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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by yusluvad(m): 2:40am On Oct 25, 2021
God would uplift and elevate you bro. Am typically your type if I would be real, and my God whom I serve has always been there for me at all time...
Idamond:


I no fit tell person say I no get wen I get, as i dey talk to u now because of giving I never pay my landlord because I use some part of my rent help person..
I'm a type that love given but these one is too much, just these noon someone (my old friend) sent me a message on Facebook I should help him. this my guy is someone i don't chat with but I was surprise when i saw the request message.

I no mention anybody name,so no be mocking.. I just feel heart hunt sey person dey beg me for something persistently even after telling d person my problems...

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by gbagyiza: 2:42am On Oct 25, 2021
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Givers never lack

But give with a sense

You are just like me...I have a good sense of empathy and sympathy...Like giving any day anytime twice on Sunday

But people are advising me to stop or reduce it that giving too much and having pity for people will slow down your success rate...that the likes of Dangote, Stodola and other millionaires at some certain point in their life were all having a heart of stone that is why they were able to succeed

There is nothing wrong with helping those in need. I know some people r not for real when it comes to seeking help, they will cook up lies just bc they want to collect money from someone. But I tell you there r people that need to be helped. These people u mentioned r still helping others either quietly or indirectly. Do the ones you can do n leave the rest to God. I realised that one of the purposes of life is to make an impact on other people's lives. Why will God bless u with this wealth n you go chop am alone, this is greediness. The world will be a better place if we learn how to help the needy. It is well bro.

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Nobody: 3:07am On Oct 25, 2021
Idamond:
Good Nairalanders!

Don't mind my typo terminologies


I don't know if there's anyone facing these some thing..
I feel your pain bro people only call me for money too asides my immediate family no one else calls me for real meaningful things , but that’s how life is Givers never Lack. Take it that you are a dependable fellow and that’s a blessing but know your giving boundaries sha if e no Dey tell them say e no Dey.

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by ensamy(m): 3:09am On Oct 25, 2021
The writer do you want to be like Nigeria that always going to beg for loan or assistance or do you want to t like U.S and China that's always assisting. Choose a side. Or switch side.

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by samnaija: 3:10am On Oct 25, 2021
Pussywar:
A lot of Nigerian people have this mentality of “if you’re not adding anything to my life, I’ll cut you off” and it’s a serious problem and I think it’s why many people seek friendship or any kind of relationship. They just need someone they would put their burden on.

Try not giving. Tell them you don’t have and find out who stays and who leaves.

It's the entitlement syndrome that most Nigerians have, the believe being your friend, family member or pastor/ imam entitles them to always collect. Meanwhile they are buoyant but it is in their nature.

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Lifewasgood: 3:29am On Oct 25, 2021
Stop posting photos on social media and see the begging rate reduce drastically. Don't listen to bullshit givers never lack.

Some of the beggars even have more than you but they see you on social media every now and then and that's the only reason they are begging you.

Try am, don't post any new photo for 3 months and see the beggars reduce cos they will think you've gone broke.

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by schoolboymatt(m): 3:36am On Oct 25, 2021
Mercychen:
You should thank God you are in the position of giving and not the other way around. Or would you want to switch places with them?
Ask those begging, they wish to be in your position. So stop. Complaining.

What you should rather be doing is praying to God to sustain you in that position and increase you to a point where you'll have more than enough to give to the needy.
thank you.
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Grace2Grace(m): 3:39am On Oct 25, 2021
"Givers never lack"
"The hand that gives is always on top"
"Its more blessed to give than to receive "
"Give and it shall be given unto you, even more than you have given shall you receive "
I always say this, giving is a virtue, it is Divinely inspired. There is an inner joy that comes with giving.
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by socialmediaman: 3:49am On Oct 25, 2021
Bannedidiot:
same reason I've stopped posting on social media. It's been going well for me so far. Yes i have fewer friends, but the friends i currently have always stand by me.
The last time i posted something on Instagram 2018 or so. People i haven't talked to in years were coming up to ask for money. I just left anyone that said hi on read. Secondly i have normalized asking people for money first. But i only ask people that the conversation will ultimately lead to billing

Same reason plus insecurity.

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Grace2Grace(m): 3:57am On Oct 25, 2021
Majority of person do there act of giving ( rendering help) by head sense, not because they are inspired Divinely.
That's when you hear people complain or feel bad after rendering a help.
There is a deep sense of spiritual fulfillment that comes with been an instrument or a channel to which God is felt.
God loves a cheerful giver.
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Realiskit(m): 4:04am On Oct 25, 2021
Easier said than done. Be in his shoes, and you will understand him better.
It is good to give but it shouldn't be norm for his friends to be going back for more even when he is facing financial difficulties too.



Mercychen:
You should thank God you are in the position of giving and not the other way around. Or would you want to switch places with them?
Ask those begging, they wish to be in your position. So stop. Complaining.

What you should rather be doing is praying to God to sustain you in that position and increase you to a point where you'll have more than enough to give to the needy.

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by CUMIN: 4:20am On Oct 25, 2021
You should thank God that you are in the position of a giver... Please keep giving but do not over do it... Let your giving comes with kind word.

Please do not forgo or over task yourself to help.

Also learn to distinguish between real demand and fake demand.
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by AdeniyiA(m): 4:35am On Oct 25, 2021
Mercychen:
You should thank God you are in the position of giving and not the other way around. Or would you want to switch places with them?
Ask those begging, they wish to be in your position. So stop. Complaining.

What you should rather be doing is praying to God to sustain you in that position and increase you to a point where you'll have more than enough to give to the needy.

Thank you sis, you spoke my mind on the issue...

He should understand what the Bible meant when it says we should give thanks in all situations, he should thank God most importantly that only the living can give and be approached for assistance

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by placeofallure(f): 4:45am On Oct 25, 2021
Idamond:


I no fit tell person say I no get wen I get, as i dey talk to u now because of giving I never pay my landlord because I use some part of my rent help person..
I'm a type that love given but these one is too much, just these noon someone (my old friend) sent me a message on Facebook I should help him. this my guy is someone i don't chat with but I was surprise when i saw the request message.

I no mention anybody name,so no be mocking.. I just feel heart hunt sey person dey beg me for something persistently even after telling d person my problems...

This month, about half of my income is going into giving I'm just not finding it funny. I guess it's the situation of the country. I tell you, I don't pick some calls, especially the ones that are just numbers. Some people will chat me up, I no dey respond o cause I know what is coming. People are more than desperate these Buhari days. God help us.

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Nobody: 4:54am On Oct 25, 2021
AdeniyiA:


Thank you sis, you spoke my mind on the issue...

He should understand what the Bible meant when it says we should give thanks in all situations, he should thank God most importantly that only the living can give and approached for assistance

You're welcome.
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Help2020: 4:56am On Oct 25, 2021
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Givers never lack

But give with sense

You are just like me...I have a good sense of empathy and sympathy...Iike giving anyday anytime twice on Sunday

But people are advising me to stop or reduce it that giving too much and having pity for people will slow down your success rate...that the likes of Dangote, otedola, and other millionaires at some certain point in their life were all having a heart of stone that is why they were able to succeed
You're like me brother. Even my family members do always tell me to reduce my giving if I want to be more successful. But believe me bro,by giving you'll attract my blessing to yourself..
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by princewarri1985: 4:57am On Oct 25, 2021
Idamond:
Good Nairalanders!
Don't mind my typo terminologies

I don't know if there's anyone facing these some thing..
You mean you dont have the ''NO" button on your phone keyboard??

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by cardoctor(m): 4:58am On Oct 25, 2021
Stingy person. Just peay God doesnt do the same o you.
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by abbeyty90: 4:59am On Oct 25, 2021
The funny thing is that some of these people begging you for monry have fatter account balance than you,

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by EmekaBlue(m): 5:18am On Oct 25, 2021
Walahi. Not even comfortable posting on WhatsApp status again. Once you post someone in your contact especially ladies will be like find me something

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by DUNKA(m): 5:21am On Oct 25, 2021
Idamond:
Good Nairalanders!

Don't mind my typo terminologies


I don't know if there's anyone facing these some thing..
just say NO
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by victorazy(m): 5:23am On Oct 25, 2021
Idamond:
Good Nairalanders!

Don't mind my typo terminologies


I don't know if there's anyone facing these some thing..

By now you should have known your destiny.

Your not receiver BUT a giver, destiny helper, A PHILANTHROPIST.

Signs:
1. Sometime they come from poor families.
2. They suffers
3. People hardly dash them money
4. They hardly make profit from selling
5. No man on earth can kill them
6. People believes they are buoyant.
Etc.

All you need to do is to ask God to bypass every protocols and make you whom He want you to be. They no dey run from it grin

Remember one Lucky Dube's songs
"Blessed is the hand that giveth, than the one that taketh" grin
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by lonelydora: 5:35am On Oct 25, 2021
Idamond:
Good Nairalanders!

Don't mind my typo terminologies


I don't know if there's anyone facing these some thing..

This was exactly the reason I stopped using Instagram

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Capeverde: 5:39am On Oct 25, 2021
Help hoodlum destroyed my building project

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aPZ_bni2gQM
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by redcliff: 5:42am On Oct 25, 2021
richidinho:
Give them another opportunity they ll still vote Buhari for third term and resume begging immediately


my exact same thoughts. anybody wey ask me for money, i dey talk politics with them, if i know they voted Buhari, i tell them pump and plain that i cannot help them because they are Buhari supporters.
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by holusormi(m): 5:52am On Oct 25, 2021
Mercychen:
You should thank God you are in the position of giving and not the other way around. Or would you want to switch places with them?
Ask those begging, they wish to be in your position. So stop. Complaining.

What you should rather be doing is praying to God to sustain you in that position and increase you to a point where you'll have more than enough to give to the needy.

You are not a very bright person

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Nobody: 5:54am On Oct 25, 2021
holusormi:


You are not a very bright person

You that is bright, tell me you've never begged in your entire life.

Hypocrites everywhere.

Don't ever mention me again. Ok?

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by hardbody: 5:58am On Oct 25, 2021
Idamond:
Good Nairalanders!

Don't mind my typo terminologies


I don't know if there's anyone facing these some thing..

We are in the same shoes but in all things, I still thank God. I believe he provides for me so I can extend help to others, so no regrets. I will keep helping.

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by seunny4lif(m): 6:00am On Oct 25, 2021
I’m laughing my head here cheesy
OP better learn how to ignore calls and say the word NO.
Even when someone very super closed to me called I go say NO.
Gave someone some money to help him sometimes ago but only for him to called again and saying bla bla. He has been calling for over 6months, I no care because I too get massive money problems for my neck.

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Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by dreu2fine(m): 6:00am On Oct 25, 2021
Idamond:
Good Nairalanders!

Don't mind my typo terminologies


I don't know if there's anyone facing these some thing..
Y did God made u rich?
Even if u send them 2k each it's something
Bros u are not going anywhere
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Obusjames(m): 6:08am On Oct 25, 2021
If you like run leave social media. This day people are going through hardship. Even for street and church people do beg. To sustain, country hard too much. Give if you can
Re: I Want To Quit Friends & Social Media Because Of Too Much Of Financial Begging by Johel(m): 6:11am On Oct 25, 2021
Idamond:
Good Nairalanders!

Don't mind my typo terminologies


I don't know if there's anyone facing these some thing..


We on the same page....I stopped being available to many,both physically and online....No time.

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