Mercychen:
What effrontery?
What insolence?
What audacity?
What the hell of a guts the shameless husband has to be telling the wife to her face that he'll marry his side chick??

Chai! Some women dey endure shit!

He's not even sorry for cheating on her, he still has the audacity to bring in another woman. If the wife does something stupid now, they'll say she went too far..

I give up on men. Seriously... This is just too much.

Richy4:

I feel really sad for the woman, Assuming she was my younger sister that I never have, I will just ask her to leave that marriage because there is nothing to salvage ..I will help her pack her things and ask her to come and leave with me... what an insult to her dignity and sensibility...She made a mistake though by telling the other woman's husband instead of confronting her own husband..

However, If Mrs was not attached to her name, she will not die...If she doesn't wear a ring in the middle of her fingers, she will not die... If she can't have sex, she will not die as a matter of fact, having sex in that relationship might kill her faster...

It indeed feels really great wearing the bigger trouser ...

Mindlog:


Do she even still have a marriage? A married man who confidently have sex with another man's wife is not worth wasting time on.......he has little time left.

alizma:

[s]And the lady actually fit into your sister. She made a mistake and you would have add your own mistake to hers by your intentions as you shown here. Wisdom is not required in uncomplicated issues, that is why it is called wisdom.

Iyaebe:
Most times I don't really understand you,so you are blaming the woman and not condemning the unfaithful married sidechick and the adulterous man in question who is shamelessly forming vex.I truly don't understand you most times

Midas01:
See the comment coming from you.... Lol

We meet to have more sense in Nigeria as a whole. Sense to make proper judgements. Sense to enable us desist from blaming victims rather than perpetrators.

Sense to enable us see black and not call it white.

QED.

Mercychen:
What effrontery?
What insolence?
What audacity?
What the hell of a guts the shameless husband has to be telling the wife to her face that he'll marry his side chick??

Chai! Some women dey endure shit!

He's not even sorry for cheating on her, he still has the audacity to bring in another woman. If the wife does something stupid now, they'll say she went too far..

I give up on men. Seriously... This is just too much.

oliverwrites:
Women truly are the problems of women.

I can't believe this statement. So nothing wrong with the tw*t of a husband behaving like an e-goat that should be slaughtered.

We men have tendencies, it is fact but doesn't mean it all of a sudden right to cheat on your woman and as if that's not enough, the public prick saw nothing wrong and goes about threatening the woman.

He deserves being castrated. Thank GOD I am not GOD, such a man I will visit it with some sickness for a while to let him realise a woman who can cheat on her husband with you doesn't really love you.

I have three daughters and when I hear pathetic stories like this I become annoying, restless and more prayerful for them.

Men we have today are mostly useless and this is coming from an 80s man.

Mercychen:
What effrontery?
What insolence?
What audacity?
What the hell of a guts the shameless husband has to be telling the wife to her face that he'll marry his side chick??

Chai! Some women dey endure shit!

He's not even sorry for cheating on her, he still has the audacity to bring in another woman. If the wife does something stupid now, they'll say she went too far..

I give up on men. Seriously... This is just too much.

Richy4:


Good answer buddy, I like the fact that you said that you won't trust her again.. so what is the foundation/ the bases of marriage when there are no trust?
what is the idea of keeping her in that house?.... To get her tormented emotionally daily?... for her to die there serving the punishments of her husband's unfaithfulness?...I love my elder sisters, though I am the youngest, I will not let any man disrespect them because of marriage...It's like the man telling your sister saying, yea I will marry the side chick, there's nothing she or anyone that she knows can do about it deal with it...Haba!!

Richy4:

I feel really sad for the woman, Assuming she was my younger sister that I never have, I will just ask her to leave that marriage because there is nothing to salvage ..I will help her pack her things and ask her to come and leave with me... what an insult to her dignity and sensibility...She made a mistake though by telling the other woman's husband instead of confronting her own husband..

However, If Mrs was not attached to her name, she will not die...If she doesn't wear a ring in the middle of her fingers, she will not die... If she can't have sex, she will not die as a matter of fact, having sex in that relationship might kill her faster...

It indeed feels really great wearing the bigger trouser ...

Midas01:
Seems comprehension isn't your forte.

Where in the op does it say that the man is married to two wives?

The man is married to one wife but is considering marrying a second who is his side piece and who he has been cheating on his wife with.

You people seem to cheery pick what part of your tradition you want to keep and what part you should discard.

Your forefathers who were polygamous never had christian themed marriages and never deceived their wives into thinking they were entering monogamous marriages.

Your forefathers if and when they wanted another wife never went behind their wives to fvck other women , moreso "married women". They simply went to the woman's family, signified their interest and married her the traditional way.

Elzakzaky:

Maybe not now, but surely you will later understand. Even you, my friend, will cheat on your wife.

greenie77:
Her own marriage has also ended but she is living in denial Her husband who saw no wrong in having sexual relationship with another man's wife has chosen to marry the woman, she better respect herself and divorce him for the sake of her life and her children (if any) because she has become a sworn enemy to her husband and his mistress who is to become his wife.

There is even a possibility of the husband being the biological father of his married lover's son.

The 6th and 9th commandments.

Mercychen:
What effrontery?
What insolence?
What audacity?
What the hell of a guts the shameless husband has to be telling the wife to her face that he'll marry his side chick??

Chai! Some women dey endure shit!

He's not even sorry for cheating on her, he still has the audacity to bring in another woman. If the wife does something stupid now, they'll say she went too far..

I give up on men. Seriously... This is just too much.

Sonnobax15:

Some men can be very loyal to their third leg

Please someone should tell the woman that she shouldn't worry... Because any woman who steal another man's husband will not have him to herself for full 90 minutes(one day one day the referee will blow the final whistle and the match will come to an end)....And the same thing wey happen to the house wife go still happen to am,no matter what.....

Playloaded:
My Husband Wants To Marry His Side Chic After I Reported Her To Her Husband – Woman Laments, Seeks Advice

A woman has sought advise from the public on how to find a solution for the problem currently bedeviling her marriage.

She revealed that her husband wants to marry his side chic who was recently chased out of her home by her husband after he uncovered her infidelity.

Sharing her story with a relationship counselor on Instagram, she distraught woman revealed that she had gone through her husband’s chat and messaged his side chic, who was also married.

She then contacted the side chic’s husband and gave him proof that his wife was unfaithful. .

The narrator said that her husband then came home and said his side chic’s husband sent her packing, and if they don’t reconcile, he would have to take her as his wife.

Read her write-up


https://playloaded.com.ng/my-husband-wants-to-marry-his-side-chic-after-i-reported-her-to-her-husband/

2rez:


If u knew the damages divorce dey cause, una no go dey open mouth wa, dey call that word. Go ask those who had gone through divorce whether they finding it easy or not. Na trauma one lives with for the rest of one's life. Make una dey calm down if una dey vex fah. E get plenty whys.

ibawon:
See how the alot of us made it seem like the woman is the Evil person here.
Her husband is a cheat
She confronted the situation.
Dear, he never respected you
Or there is more to tell than this.
I hope the Almighty sees you through.
All I pray is for your well-being and kids.
For your husband may God guide his decisions.

Orientedenergy:
You are among people that don't make women to get husbands due to ego and pride. Am sure u go don't enter 40 without husband

oliverwrites:
Women truly are the problems of women.

I can't believe this statement. So nothing wrong with the tw*t of a husband behaving like an e-goat that should be slaughtered.

We men have tendencies, it is fact but doesn't mean it all of a sudden right to cheat on your woman and as if that's not enough, the public prick saw nothing wrong and goes about threatening the woman.

He deserves being castrated. Thank GOD I am not GOD, such a man I will visit it with some sickness for a while to let him realise a woman who can cheat on her husband with you doesn't really love you.

I have three daughters and when I hear pathetic stories like this I become annoying, restless and more prayerful for them.

Men we have today are mostly useless and this is coming from an 80s man.

2rez:


If u knew the damages divorce dey cause, una no go dey open mouth wa, dey call that word. Go ask those who had gone through divorce whether they finding it easy or not. Na trauma one lives with for the rest of one's life. Make una dey calm down if una dey vex fah. E get plenty whys.

Juspe:
If your husband decides to marry his married side chick, please don't leave him, stay put, but make sure you start an affair with the other man. Nonsense

CuteEmma:
What are you guys even talking about? So you expect the man to respect his wife and marriage by doing what exactly?

This woman failed to think before acting. Causing problem for the side chic only increased her own problems, now she has to face the consequences. It’s not about wrong or right anymore.

I don’t see how she would ever be able to live peacefully with the side chic, even if it’s in another apartment, as long as she’s within reach, there’s going to be payback and the husband will take sides with the side chic; her best option is to leave, something she should’ve done quietly if she was wise.

Back to your statement of respect, did you expect the man to ignore the other woman who had been thrown out of her house in order to respect his wife? As if he doesn’t have conscience?

And also, going to the woman’s husband is silly. Why couldn’t she deal with her own husband? For me fighting with the side chic is even too much, if you can’t work things with the husband then leave.

Burgerlomo:


Lobatan

Mercychen:
What effrontery?
What insolence?
What audacity?
What the hell of a guts the shameless husband has to be telling the wife to her face that he'll marry his side chick??

Chai! Some women dey endure shit!

He's not even sorry for cheating on her, he still has the audacity to bring in another woman. If the wife does something stupid now, they'll say she went too far..

I give up on men. Seriously... This is just too much.