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Dear Mamette,
Thank you so much for your Column.
My present Boy friend proposed[marriage] to me just last week and when I informed my family about the good news,
my elder sister who is married with 2 children,informed me that she had a fling with the guy [my BF]about 6years ago before her marriage and for this reason i should not marry him.
Please advice me as I am so much in love with him and going to say Yes.

BIMOWO:

Dear Mamette,
Thank you so much for your Column.
My present Boy friend proposed[marriage] to me just last week and when I informed my family about the good news,
my elder sister who is married with 2 children,informed me that she had a fling with the guy [my BF]about 6years ago before her marriage and for this reason i should not marry him.
Please advice me as I am so much in love with him and going to say Yes.

Bim,
I think the important part of this whole thing is for you to have a close talk with your Boy friend on this issue and find out why he never mentioned his past sex relationship with your elder sister.
If I must be frank with you, a man who flirts with two sisters lacks self control and would be a poor marriage material. Girl if he confirms your fear run for dear life before you open your heart any further to him to destroy.

why do a lot of male nlers always give this only piece of advice on almost every relationship or marital matter:

"always test drive (your SO) before marrying "




just curious, are they really of the opinion having sex before marriage is the most important thing in any relationship, or they are just speaking from konji.