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My Uncle Has Decided To End His Marriage Of 30 Years / Man To End Marriage Of 16 Years With His Wife After Discovering Her Real Age / After 15yrs, I'm Still Haunted, Help!!!! (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Joeyfizzo: 3:35pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
siofra:ur parents na mumu 3 Likes |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by ladychioma: 3:35pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly: |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by aparata: 3:35pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Try compalin to her church people quote author=neonly post=106221297] U won't understand am really hurt and depressed Dat her own thinking too dat Abi they will settle d matter for us But for how can we continue like dis mind u age is not on our side Am always emontioal disturb when we have issues cause me I like us playing together yur family suppose yur confider especially yur wife but if you can get it from her again what d use of staying in d relationship U sef reason am babes[/quote] |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by pongwa(m): 3:35pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:let it go.....please stop punishing yourself over someone's mistake.....except of course you pulled the first cord. I suggest you call your wife and discuss this with her so from there we will know what to do. Shalom 1 Like |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by jacquincy: 3:36pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
ahnie: |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by gayman99: 3:36pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
There's nothing wrong in doing some house chores like OP mentioned. In fact I enjoy doing it. When I want to wash my kids clothes I carry them along. Give them socks to wash and at the same time bond with them. Like I said there's nothing wrong. Life is too short to worry over unnecessary things. Just enjoy your self unless there is something OP isn't telling us. 2 Likes |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Awesomeking: 3:36pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Calm down,how long has this been going on? Try talking to her first before ending a marriage because your wife is focused on getting the bag.. You can talk to her and try to compromise |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by neonly: 3:37pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Solatium: Not abt sex or calming nerves it abt our behavior in front of d kids it very unhealthy |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Nobody: 3:37pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: YOU ARE LOOSE again! 2 Likes
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Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Someodds: 3:38pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
ahnie: Sweety, I think you were in mind. That thing de different from 'lets date' Totally hard... Forget about social media lies. |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by omooba969(m): 3:38pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
ufotty2001: If your submission is true, then let her know how you feel without creating a tense situation. Our gfs/wives appreciate when we show our feelings or vulnerable side. She is your girl, have a chat with her. |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by mrksquare: 3:38pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Kestolove: And you think is easy to just divorce and remarry thereafter? You didn't even capture the future of the children post-divorce and the psychological trauma that is likely to rear its head in the absent of their father or mother. 2 Likes |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Kobojunkie: 3:39pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
gayman99:Na wetin we dey try tell all these ones wey dey think say marriage means promotion to god-levels.. 2 Likes |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by banom(m): 3:40pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
@ op, end it. You sef don try |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Tinyemeka(m): 3:40pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly: |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Kobojunkie: 3:40pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:Interesting reveal there. |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Somblaq: 3:41pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
One thing I understand with women is that women are tree, There grow based on how there are nutured. Some men over pamper women and with that they can do rubbish and you will still beg them at last. Most of all these depends on the hand you gave her during ur early dating and marriage life. She may be doing some little rubbish that instead being bold to say I don't like this u were thinking she will change with time. Bro just keep praying for her, there's nothing God can not do. I don't support divorce unless on the basis of adultery. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by tempex88(m): 3:41pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly: I experienced something similar but didn't get that complex. I came to the conclusion that two can only work together if they agree. Support her on her career dream but let her know that those to things that needs to be done at home, someone has to do them. Na money e go chop. She should pay for cook, pay for nanny and pay for someone to stay with the children. You continue with rent payment, children fees and food allowance. If she wants to do what men does, she has to be ready to shoulder the responsibilities men shoulder....my own madam agreed to it. And we are fine. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Kobojunkie: 3:41pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Someodds:ROFLMAO |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by pappilo(m): 3:42pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly: Your children will be perfectly fine. I held on too long to something that was finished for the sake of my children but it eventually fell apart at great financial, emotional and liberty cost. The children now..... Couldnt be happier. No more toxic home and my daughter loves that she can different sets of presents from both parents on special occasions. Easier said than done though but the sooner you make a move the better it will be for you. 7 Likes |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Nobody: 3:42pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:You need to talk to her family members to resolve this issue |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Jaqenhghar: 3:42pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly:She didnt change. The mask just fell off. Of you want to split abeg split. The children will be fine |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by mrdharkchild(m): 3:42pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Kestolove: Sure? Point one out. I'm searching.. Or is it u? |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by nonix22(m): 3:42pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Red Flag! Fleee asap ufotty2001: |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Tinyemeka(m): 3:43pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: From OP's complaint and your exhaustive conclusion, what do you think OP's wife is contributing to the marriage? 1 Like |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Fiscus105(m): 3:43pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly: All these flags use to come up during boyfriend and girlfriend, but we do ignore it, after several years if we cant sustain it, we will start complaining. Wenever im asking girl out ,even if its on social media, i have known already that i wont be able to cope with this one for just 1 month. 1 Like |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by tritt(m): 3:43pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Na this kind people dem dey call simp before them marry na...na you dey wash clothes, go market etc......OP you are a weak man period!. No dey come worry us here with your problem abeg. Me i dey reason how much dollar go be by oct 1. Albertone: |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Rubbiish(m): 3:43pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Lastmankc:Lol How old are u that she is already bringing spiritualists? |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Asour: 3:43pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Kestolove: And marry another who is immune from this sort of behavior 5+ yrs down the line? |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Kobojunkie: 3:44pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Tinyemeka:Op has yet to respond to those questions.. still waiting to read from him. Unless he opens up even more, there's no way of really telling. |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Solatium(m): 3:44pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
neonly: Of course not,but continuous engagement with someone will take your attention away from those stress,by the time you are back at home from work you won't even have her energy. Try it,it has worked for many 1 Like |
Re: Am About To End My 15yrs Marriage by Lastmankc(m): 3:45pm On Sep 27, 2021 |
Rubbiish:31 |
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