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Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by Mydazz(m): 7:38pm On Sep 24, 2021
What's hers?
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by fabienjoe: 7:39pm On Sep 24, 2021
Tickles001:


I don't know why people keep repeating the bolded when it comes to questions they don't want to answer.
You ask someone a question and they will hide the answer and begins to preach necessity.

Simply tell her your body count, and answer other questions that will follow.

For me. If a girl won't disclose her body count, then we don't business. Necessity or not. Though I know she could still lie about it.

That's a sign of insecurity. If this is that important to you, how do you ensure it doesn't increase after she must have started an affair with you? It can only mean one thing...you would suffocate her with jealousy and stalking..Don't dig too much into a woman's past. Live only with the secrets she's comfortable to disclose. You may not live down some of her ugly truths. So long as those remain her past and not part of her life with you, you'll be fine...Yes, you don't need to know .
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by PrimadonnaO(f): 7:42pm On Sep 24, 2021
Cassa93:


Throwing shades at men, but if the reverse is the case you will put on your feminist hat.

It's not a shade.

Isn't it a fact? Most men generally have no modesty with matters relating to sexuality.

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Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by Nobody: 7:45pm On Sep 24, 2021
Mercychen:
grin I used to think this applies only to females and that it has to do with the condition of the body or the level of damage on a girls body from too much flirting.
Never knew it meant the number of sex partners ones had so far.

Ehn.. op, tell her now. Or e don reach 100? tongue

Na wa o.

grin lol me too... Exactly how u explained it that was what I thought too until I searched the real meaning on Google. You remember that falz song where he said something like "you don lose body count at the age of 21" I interpreted it to mean a promiscuous lady that has damaged her body by having too many sex partners

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Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by Aforxzy(f): 7:45pm On Sep 24, 2021
Secretive why? Over body count which I willingly told my partner..

Not everyone is lose.
Not every woman is a wh*re
Not everyone sleeps around.

Not everyone wants to hear the truth so It's left to you to believe or not.



michigang:
I see you are quite secretive

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Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by PrimadonnaO(f): 7:45pm On Sep 24, 2021
JESHAL:



A promiscuous man and a promiscuous woman are very different, one is a respected,the other is a hoe, it's extremely hard for men to get sex, it's very easy for a woman to get sex, most men are watching porn, masturbating or visiting/ paying oloshos/ hookers. A man that attains sexual abundance like Wizkid, Tuface, Davido, note I even mentioned only exceptional artistes, because they are the rare men that get abundance of pussy due to their status, sex is so hard that even rich men that can't game women compensate with money having sugar babies/ side chics

It seems more to me like they're constantly going out of their way to indulge.

It makes no difference whether it was paid sex or love sex or trick sex.

Bottom line is, most men don't consider their body count a thing to be mindful of.
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by Deejay777(m): 7:45pm On Sep 24, 2021
Davash222:
[b][/b] A girl with over 300 body count wants a guy with body count less than 5 undecided

What do we call this now
No be juju be that.
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by Nobody: 7:50pm On Sep 24, 2021
Jeon:




I can't date anyone that own 1 bodycount it's so irritating..
Just be bodycount free...

I guess you are a guy. So if a lady tells you she doesn't have a body count (meaning she is virgin), how would you confirm if she is saying the truth or not?
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by bukatyne(f): 7:50pm On Sep 24, 2021
Omicron007:
I have heard about Body Counts before but I did not think it was that serious until I met one girl recently.
She wanted something serious between us but she said she can't date me unless my Body Count is less than 5.

For some who haven't come across the term before.
Simply put, body count is the number of people you have had sex with. It does not matter how intimate the make out was, or how much stuff you have done with someone, if there hasn't been penetration, it does not count as sex in this context.

Body count here refers only to the number of people you have had penetrative sex with.


So my question is this.
Is it necessary to know your partner's body count?
Do you know your Body Count?

It would take you less time to tell her your body count than open this thread.

Abi you be brolosho aka cheerful giver?

If I know the girl, I would just advise that she doesn't tell guys her cut off mark going forward smiley

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Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by cutepaul(m): 7:51pm On Sep 24, 2021
Davash222:
[b][/b]
A girl with over 300 body count wants a guy with body count less than 5 undecided


What do we call this now
improper fraction .......aka life nor balance sad
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by bukatyne(f): 7:51pm On Sep 24, 2021
Davash222:
[b][/b]
A girl with over 300 body count wants a guy with body count less than 5 undecided


What do we call this now

Are you part of the 300?
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by Nobody: 7:51pm On Sep 24, 2021
PrimadonnaO:


It seems more to me like they're constantly going out of their way to indulge.

It makes no difference whether it was paid sex or love sex or trick sex.

Bottom line is, most men don't consider their body count a thing to be mindful of.

Most don't have the resources to keep up with sex or good game to attract women, masturbation is the norms, sex is the exception, that the reality of most men

But you're correct, we don't because it's hard to get it, the ones that can are hailed by the majority of men who can't, but women, if you want sex, not any effort at all and you have it
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by bluefilm: 7:53pm On Sep 24, 2021
Omicron007:
[s]I have heard about Body Counts before but I did not think it was that serious until I met one girl recently.She wanted something serious between us but she said she can't date me unless my Body Count is less than 5.For some who haven't come across the term before.[i]Simply put, body count is the number of people you have had sex with. It does not matter how intimate the make out was, or how much stuff you have done with someone, if there hasn't been penetration, it does not count as sex in this context.Body count here refers only to the number of people you have had penetrative sex with.[/i]So my question is this.Is it necessary to knowyourpartner's body count?Do you know your Body Count?[/s]

Lies from the pits of hell.
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by fabienjoe: 7:54pm On Sep 24, 2021
Magnoliaa:


Oporrrrrr. Wawuu. What a deeply emoshunal motivashunal speech. Ehennnnn? You mean it? Kai. E sweet me the way all of una turn quotes creators and preachers for this thread o. Talkinabout the past is this. Body count doesn't marra. What if he decides to change when he met you? Telllll me something! When una go dey shame and castigate women, placing moral standards on them, una no know say their pasts no dey define them? E reach man turn now, una wan dey reason (with me).

Said it, and will still say it again. I LOOOOVEE the lady in question. I wish I could meet her to deliver a teddy bear to her. Infaccct, I wish other women were like this babe and will imitate her.

#SayNoToRecklessBrostitutes

Cool down, beautiful sister..This feminism stuff is sometimes stretched to ridiculous levels..I've never asked a woman how many she had shagged..but somehow many actually volunteer that information and I know how awkward it makes me feel..But the women appear relaxed next to me, seeing my sincerity and simplicity..Even then, I would rather they don't disclose that. All I need is a good and responsible conduct going forward..I'm not a saint either..

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Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by Magnoliaa(f): 7:56pm On Sep 24, 2021
fabienjoe:


Cool down, beautiful sister..This feminism stuff is sometimes stretched to ridiculous levels..I've never asked a woman how many she had shagged..but somehow many actually volunteer that information and I know how awkward it makes me feel..But the women appear relaxed next me, seeing my sincerity and simplicity..Even then, I would rather they don't disclose that. All I need is a good and responsible conduct going forward..I'm not a saint either..

Okay. Good day.

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Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by MufasaLion: 7:56pm On Sep 24, 2021
grin grin grin

A hoe doesn't want to be with a 'brhoe' grin

I'm sure she must have told you she's a virgin.
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by fabienjoe: 8:00pm On Sep 24, 2021
Magnoliaa:


Okay. Good day.

Thanks, love..By the way, I enjoyed those exchanges..
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by xynerise: 8:00pm On Sep 24, 2021
Lie to her and let us rest abeg.

You think she will tell you the truth ?
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by munachiso58(m): 8:02pm On Sep 24, 2021
bikonu what is body count??
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by kingxsamz(m): 8:04pm On Sep 24, 2021
Tell her say your body count na 4 na. How she wan take know? grin
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by Truvelisback(m): 8:06pm On Sep 24, 2021
I don't know my Body can't. She no know where dey pain her. Op, u dating an experience pornster.
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by Gkemz: 8:13pm On Sep 24, 2021
Davash222:
[b][/b]
A girl with over 300 body count wants a guy with body count less than 5 undecided


What do we call this now
It's called injustice
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by PrimadonnaO(f): 8:16pm On Sep 24, 2021
JESHAL:


Most don't have the resources to keep up with sex or good game to attract women, masturbation is the norms, sex is the exception, that the reality of most men

But you're correct, we don't because it's hard to get it, the ones that can are hailed by the majority of men who can't, but women, if you want sex, not any effort at all and you have it

Okaye.
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by Nobody: 8:19pm On Sep 24, 2021
NewSoul:

grin lol me too... Exactly how u explained it that was what I thought too until I searched the real meaning on Google. You remember that falz song where he said something like "you don lose body count at the age of 21" I interpreted it to mean a promiscuous lady that has damaged her body by having too many sex partners

Lol.. grin grin. Good to know I was not the only one.
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by snoopz: 8:20pm On Sep 24, 2021
The fact say she dey ask for body count means say she sef get body count scope her jaare
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by Nobody: 8:21pm On Sep 24, 2021
NewSoul:

grin lol me too... Exactly how u explained it that was what I thought too until I searched the real meaning on Google. You remember that falz song where he said something like "you don lose body count at the age of 21" I interpreted it to mean a promiscuous lady that has damaged her body by having too many sex partners

Lol.. grin grin. Good to know I was not the only one who thought so.
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by Tickles001(m): 8:22pm On Sep 24, 2021
fabienjoe:


That's a sign of insecurity. If this is that important to you, how do you ensure it doesn't increase after she must have started an affair with you? It can only mean one thing...you would suffocate her with jealousy and stalking..Don't dig too much into a woman's past. Live only with the secrets she's comfortable to disclose. You may not live down some of her ugly truths. So long as those remain her past and not part of her life with you, you'll be fine...Yes, you don't need to know .

The bolded is wrong. It is not within anyone's hands to determine for another what they need to know and what they don't. I can't debate this with you because you are coming from an entirely different point.

Most people ask this question for reasons that is not even related to any of the things you wrote up there.
How do you feel insecure and jealous when the relationship has not even started. Because this question comes when you start considering taking someone serious.

We all have standards. If her past is too ugly for my ears to hear, then I'm definitely not going to take her serious.

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Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by Demigod22: 8:26pm On Sep 24, 2021
Any girl that wants to know my body count should go away. Her vagina doesn't have air conditioner nor does her vagina generate revenue. Since I won't ask her about her own before she starts vommitting lies, so let her no ask me.

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Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by Nobody: 8:32pm On Sep 24, 2021
Magnoliaa:
I love her. Just help me tell her this, OP.

That's standards... kiss smiley wink

Which standards?
A girl who has lost her body count is bold enough to be asking me that nonsense?
Is she rehearsing madness?
Body count kill her there!
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by pappilo(m): 8:34pm On Sep 24, 2021
JESHAL:



A promiscuous man and a promiscuous woman are very different, one is a respected,the other is a hoe, it's extremely hard for men to get sex, it's very easy for a woman to get sex, most men are watching porn, masturbating or visiting/ paying oloshos/ hookers. A man that attains sexual abundance like Wizkid, Tuface, Davido, note I even mentioned only exceptional artistes, because they are the rare men that get abundance of pussy due to their status, sex is so hard that even rich men that can't game women compensate with money having sugar babies/ side chics

You are a smart one. I always try to explain this to this Google generation but they cant comprehend.

A woman can sleep with 20 men in a month without even trying no matter how she worwor reach. A man on the other hand regardless of how good looking or rich he is will have to be extremely lucky to score 20 gyal in a month (not counting PAYG girls)

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Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by ukaface(f): 8:35pm On Sep 24, 2021
Davash222:
[b][/b]
A girl with over 300 body count wants a guy with body count less than 5 undecided


What do we call this now
did the op state she has over 300 body count?
Re: She Won't Date Me Until I Tell Her My Body Count! by Aganju849: 8:38pm On Sep 24, 2021
Omicron007:
I have heard about Body Counts before but I did not think it was that serious until I met one girl recently.
She wanted something serious between us but she said she can't date me unless my Body Count is less than 5.

For some who haven't come across the term before.
Simply put, body count is the number of people you have had sex with. It does not matter how intimate the make out was, or how much stuff you have done with someone, if there hasn't been penetration, it does not count as sex in this context.

Body count here refers only to the number of people you have had penetrative sex with.


So my question is this.
Is it necessary to know your partner's body count?
Do you know your Body Count?

Let her go bitch

You're both bitches

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