I've been seeing a lot of headlines on people 'bragging' about marrying virgins, and while nothing is wrong with that, although some tend to take it the extreme, it's absolutely wrong to put others down for not being or marrying virgins.

Virginity is a social construct, and mostly linked to cultural and biblical praise. Being a virgin or not does not add or reduces one's worth. Culture makes it seem that way.

Why don't we ask ourselves why the term is mostly used for women? More than half of virginity advocacy only focus on women. You can't tell if a man is a virginity or not because both genders' sex organs are built differently.

Many people don't even realize there are ways a person can be 'disvirgined' other than sex. Imagine marrying someone who hasn't had sex before but isn't a 'virgin,' and because the society sees being a virgin as something worthful, you become mad. Does that even make sense?

Ok.

Nice piece.

It may be a social construct, but so are all our laws and widely accepted values. The fact that it’s a social construct doesn’t make it valueless. Chastity is still quite a feat, especially in this age where sex is all everyone talks about.

These days, the shame/stigma is actually now on those who are virgins.

Dreebieee:

Many people don't even realize there are ways a person can be 'disvirgined' other than sex. Imagine marrying someone who hasn't had sex before but isn't a 'virgin,' and because the society sees being a virgin as something worthful, you become mad. Does that even make sense?

It is indeed a worthless social construct used to delude the gullible females into according higher value on themselves.

Lol, worthless and useless evening newspapers used by yahoo boys are gathering to cry, gnash their teeth and console one another.

For those who keep saying virginity doesn't necessarily mean a good home, I ask na ashawo go make good home? Your answer there lies the gnashing of teeth

All diz Pple That Have Overused Their Vaginas and Priccks Should SHUT UP!

Who Do you Guys Think You are Trying to Deceive?
How Will Any Sensible Person Say Virginity Is Not Valuable?
Particularly Female Virginity!!

D Way God Created us and Also our African Culture, Guys and Babes Should be Virgins till Marriage!!
Once Marrio, Dey Can now Start to Fvcck Till Infinity! Look@Isaac and Rebecca in the Bible!

It was White people dat brought Nonsense 'Boyfriend n Girlfriend' to Africans and Spoilt d Original Pattern!!

OP!
Mind Ur Business,Ok?!
Face Your Gbola/Veejay, Let Virgins Face Theirs!

Vinnie2000:



All diz Pple That Overused Their Vaginas and Priccks Should SHUT UP!

Who Are you Trying to Deceive?
How Will Any Sensible Person Say Virginity Is Not Valuable?
Particularly Female Virginity!!

D Way God Created us and Also our African Culture, Guys and Babes Should be Virgins till Marriage!!
Dey Can now Start to Fvcck Till Infinity! Look@Isaac and Rebecca in the Bible!

It was White people dat brought Boyfriend n Girlfriend to Africans and Spoilt d Original Pattern!!

OP!
Mind Ur Business,Ok?!
Face Your Gbola/Veejay, Let Virgins Face Theirs!

They're pained, it's a sign of frustration they're showing

murphyibiam15:

They're pained, it's a sign of frustration they're showing

Don't Mind Dem!!

After Fcvkking Anyhow and Taking Million Tablets of Tramadol/Postinor, Dey are Trying to Deceive Others!!

Though We are No Saints, But Trying to Commonize or Thrash Virginity Is very Terrible!!

Particularly, Female Virginity!
It is PriceLess!
Ask Yahoo Boys and Diabolical people!

Dreebieee:
I've been seeing a lot of headlines on people 'bragging' about marrying virgins, and while nothing is wrong with that, although some tend to take it the extreme, it's absolutely wrong to put others down for not being or marrying virgins.

I agree. One should not take panadol for another's headache.

Virginity is a social construct, and mostly linked to cultural and biblical praise. Being a virgin or not does not add or reduces one's worth. Culture makes it seem that way.

Actually, it does. Sex is not just a physical act, it's also emotional. Also, humans are territorial beings. Exclusivity means a lot to us. That's why we don't like any form of invasion on our "private space". That's why we don't condone cheating. I'm sure you won't want to be cheated on in your marriage.

Why don't we ask ourselves why the term is mostly used for women? More than half of virginity advocacy only focus on women. You can't tell if a man is a virginity or not because both genders' sex organs are built differently.

You already answered your question by yourself. Plus sexual exclusivity means more to men than to women because of their dominant character.

Many people don't even realize there are ways a person can be 'disvirgined' other than sex. Imagine marrying someone who hasn't had sex before but isn't a 'virgin,' and because the society sees being a virgin as something worthful, you become mad. Does that even make sense?

Such persons are still technically virgins. They cease to virgins when they become sexually active.

Sealed products always have more value that unsealed products now

gistray:
Sealed products always have more value that unsealed products now

may you live long because of this comment of yours

Their in dignity in a lady keeping her virginity till marriage.

Brand new laptop work better than second hand

Is this even an argument?

Virginity is more valuable than a loose vagina

I think the female vagina opening is designed that way to protect against insertion of dangerous objects and to prevent dirts from entering at young age as kids brains are not developed enough to take proper care of that opening. That’s the sharp pain felt when they try to put something in there which prevents them from reaching that area until they are old enough. Virginity just a word coined by we humans to cage the female gender because there no way you can know if a man have had sex or not.

siofra:


Mumu. A non virgin is not necessarily an ashawo.

She's A Lanti then Or Eskimo

gistray:


She's A Lanti then Or Eskimo

No, she's a full blooded Nigerian girl.

siofra:


No, she's a full blooded Nigerian girl.

Lanti is a name for Nigerian girl

Being a virgin adds ones worth, Yes. I will tell u some of its advantages: When a girl who is a virgin marries a man who loves her, and she loses her virginity to the man she loves, the tendency of she not leaving the man is very high. It will be very hard 4 her to leave her man. Secondly, Sex with a virgin is really pleasurable because the V.J is still tight or normal and not loose. Infact this is also one of the major reasons some men go 4 them or marries them. On the other hand, girls who aren't virgin or have had several sexual relationship with different guys b4 getting married, may not be faithful in marriage with her man. This is why some mothers who knows these always protect their virgin daughters like eggs.

I don't even see the flux in it....Just within a short period in my new neighborhood,I don deflower 4 different girls.
3 overgrown virgins(27yrs and above),1 bloodtonic(17yrs).
Na so so swear all of them dey swear for me because I don't even bother picking their calls any more.
Non of them is even worthy of a relationship,na even the bloodtonic I oil like 100times before I finally dumped her as well.

Don't use just to describe virginity,rather it should be cherished and if yours is still intact as a lady please keep it and know that you are a rare gem and an uncommon Queen.Virginity is a big deal and men should value their virgin partner and hold her in high esteem

Trash

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Iyaebe:
Don't use just to describe virginity,rather it should be cherished and if yours is still intact as a lady please keep it and know that you are a rare gem and an uncommon Queen.Virginity is a big deal and men should value their virgin partner and hold her in high esteem

Woww, Wish I Could Give Dis ur Comments a Thousand Likes!!
Why will any person assert dat Virginity is Ordinary?
Female Virginity for dat matter!!

It is the Pride of a lady!!
If she Wants to Lose it@all b4 Marriage, It Should be to a Genuine Guy whom she loves and Trust!!
Though Most of our Naija Girls Gift diers to Yahoo Boys, because of iPhone or Shawarma/Catfish PepperSoup!!

Iyaebe:
Don't use just to describe virginity,rather it should be cherished and if yours is still intact as a lady please keep it and know that you are a rare gem and an uncommon Queen.Virginity is a big deal and men should value their virgin partner and hold her in high esteem

Woww, Wish I Could Give Dis ur Comments a Thousand Likes!!
Why will any person assert dat Virginity is Ordinary?
Female Virginity for dat matter!!

It is the Pride of a lady!!
If she Wants to Lose it@all b4 Marriage, It Should be to a Genuine Guy whom she loves and Trust!!
Though Most of our Naija Girls Gift diers to Yahoo Boys, because of iPhone or Shawarma/Catfish PepperSoup!!

[quote author=Dreebieee post=106358050]I've been seeing a lot of headlines on people 'bragging' about marrying virgins,


SOCIAL CONSTRUCT KILL YOU THERE, OLOSHOOOOOO

TUEEH ON YOUR FACE AND THAT YOUR OVER USED DICK ABI NA PUNNA YOU GET.

I knew something like this will come up, and it won't be surprising cause its all these Evening newspaper and over used dumped puna that will start it.

Virginity is a blessing to a lady and to a man that Mary's her. Be ashamed of yourself for Loosing yours for ORDINARY INDOMIE AND TWO EGG.

Social construct kill you once again, TUEEEH.

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So a lady does not deserve to be blessed with a virgin man? You people just put a lot of stupid pressure on women, and it's sick.

Also, if you can't share your opinion without insults, you don't deserve to be heard.

Truvelisback:
Being a virgin adds ones worth, Yes. I will tell u some of its advantages: When a girl who is a virgin marries a man who loves her, and she loses her virginity to the man she loves, the tendency of she not leaving the man is very high. It will be very hard 4 her to leave her man. Secondly, Sex with a virgin is really pleasurable because the V.J is still tight or normal and not loose. Infact this is also one of the major reasons some men go 4 them or marries them. On the other hand, girls who aren't virgin or have had several sexual relationship with different guys b4 getting married, may not be faithful in marriage with her man. This is why some mothers who knows these always protect their virgin daughters like eggs.

Listen to yourself boss. What does a lady stand to gain from marrying a virgin guy?
Always putting down rules for women but not for your gender.

Dreebieee:
I've been seeing a lot of headlines on people 'bragging' about marrying virgins, and while nothing is wrong with that, although some tend to take it the extreme, it's absolutely wrong to put others down for not being or marrying virgins.

Virginity is a social construct, and mostly linked to cultural and biblical praise. Being a virgin or not does not add or reduces one's worth. Culture makes it seem that way.

Why don't we ask ourselves why the term is mostly used for women? More than half of virginity advocacy only focus on women. You can't tell if a man is a virginity or not because both genders' sex organs are built differently.

Many people don't even realize there are ways a person can be 'disvirgined' other than sex. Imagine marrying someone who hasn't had sex before but isn't a 'virgin,' and because the society sees being a virgin as something worthful, you become mad. Does that even make sense?

There are tons of studies with empirical evidence from researches that shows a girl with body count is emotionally damaged and can't pair bond

Dreebieee:


Listen to yourself boss. What does a lady stand to gain from marrying a virgin guy?
Always putting down rules for women but not for your gender.

Virginity shows high self discipline, remember it's very difficult for men to get sexual access since women control access to sex, most men are masturbating, watching pornography or paying cheap prostitutes,since you get sex easily for existing it's unfair you get hard mode benefits for your sexuality, Chasity and feminity are complementary

Dreebieee:


So a lady does not deserve to be blessed with a virgin man? You people just put a lot of stupid pressure on women, and it's sick.

Also, if you can't share your opinion without insults, you don't deserve to be heard.

A promiscuous woman is a damaged woman,she doesn't have any worth among men with self dignity, she belongs to the streets, but luckily men of low value don't have sexual abundance since they lack game or resources and are average, hence they will settle with remnants of used Hoes who lost their sexual glory

Dreebieee:
I've been seeing a lot of headlines on people 'bragging' about marrying virgins, and while nothing is wrong with that, although some tend to take it the extreme, it's absolutely wrong to put others down for not being or marrying virgins.

Virginity is a social construct, and mostly linked to cultural and biblical praise. Being a virgin or not does not add or reduces one's worth. Culture makes it seem that way.

Why don't we ask ourselves why the term is mostly used for women? More than half of virginity advocacy only focus on women. You can't tell if a man is a virginity or not because both genders' sex organs are built differently.

Many people don't even realize there are ways a person can be 'disvirgined' other than sex. Imagine marrying someone who hasn't had sex before but isn't a 'virgin,' and because the society sees being a virgin as something worthful, you become mad. Does that even make sense?

Western Societies that are openly promiscuous with hookup culture have the worst divorce statistics with women initiating 70% of the divorce, these was not so when judeo-christian values were the conservative norms and open promiscuity was frowned upon as prostitution was illegal because family values were cherished until post Feminism in the 1970's