No long story.

Lol

Savage

From now on i told myself never to give a bitchhh my hard earned money, she must work for it. That was how my ex gf called me a stingy guy all because i stopped being foolish all in the name of one motherfuccking love, no love bro, work hard and provide for your family, leave bittches alone, if not they are going to bring you down with their stupiid behaviours and blame you later for been foolish

My 2cent
Shikena

better style

To be honest, giving ladies money, especially Nigerian ladies. Is a big waste. What you gave yesterday no longer counts today.


If you want to see their true nature, decline their request 2 to 3 times in a row, don’t make promises but decline outright, tell them you don’t have. The communication will reduce drastically. They will shift the focus to another SIMPson that will fall for their trick. This is no different from what fraudsters do.

Carchoice:
To be honest, giving ladies money, especially Nigerian ladies. Is a big waste. What you gave yesterday no longer counts today.

No be lie. The crazy twist is that most ladies value what a man gives over the sacrifice he makes...

Simply put, a typical naija girl will value a man who gives her 1M out of his billions than a guy who gives her 100k out of 150k he has home and away.

So why should any man kill himself trying to satisfy a lady when she is most likely to cut your call just to answer a guy that gives her more regardless of the sacrifice you made?

This is why I tell men to give ladies only what they can afford so that at the end it won't be too painful if the lady disappoints.

This is so beautiful. This is called TKO in boxing.

All these broke boys on here. Maybe sēun should make nairaland a paid site so that you people will reduce.

Carchoice:
To be honest, giving ladies money, especially Nigerian ladies. Is a big waste. What you gave yesterday no longer counts today.

the act of giving is something you men should learn.

You should give to your women if you have, you could ignore the giving if she felt its her right to collect from you.
It may necessarily not be money, you could also give gifts like bracelet.

Currently, my man gives to me, I always give him gifts too, though he gives more due to his financial muscle.

You shouldn't be a miser cos she is a lady.

Modified
To those of u shouting boxers and singlets, nope its not boxers.
I do buy shirts, sneakers, cologne and wristwatch,
And no, he hasn't bought me an IPhone, I buy my phones myself.

Lolz

Richywiz:
the act of giving is something you men should learn.

You should give to your women if you have, you could ignore the giving if she felt its her right to collect from you.
It may necessarily not be money, you could also give gifts like bracelet, most people give money cos they don't know what to buy for their women.

Currently, my man showers me with gifts, I always give him too, though he gives more due to his financial muscle.

Sometimes I just see something which I feel will be good on him and I buy it for him. You shouldn't be a miser cos she is a lady

Most guys do all you wrote. the embolden is what I'm referring to.

And I hope it's not only boxers and singlets you buy for him cos that is the typical gifts of Naija ladies to their men...

Toks2008:


No be lie. The crazy twist is that most ladies value what a man gives over the sacrifice he makes...

Simply put, a typical naija girl will value a man who gives her 1M out of his billions than a guy who gives her 100k out of 150k he has home and away.

So why should any man kill himself trying to satisfy a lady when she is most likely to cut your call just to answer a guy that gives her more regardless of the sacrifice you made?

This is why I tell men to give ladies only what they can afford so that at the end it won't be too painful if the lady disappoints.

Giving in a relationship should be mutual. I don't believe there should be anything too big to give in a relationship. There's a background work that needs to be done first. If you look hard and well enough to get yourself a good girl, nobody will school you what to give or not to give her. You will be pleased with her such that you can do anything for her because you would have seen that she can travel the world on foot for you too. You deal with yourselves with an open mind, no inhibitions. Such partners are scarce but I insist, they still exist. Redirect that energy into looking for them.

There's nothing I can't do for my partner, absolutely nothing cause he's selfless with me too.

So some guys still get time for Girls ? I have moved on if you like fine reach Mami water . I no dey see you . Economy rough I'm building myself. In Mosdii voice those people are very useless .

Ok

I don't get involve with prostitutes, I careful about the time of ladies I approached, never dated a non virgin before.

Vagina gender!

Thanks to social media men are getting wiser!!!!

Me at party approaching every single ladies

Dawson : Hey beautiful, can I buy you a drink?

Random babe : sure why not,

Dawson : Sorry I'm fuvking with you..I won't get paid until next month

Ok sir

Men, you are only entitled to your wives. Any side chick should get no entitlement other than banging, ice cream, shawarma and tfare.

Great weekend guys

Nice, but note that this approach is only for those that are looking for wife material not for Hit and run drivers.

Entitlement mentality of some people is world class!

Me wey I don wise tey tey

siofra:
All these broke boys on here. Maybe sēun should make nairaland a paid site so that you people will reduce.

Then you won't be a member obviously.

Richywiz:
the act of giving is something you men should learn.

You should give to your women if you have, you could ignore the giving if she felt its her right to collect from you.
It may necessarily not be money, you could also give gifts like bracelet, most people give money cos they don't know what to buy for their women.

Currently, my man showers me with gifts, I always give him too, though he gives more due to his financial muscle.

Sometimes I just see something which I feel will be good on him and I buy it for him, other times i buy things for myself and feel i should buy two and give hime one.
You shouldn't be a miser cos she is a lady

he showers u with gift n in return u pik one thing ones a blue moon to give to him.

broke ass feeling funky

The future is lazy

Lol

Na so, Nigerian women only see Men as a form of poverty alleviation scheme due to the untold economic hardship.....

Highest bidder la'n Je !

Majority of them go wan chill with Yahoo boy than Uber chap or 9 - 5 banker.


The minute you loose your source of income, she's moving ahead ahead to next big fish.

One useless babe wanted to try that shit with me, na fucc we dey fucc....no strings attached...if you want me to pay you for something we both enjoyed, then you are nothing but a prostitute.

Own it with your chest.

Happy birthday brother

95% if not 98% has entitlement mentality!


Immediately guy stops giving , many will not remember good old days again, the relationship bcome toxic instantanta'

What I'm I even saying! Even if the main guy still spending and another one enters with bigger money, the main guy get automatic relegation.