I'm a single guy with many recently/long-time married friends. Don't get me wrong I also have loads of single/dating guys as buds.

Now to the main matter, Yoruba people say 'afarawe ma n payan'. To explain, it simply translates into comparing oneself with someone else will most likely land you in trouble. Married guys should never expect to continue living like their single buds!

Many of my friends are in the age range of 28-32. Now, for us the single guys, we're free birds. The married guys, na we sef dey ginger dem to go home if we're out flexing. Not being homophobic but all my guys are straight as arrows. I currently have more than one woman in my life that my guys refer to as my babe, same for almost all of us, married and unmarried.

I have been studying my married friends with side chics for a long time and to be honest, I've learned way too much. From splitting finances to constant lying to the wife (sometimes we gats lie for them too to make it look legit ).

Why I'm writing this is because my recently married (and recent daddy) guy's sidechic told someone I'm acquainted with (jokingly) that she'd poison mother and child to have baba all to herself.

Guys if you're recently married in your late 20s or early 30s, just stick to your wife cause that your sidechic who is likely to be in the same age range of your wife will see her not as your wife but serious competition. Men in their late 40s to 60s who are sugar daddies (big gods) to small sidechics are not exactly exempted but their wives are a lot safer.

A word is enough for the wise.

For record purposes, I do not have any STDs. Ignore the troll below. I'm single and searshing.

You and your married friends sleeping with multiple women are ideots.


You think it's a thing to be proud of that you're having sexual relations with multiple women.

Now you want your married friend to leave the stupid side chick.

For who? For me and my innocent brothers?

So she will carry the yama yama disease you people have been sharing to give us?

You guys should continue like this. Make nobody stop when wahala done dey come.

TarOrfeeek:


You and your married friends sleeping with multiple women are ideots.


You think it's a thing to be proud of that you're having sexual relations with multiple women.

Now you want your married friend to leave the stupid side chick.

For who? For me and my innocent brothers?

So she will carry the yama yama disease you people have been sharing to give us?

You guys should continue like this. Make nobody stop when wahala done dey come.

You don vex ni

hmmm

This thing wey op talk so no too bad Cha....

But everything wey get advantage still get one or two disadvantage too...

My uncle who got married to only one wife dey currently dey regret right now....... He's a well-to-do man who trained all his sons to school abroad.....Now he's out of work and wanted to sell one of his landed property..The Problem now is that his wife and sons have all ganged up against him that he mustn't sell any of his property.... Imagine someone who has got buildings allover Port harcourt,warri and ughelli but not even an uncompleted building in his home town

He just dey regret now say had it been he had married a second wife right from time, competition for dey...

Me when polygamy dey my blood unco. In my mind, I wants to marry one wife but I done see myself like my papa. How I go do am?

TarOrfeeek:


You and your married friends sleeping with multiple women are ideots.


You think it's a thing to be proud of that you're having sexual relations with multiple women.

Now you want your married friend to leave the stupid side chick.

For who? For me and my innocent brothers?

So she will carry the yama yama disease you people have been sharing to give us?

You guys should continue like this. Make nobody stop when wahala done dey come.

Hypocrite! Toto no get metre if not, if you check your woman's own, your tears would be premium.

Draslo:
I'm a single guy with many recently/long-time married friends. Don't get me wrong I also have loads of single/dating guys as buds.

Now to the main matter, Yoruba people say 'afarawe ma n payan'. To explain, it simply translates into comparing oneself with someone else will most likely land you in trouble. Married guys should never expect to continue living like their single buds!

Many of my friends are in the age range of 28-32. Now, for us the single guys, we're free birds. The married guys, na we sef dey ginger dem to go home if we're out flexing. Not being homophobic but all my guys are straight as arrows. I currently have more than one woman in my life that my guys refer to as my babe, same for almost all of us, married and unmarried.

I have been studying my married friends with side chics for a long time and to be honest, I've learned way too much. From splitting finances to constant lying to the wife (sometimes we gats lie for them too to make it look legit ).

Why I'm writing this is because my recently married (and recent daddy) guy's sidechic told someone I'm acquainted with (jokingly) that she'd poison mother and child to have baba all to herself.

Guys if you're recently married in your late 20s or early 30s, just stick to your wife cause that your sidechic who is likely to be in the same age range of your wife will see her not as your wife but serious competition. Men in their late 40s to 60s who are sugar daddies (big gods) to small sidechics are not exactly exempted but their wives are a lot safer.

A word is enough for the wise.

Lol... You made sense. However,
sidechics who are drunk in love can blackmail and/or eliminate the
wives of men who are in their 40s to 60s as well.