and left three boys for me.

Please I need your advice, should I go and beg her or I should forget about her and continue with my life. According to my family members, they said I should forget about her because of the manner she left.

Ammishaddai:
Bros, the bible clearly says a man who can't provide for his home is worst than an infidel(1Timothy 5:8.). Mr man , why are you not providing for your home and wife ? Can you see you're the one using your own hand to destroy your house ...? If your wife leaves you for greener pastures, she'll be justified because you can't provide for her and the children . So better go and beg her and start looking for a fvcking job !!!

Ishilove:
LIES. She left with 5 kids because of allowance? How will she cater for 5 children alone?

tellwisdom:
U just de born but no fit established your wife. Op, Your head no correct- But I believe e go correct after you come out of this wahala.

Justbehave:
Using Bible quotation to talk rubbish. Your gender Eve slept with Satan the serpent and that's why you all are wores. Idiot

Justbehave:
Using Bible quotation to talk rubbish. Your gender Eve slept with Satan the serpent and that's why you all are wores. Idiot

Olivertwist1985:
My wife which we have been married for the past thirteen (13) years and have five(5) children, four boys and girl for me ,just left my house on Sunday to her parent house without informed me.

She left because we have little disagreement about monthly food allowance which I used to give her every month but I failed to give her this month when she requested for

She left with the girl which is six months old and a boy two years and left three boys for me.

Please I need your advice, should I go and beg her or I should forget about her and continue with my life. According to my family members, they said I should forget about her because of the manner she left.

chatinent:
Hello,

First, I don't support the way she left. Marriage should not be all honey and darling when the going is good.

You guys didn't have any outstanding issue apart from the money thing? No quarrel ...no beating?

If that's the case, I think you should call her mobile phone.

I think you should try to meet her and discuss issues together.

Crowdfunding for public advice may not be too good sha. Awon redpills are coming to tell you to take in another woman.


Wouldn't another woman leave too if it is unbearable?

You don't need to be a redpill. You need to be an alpha gentleman. You need to know your responsibilities as though they were your body parts.

I must say... I hate it when families know husband and wife are having an issue.

We shouldn't listen to our family sometimes.

Check: they are all concentrating on the woman but none of them is telling you be more responsible. Of course, they'll support you with words. Will words help you take care of your family?

When I mean trying your best, I mean living up to the expectations of being a man; it is your responsibility to take care of your family! You don't bear children more than you can take care of.

You may rightly argue differently that you work hard. Sure, you do. But you aren't working harder enough for the family. You need to man up.

Bring your wife back.

Be the husband you'd want your daughter to have.

Be like the man who was sent to the lions to be eaten but came back leading the pride.

Please don't forget to buzz me when she is back make I come chop nkwobi biko.

You are welcome.

Olivertwist1985:
My wife which we have been married for the past thirteen (13) years and have five(5) children, four boys and girl for me ,just left my house on Sunday to her parent house without informed me.

She left because we have little disagreement about monthly food allowance which I used to give her every month but I failed to give her this month when she requested for

She left with the girl which is six months old and a boy two years and left three boys for me.

Please I need your advice, should I go and beg her or I should forget about her and continue with my life. According to my family members, they said I should forget about her because of the manner she left.

Olivertwist1985:
My wife which we have been married for the past thirteen (13) years and have five(5) children, four boys and girl for me ,just left my house on Sunday to her parent house without informed me.

She left because we have little disagreement about monthly food allowance which I used to give her every month but I failed to give her this month when she requested for

She left with the girl which is six months old and a boy two years and left three boys for me.

Please I need your advice, should I go and beg her or I should forget about her and continue with my life. According to my family members, they said I should forget about her because of the manner she left.

Olivertwist1985:
My wife which we have been married for the past thirteen (13) years and have five(5) children, four boys and girl for me ,just left my house on Sunday to her parent house without informed me.

She left because we have little disagreement about monthly food allowance which I used to give her every month but I failed to give her this month when she requested for

She left with the girl which is six months old and a boy two years and left three boys for me.

Please I need your advice, should I go and beg her or I should forget about her and continue with my life. According to my family members, they said I should forget about her because of the manner she left.