^^Did you know when you pray God does not come down and make the girl stay with you forever. . He uses people  and many have given the OP solutions. . .

There was this two farmers who would go to the farm everyday. . .Farmer #1 would sit on his farm and pray for God to make him grow crops and farmer#2 would till his farm water it and tend to his farm in the end farmer#2 grew crops and made money whilst farmer #1 was still praying for his crops to grow.

Moral is God will not come and till and water your farm and crops for you you will sit and rot in prayer whilst others working hard on their farms will rip the benefits