Justbehave:
Lol. Miss logical thinking. Arguing with some of you here can make a sane man go insane.

You're insane, believe me and that's why you're still quoting me.

silent10:

You called this logical "The guy refused, probably citing that he told her they should use protection, and maybe probably tries to deny the pregnancy, the girl tells her family, they must have probably called guy man and her refused to should up, hence, they showed up with the police"... That's assumption, which might not be true.
You're much more unintelligent than i thought.

Yawn, it seems you're newly introduced to the word "unintelligent"... See the way you're sweating...

Doradorwa:
You're insane, believe me and that's why you're still quoting me.

Ok. You win. I forgot you are still hurting because you are still yet to locate the man that you think is your father. Ekpele Oo.Bye.

Doradorwa:
Yawn, it seems you're newly introduced to the word "unintelligent"... See the way you're sweating...

I keep repeating it to see if you'll realise how dumb and irrational you sound. To even think you said you're liberal is laughable

silent10:

I keep repeating it to see if you'll realise how dumb and irrational you sound.

I'm having breakfast/lunch now, please have a sit, let us dine

Doradorwa:
I'm having breakfast/lunch now, please have a sit, let us dine

I appreciate the offer, but no, thanks

Doradorwa:
If the girl was so stupid to Bleep without protection, why was the guy also stupid to continue fucking her without protection?.... They are both irresponsible adults, let them sort their problem by themselves.

You just agree that the two of them are stupid.

So, how come you put the blame on just one person when the two are guilty?

Doesn't that make you a hypocrite?

effort1:


You just agree that the two of them are stupid.

So, how come you put the blame on just one person when the two are guilty?

Doesn't that make you a hypocrite?

me?... Im not blaming the guy... Civil matters like this doesn't need the police... I was just..... Well... It seems I was misunderstood tho...

Pls can I use this for my podcast? This is something a lot of parents needs to know ..

Godoverevery:
Good morning everyone.

There is a matter in which I think is high time we actually talk about.....Why is unpregnancy treated like is a man crime.

Over the weekend there was a serious commotion at my end....one my boys who work for me at my farm was arrested on Saturday morning.....is offence/crime he (impregnated/got a girl pregnant...A very useless statement to me).

The lady family got him arrested for this.....for a long time alot of girls father/family do this act because the women play this victim card and fool men into seeing unpregnancy as solely the man fault.

A lady will tell a guy she doesn't want condom or like condom....some will even beg you to sex them and when pregnancy happens they turn saint and you start hearing very disgusting statement like.
1. He impregnated the poor girl
2. He got the girl pregnant
3. He has ruined the girl life by sleeping with her.

Why is sex always see as a singular man act
Why is unwanted pregnancy always seen as a crime perpetuated by men.

I went angrily to the police station that Saturday with my friends and we let the IPO know this nonsense needs to stop.....the boy is 23 and the girl is 20 both are adult....how come the girl father got the boy arrested and the left his daughter.

We couldn't get him out on Saturday and was told to come this morning......it was a full blown war at police station because the girl father was insisting the boy shouldn't be released while the police were telling him the boy committed no crime in fact me and the man almost punched ourself...He was released after paying 7k and the issue to be resolved among the two families.

He threaten to kill the boy that he impregnated his daughter while am telling him they both had sex which resulted in pregnancy and he should direct the anger to his daughter.
Everyone does that nonsense of actually making unanted pregnancy looks like a man crime and give the lady free passage as the victim.

Right in front of us this boy told us the girl always say she wanted to get pregnant and will be angry anytime he ejaculated out but now she doing like saint.

Am not supporting unwanted pregnancy.....condom is cheap but ladies needs to stop making it look like men just put babies in them while they were just walking on the road.

Alot of single mother do this thing.....they blame the men for everything that happens.

The result of sex is pregnancy......sex is an act perform by two human beings.
please blame them equally when unwanted pregnancy happens...thanks.

Godoverevery:
Good morning everyone.

There is a matter in which I think is high time we actually talk about.....Why is unpregnancy treated like is a man crime.

Over the weekend there was a serious commotion at my end....one my boys who work for me at my farm was arrested on Saturday morning.....is offence/crime he (impregnated/got a girl pregnant...A very useless statement to me).

The lady family got him arrested for this.....for a long time alot of girls father/family do this act because the women play this victim card and fool men into seeing unpregnancy as solely the man fault.

A lady will tell a guy she doesn't want condom or like condom....some will even beg you to sex them and when pregnancy happens they turn saint and you start hearing very disgusting statement like.
1. He impregnated the poor girl
2. He got the girl pregnant
3. He has ruined the girl life by sleeping with her.

Why is sex always see as a singular man act
Why is unwanted pregnancy always seen as a crime perpetuated by men.

I went angrily to the police station that Saturday with my friends and we let the IPO know this nonsense needs to stop.....the boy is 23 and the girl is 20 both are adult....how come the girl father got the boy arrested and the left his daughter.

We couldn't get him out on Saturday and was told to come this morning......it was a full blown war at police station because the girl father was insisting the boy shouldn't be released while the police were telling him the boy committed no crime in fact me and the man almost punched ourself...He was released after paying 7k and the issue to be resolved among the two families.

He threaten to kill the boy that he impregnated his daughter while am telling him they both had sex which resulted in pregnancy and he should direct the anger to his daughter.
Everyone does that nonsense of actually making unanted pregnancy looks like a man crime and give the lady free passage as the victim.

Right in front of us this boy told us the girl always say she wanted to get pregnant and will be angry anytime he ejaculated out but now she doing like saint.

Am not supporting unwanted pregnancy.....condom is cheap but ladies needs to stop making it look like men just put babies in them while they were just walking on the road.

Alot of single mother do this thing.....they blame the men for everything that happens.

The result of sex is pregnancy......sex is an act perform by two human beings.
please blame them equally when unwanted pregnancy happens...thanks.

Thanks for defending the guy. Is high time we start changing some certain mentalities.

Purposefulvoice:
Pls can I use this for my podcast? This is something a lot of parents needs to know ..

Yes you can

Doradorwa:
Not all single mother is a case file of unwanted pregnancy or mistake pregnancy. And I'm a liberal person, I say things the way I see them... The guy knew well that the girl would get pregnant, why not leave her? They are both guilty and the guy is also playing victim card. He's tossing on people's emotions too... Let them sort themselves out.

Madam you're not saying things as you see it, you're one sided, all this your comment is on the boy, you blame him for not wearing condom and you still blame him for knowing that the girl will be pregnant, you also blame him for not leaving the girl, again you blame him for playing victim card, in all you didn't blame your gender, Nigeria women and blame game

Patriarchy has many downsides; this is just one of them. Part of this structure makes it somewhat legal and socially acceptable that men will pay for sex even when women derive pleasure from the exercise as well. We have been culturally socialised to view sex as if it's an activity men alone engage in or exert absolute control, and almost always leaving out the role of the womenfolk.

The practice of putting the blame on men whenever an unwanted pregancy occurs will not end anytime soon, because while everyone knows the boy committed no crime, yet the police who were supposed to protect his rights -- by telling the disappointed and visibly angry man to explore dialogue as a tool to settle the dispute -- had him incarcerated for days, simply because they are criminally disposed to exploiting and monitising human rights violations in Nigeria.

mrblessed:
Patriarchy has many downsides; this is just one of them. Part of this structure makes it somewhat legal and socially acceptable that men will pay for sex even when women derive pleasure from the exercise as well. We have been culturally socialised to view sex as if it's an activity men alone engage in or exert absolute control, and almost always leaving out the role of the womenfolk.

The practice of putting the blame on men whenever an unwanted pregancy occurs will not end anytime soon, because while everyone knows the boy committed no crime, yet the police who were supposed to protect his rights -- by telling the disappointed and visibly angry man to explore dialogue as a tool to settle the dispute -- had him incarcerated for days, simply because they are criminally disposed to exploiting and monitising human rights violations in Nigeria.

You are the only sensible, logical, sane comment so far here, instead of others to direct their grievances and blames to the appropriate persons involved, they directly and indirectly made it a gender thing with an unnecessary back and forth, as expected anyway.