Neddyogu:
More like melancholy

MISSCONGENIALITY:
You will find your type but make sure you don't plan to have kids. Your wife might give you the space you needs but your kids won't.
They will use crayons to redesign your house, scream in the middle of the night, drown your phone inside water, knock at your room door to report what a kid in the neighborhood did to them or a teacher in school or just to climb on you. They will change your laptop password and break your TV.
You can have your space with your spouse but when kids start coming, you are never ever going to have your space till they all grow and leave the house to you and your spouse again.

unbeatablerosak:
Not too good though. But that's the real you. But seriously you need to adjust. out cant be in this world alone. We all need somebody.

Kobojunkie:
1. In marriage, two become one and so what is yours becomes her's as well. If you are not ready for that, you are not mature for marriage.

2. If you cannot die to your ego and accept that the woman's voice and opinion is of equal importance as yours in the marriage, you are not mature for marriage...not ready.

3. Being an introvert is not a problem but are you ready to be in doors 24/7 with someone probably always there with you?

4. Women are not blow up dolls. They are human beings just like you and so you think of every... consider how finicky you are, a woman can also be that way too. So if you choose to remain selfish and self-centered, then you are not mature for marriage ...not ready.

zedegit:
I've been thinking lately cos I am the type of person that loves his space.
I don't like sharing my things; I want my things to be as I kept them.

I am sensitive to words and very temperamental. I am like a volcano waiting to erupt anytime.

I hate being manipulated. I hate the entitlement mentality of some women.

I am an introvert and don't like crowd. I can stay indoors for a month or more as long as I got food, water, a charged phone with subscription. I go out for work and other essential duties.

They say every man got his type of woman. Do you think there's a woman that can match my temperaments?

NB: I respond well when a lady is good with sooting words and avoids arguments.
I love intimacy too although I'm not the romantic type but I can be generous if money is there.

I think the temperament is choleric.

zedegit:
I've been thinking lately cos I am the type of person that loves his space.
I don't like sharing my things; I want my things to be as I kept them.

I am sensitive to words and very temperamental. I am like a volcano waiting to erupt anytime.

I hate being manipulated. I hate the entitlement mentality of some women.

I am an introvert and don't like crowd. I can stay indoors for a month or more as long as I got food, water, a charged phone with subscription. I go out for work and other essential duties.

They say every man got his type of woman. Do you think there's a woman that can match my temperaments?

NB: I respond well when a lady is good with sooting words and avoids arguments.
I love intimacy too although I'm not the romantic type but I can be generous if money is there.

I think the temperament is choleric.

Cchuks27:
same here. my peers are getting married in droves and I'm still single, thereby, adding some sort of psychological pressure on me.

33bandit:
I'm really like that ..marriage is for people that are planning to be frustrated all their life abeg ..
I just want to eat this money and chill out with peace of mind jare ..
Love kuku no dey this naija again

MrBrownJay1:


i strongly doubt that maturity makes a difference here. maturity is irrelevant to people who enjoy being on their own. maturity is irrelevant to people who dont want to share everything with a woman. ymaturity is irrelevant to a person who does not want family/kids.

also, in this day and age where you can have the perks of having the milk and not buy the cow, why would anyone get married? you can just get babes, do what you need to do with them, and when its time, thank them and tell them to go home. no big deal!

Kobojunkie:
Punishing himself too.

yomi007k:


This makes two of us bro.


Welcome to the club... Black Monk Club.

Ay04z:

We re many...
But me like tight puss*y

Madeu:

Are you like the op?

myked:

You just described me! The entitlement mentality, the feeling that I have a duty to call /text anyone daily, and arguments are my biggest relationship scare.

I have decided not to get married, society and religion cannot force me. I hope to adopt two kids and be responsible for them.

Someone should prove that their religion says "you must get married".

Kobojunkie:
And many of those married to them are unhappy in those marriages - we read of several of them here each day. Are you suggesting that the OP should settle for that kind of marriage instead of seeking something better than that?

zedegit:
I've been thinking lately cos I am the type of person that loves his space.
I don't like sharing my things; I want my things to be as I kept them.

I am sensitive to words and very temperamental. I am like a volcano waiting to erupt anytime.

I hate being manipulated. I hate the entitlement mentality of some women.

I am an introvert and don't like crowd. I can stay indoors for a month or more as long as I got food, water, a charged phone with subscription. I go out for work and other essential duties.

They say every man got his type of woman. Do you think there's a woman that can match my temperaments?

NB: I respond well when a lady is good with sooting words and avoids arguments.
I love intimacy too although I'm not the romantic type but I can be generous if money is there.

I think the temperament is choleric.

frozen70:

You are who you want to be
Just look for a novice and fashion her the way you want her to be
That is if you will ever get one

zedegit:
I've been thinking lately cos I am the type of person that loves his space.
I don't like sharing my things; I want my things to be as I kept them.

I am sensitive to words and very temperamental. I am like a volcano waiting to erupt anytime.

I hate being manipulated. I hate the entitlement mentality of some women.

I am an introvert and don't like crowd. I can stay indoors for a month or more as long as I got food, water, a charged phone with subscription. I go out for work and other essential duties.

They say every man got his type of woman. Do you think there's a woman that can match my temperaments?

NB: I respond well when a lady is good with sooting words and avoids arguments.
I love intimacy too although I'm not the romantic type but I can be generous if money is there.

I think the temperament is choleric.

Kobojunkie:
You would that he take a woman and do that to her as if she were a robot?
Would you also give blessings to man who wants to do that to your own child?

frozen70:
When a man if his age has all those attitudes, would you want him to be your inlaw

If you say yes, then I will say same

Kobojunkie:
Of his age, what age?

You don't want him as an in-law but you advice him to essentially enslave another person's daughter - make a robot of her - and rope into marriage that way?

frozen70:
If you are a man advice him not me
You and I knows that he is not behaving like other men
So correct him and not standing on my comment

Kobojunkie:
What you seemed all too eager to wish on on fellow female is what concerns me even more.

frozen70:
What about his abnormal behavior, is not a concern to you, right ?

Kobojunkie:
Abnormal behavior? He described himself .... not that he inflicted himself upon others nor harm anyone by it.
You think what he said of himself is worse than what you suggested he do to a fellow female?

zedegit:
I've been thinking lately cos I am the type of person that loves his space.
I don't like sharing my things; I want my things to be as I kept them.

I am sensitive to words and very temperamental. I am like a volcano waiting to erupt anytime.

I hate being manipulated. I hate the entitlement mentality of some women.

I am an introvert and don't like crowd. I can stay indoors for a month or more as long as I got food, water, a charged phone with subscription. I go out for work and other essential duties.

They say every man got his type of woman. Do you think there's a woman that can match my temperaments?

NB: I respond well when a lady is good with sooting words and avoids arguments.
I love intimacy too although I'm not the romantic type but I can be generous if money is there.

I think the temperament is choleric.