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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Andercruz: 2:23pm On Oct 17, 2021
chatinent:
I didn't really stay long with fam so I can't really tell.

Please share yours. kiss



I'm the last born. I have very caring family...seriously caring family.
I was actually lazy growing up, though dat changed particularly in my late teenage stage.

I marvel at how careful, prudent and meticulous I can be in my engagements...at times I feel I've a disorder the way I carefully organize and tidy up my belongings and environment.
I don't joke with those house chores I feared terribly growing up.

One of the things that hurts me badly is having quarrels with my older siblings...it seems totally inevitable, no matter how hard I try running away from it..something must come up. Some older siblings hardly apologize...I repeatedly return to apologize in tears even when I'm the one dragged down...they at times accept the apology with reluctance....but they are really nice to me.

it really really really hurts me badly whenever I had any squabbles with my older siblings...I find it hard forgiving myself as I often put all the blames on myself. My peace returns only when I have apologized, whether I was right or wrong, or they were, I'll still have to apologize...they are my family!!

One of the issues I've with some older siblings, is that tendency to take the opinions or person of lastborns too lightly or common...but I'll always love them, no matter the issue we may have...i can't stop loving them even when hate come up..Family is everything, and will always be a fall back.

Honestly, being the lastborn is great!! I still enjoy, but I've to still take up responsibilities head long.

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by sageb: 2:33pm On Oct 17, 2021
ModestGal:

LoL,my own na complete opposite
My own lastborn na curse,if I wasn't the last born,I would have achieved so much more in life. My mum focused all her attention on her other children and left me. And the other children only know how to use me and they waste precious amount of my time in life. Aa day will not go without me wishing I was not the lastsborn. The suffer no be small

And the worst thing na because,I no recieve shishi from them, lol. They have never never been there for me

Modestgal,our iya Ibadan is back
I anticipated your story
But you say your sister bought a laptop for you
That's a good gesture
We need more story
In Dj Khalid voice" another one "
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by queenitee(f): 2:37pm On Oct 17, 2021
InTheCloudySky:
A whole thread about us. How nice.
So nice. The last born life is so sweet
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Nobody: 2:39pm On Oct 17, 2021
author=Munzy14 post=106815753]
Chai...so sorry for the loss...
Yeah.
Thanks.

I can't just Imagine this o..I will break down..Our last born is like my first son..
Wow.. really? cheesy Please pamper him o.

And mothers have their special place in every of their kid's heart.

Yeah. They do.
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Munzy14(m): 3:02pm On Oct 17, 2021
Joshrob:
Our last born is very lazy but there's nothing this guy can't do if he really want to work. He help me wire my flat and paint. He did all that alone.
When my sister husband build their house, he help them wire the house and do all connections. But if he's not in the mood, no amount of begging will make him do it.
Even today that he came to watch match in my house, I was trying to sweep the room and make everywhere neat, he raise his leg up for me to sweep, went to the fridge to take coke and origin to sit outside while I'm cleaning the house.
He came inside when I'm done and continue watching his match.
My ex girlfriend complained that he doesn't greet her, I asked her if she have ever hear him greet me before, she said No. Case closed
Only when he needs money that he will greet before asking.
He so stubborn that he's the only one that have fight mark on his body in the family.
All the 7 children attend the same primary and secondary school, he's the that make the principal know my parents,because of his troubles.
And he can eat very well but he doesn't grow fat. He will by 8pm and d still wake up by 2am to dish food again, but he have a very flat tummy. That's what I like about his body
Lol, I laugh at the greeting aspect...Last born greet tanker..

My little bro call me on phone, it is enyia how far...grin despite the huge age gap.

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Munzy14(m): 3:06pm On Oct 17, 2021
Mercychen:
author=Munzy14 post=106815753]

Yeah.
Thanks.


Wow.. really? cheesy Please pamper him o.



Yeah. They do.
I do...cheesy

I find it hard to tell him no to his requests..I rather make available at least half..

The bond is thick.

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by tchidi066(f): 3:15pm On Oct 17, 2021
So it's now a crime to be last born, make una leave us o

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by emmyileri(m): 3:15pm On Oct 17, 2021
PuZZyNegro:


It is always like this. Parents especially mothers don't joke with the child of their old age (Gen 37:3).

I was loved by my mother just like your mother loved your last born and I loved my mother so dearly as well.

What happened to your sister could have happened to me if I had lost my mother at a much younger age. Would you mind to share how old your sister was when your mum died?

Even losing her in my mid twenties didn't make the shock much less critical to me. In fact, when she died, I felt like joining her or more like escorting her to the land of the dead if it was possible.

Till date, life is meaningless to me as I believe nobody will ever give me that unconditional love like my mother and everything I have always done was to make my mother happy.

With the money coming in and not able to spend it on her makes me see the true meaning of vanity that life is, knowing all the sacrifices she made for me. Like, she may not have 3k to give my siblings but will suddenly have 10k to give me when I ask. I was the only person that I attended boarding school that my school fees were times 5 of what my siblings pay in their day school.

May God rest your sister's soul cry

My advice to people is to not jealous last borns. We have special grace wink

Always handsome/beautiful, intelligent, tall and get the opportunities other siblings never had. We leverage on the mistakes of older siblings and make better alternative choices
Brother I thought I'm the only one having such feelings. I'm the last born of my family, lost my mom this year March 25 on my way to write government interview, she told me I'll be picked, I thought it was just a normal word of encouragement not knowing it was her final prayers to me. I got the job but my joy wasn't completed. I really wished she was alive for us to celebrate it together after 7years of job searching. Oh what a world I really wanted to take care of her. Sometimes I asked God why I couldn't just have 10secs of conversation with her. She was the best gift to me after my salvation

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by promisedeco(m): 3:21pm On Oct 17, 2021
chatinent:


I can't stop laughing. Mehn, I go like your family..maybe as the older one.
Lol...

If my popsy the share things na the young man de get the lion share. If na my mumsy the share, na me go be boss grin
But las las all of them de give me my way cos of my mum

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Nobody: 3:35pm On Oct 17, 2021
Munzy14:

I do...cheesy

I find it hard to tell him no to his requests..I rather make available at least half..

The bond is thick.

Yeah they usually form a bond with the first born when their parents are no more.

Keep it up.
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by promisedeco(m): 3:37pm On Oct 17, 2021
Queenplum:
Our lastborn can be very annoying. I'm 10 years older than she is and she doesn't respect me. And funniest part is my mum takes sides with her. My dad was very strict on us while growing up. I don't know how that strict side disappeared when my mum gave birth to our lastborn. He plays, laughs and jokes with her which he rarely ever does with us. But I love her sha.
you just described my case grin

My siblings still wonders how our parents would give me money to buy food when we have food in the house.

In fact, everyday my mum wants to buy food na me she go ask wetin we go chop... It was that bad/good grin

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by temmienewells(m): 4:04pm On Oct 17, 2021
LoooooL
Mr Shellsploit, are you into ethical Hacking?
Shellsploit:
Issokay...

Reminds me during the era of fuel scarcity some years ago. i was able to buy 50litres of fuel which i was managing. nepa was acting like demi god..

on that faithful night. they mistakenly brought the light around 11pm and i woke our last born to go switch off the generator which was at the rear end of the building where everyone keeps there generator.

few minutes later, dude came back inside and switched the knife changeover to nepa and he jejely went back to bed..

around 6am, i woke up to do some penetration testing only for me to be hearing the sound of a generator runnin outside.. i was like, hope no be my generator dey on so...

I decided to go outside, lo and behold, dude just removed the supply cable that feeds light fron the generator and the generator has been running all night without any load.

I woke him up and he denied ever waking up and telling him to switch off the generator. I couldn't cry!!!
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Shellsploit: 4:25pm On Oct 17, 2021
temmienewells:
LoooooL
Mr Shellsploit, are you into ethical Hacking?

Retired.

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by excel1960(f): 4:58pm On Oct 17, 2021
We last born are d Best...
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Damseldammie(f): 5:07pm On Oct 17, 2021
Accept my condolences & May God grant their souls eternal rest
Mercychen
post=106772023:

Last borns are always so stubborn.

Our last born ( of blessed memory) was over pampared and spoilt. As in.. you can't touch her. My parents will come for your head.
Even if she hits you first, they'll still take sides with her.

If she's angry, she can throw a knife at you and my parents will still not see anything wrong in it.

It's so unfortunate we lost her. cry. After we
We lost mumsy, the shock was too much for her. She couldn't cope without mumsy.

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Makschinchin: 5:13pm On Oct 17, 2021
chatinent:


Make I send the Aza?

Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by oshorstan(f): 5:16pm On Oct 17, 2021
Last born wahala too much abeg...

Mine is cool Sha, he is now mature.

God bless you Osemudiamen Omigie Divine.
I love you to the Moon

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by chatinent: 5:31pm On Oct 17, 2021
promisedeco:

Lol...

If my popsy the share things na the young man de get the lion share. If na my mumsy the share, na me go be boss grin
But las las all of them de give me my way cos of my mum

Lol
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Nobody: 5:52pm On Oct 17, 2021
When they become adults, they are uncontrollable. Our last for house dey over 28,and the guy no dey hear anything advise.
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Munzy14(m): 7:12pm On Oct 17, 2021
Mercychen:


Yeah they usually form a bond with the first born when their parents are no more.

Keep it up.
True.
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by LadyGazelle(f): 7:16pm On Oct 17, 2021
Once upon a time I was the last born and I was pampered like mad (I'm older than my immediate jnr bro with like 13years).

I remember when my dad would wake others for morning devotion and leave me to wake whenever I like. Or is it the fact that he made my siblings do my laundry for me till I was about 12/13 years cheesy

I'm still the only child that my parents got a phone for and was giving me constant recharge card money....my older ones all had to Hussle for themselves cheesy.

I was the deputy Jesus at home, to get something from my dad you had to go through me.

Or is it when my dad would wake me up from sleep to eat meat?

I was the daughter my dad seriously prayed for, so even though I'm no longer the last born I'm still my dad's favorite.

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Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Gfh1: 7:34pm On Oct 17, 2021
Pampered
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by coolhumble(m): 7:47pm On Oct 17, 2021
Last born spotted grin





PuZZyNegro:


Leave last borns alone Mr.
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Eileene(f): 8:42pm On Oct 17, 2021
[Always handsome/beautiful, intelligent, tall and get the opportunities other siblings never had. We leverage on the mistakes of older siblings and make better alternative choices[/quote].

The above is so true I am a living testimony of this.Life of a last born is sweet sha I will chose it over and over again.The leverage it gives for one
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Jaybee3455(m): 9:05pm On Oct 17, 2021
Hyerin:


I've transcended time itself
shoot me a PM let's talk
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Nobody: 9:09pm On Oct 17, 2021
Jaybee3455:
shoot me a PM let's talk

No thanks.
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Jaybee3455(m): 9:11pm On Oct 17, 2021
Hyerin:


No thanks.
I don't blame you
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Jaybee3455(m): 9:12pm On Oct 17, 2021
LadyGazelle:
Once upon a time I was the last born and I was pampered like mad (I'm older than my immediate jnr bro with like 13years).

I remember when my dad would wake others for morning devotion and leave me to wake whenever I like. Or is it the fact that he made my siblings do my laundry for me till I was about 12/13 years cheesy

I'm still the only child that my parents got a phone for and was giving me constant recharge card money....my older ones all had to Hussle for themselves cheesy.

I was the deputy Jesus at home, to get something from my dad you had to go through me.

Or is it when my dad would wake me up from sleep to eat meat?

I was the daughter my dad seriously prayed for, so even though I'm no longer the last born I'm still my dad's favorite.
how old are you now
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by capnies: 9:25pm On Oct 17, 2021
chatinent:


Sorry about your loss.

I believe we'll see them again.

YES AT THE RESURRECTION; BUT SOME WILL RESURRECT TO DIE AGAIN
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by LadyGazelle(f): 9:35pm On Oct 17, 2021
Jaybee3455:
how old are you now

Old enough
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by Jaybee3455(m): 9:35pm On Oct 17, 2021
LadyGazelle:


Old enough
kindly drop your WhatsApp or mailbox let's talk
Re: Share Your Crazy Experiences With Last Borns by LadyGazelle(f): 9:37pm On Oct 17, 2021
Jaybee3455:
kindly drop your WhatsApp or mailbox let's talk

No thanks

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