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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by IJEYdiamond(f): 6:35pm On Oct 27, 2021
Its common with bush Nigerian men.... and make e be say no be boy... u go hear am...

Lower Animals!! Why u no mention na igbo man.... import and export!!...

Na u know!!

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by cerpvad(m): 6:40pm On Oct 27, 2021
The guy did the right thing. He already knew that you are a time waster so he quickly grabbed the alternative available to him.

Many ladies have taken birth control drugs for a long time and this has affected their fertility. Guys please insist on pregnancy before marriage.
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Saintmary(f): 6:41pm On Oct 27, 2021
[quote author=Oyiboman69 post=107115019][/quote]

E shock you?
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Fantazy(m): 6:53pm On Oct 27, 2021
Don't u think u would have been the one pregnant, if u were not busy trying to consult the Oracle before saying yes.

Anyway, someone else didn't waste time like u
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by yetunsbay(m): 6:54pm On Oct 27, 2021
Nwachi22:


No Oga. Most of the guys in this forum di egwu.
Eeyah u must have met with bad guys already. I understand
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 7:07pm On Oct 27, 2021
[[s]quote author=cerpvad post=107117126]The guy did the right thing. He already knew that you are a time waster so he quickly grabbed the alternative available to him.

Many ladies have taken birth control drugs for a long time and this has affected their fertility. Guys please insist on pregnancy before marriage. [/quote][/s]
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 7:07pm On Oct 27, 2021
[s]quote author=cerpvad post=107117126]The guy did the right thing. He already knew that you are a time waster so he quickly grabbed the alternative available to him.

Many ladies have taken birth control drugs for a long time and this has affected their fertility. Guys please insist on pregnancy before marriage. [/quote][/s]
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Atolu01: 7:09pm On Oct 27, 2021
Hmm.

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Calitoscassius(m): 7:09pm On Oct 27, 2021
Evercurious:


Lol.Oga you again? You ve got so much stories to tell as per women ooh..Haabaa!! Only you? lol

It's well shaa
Yes! I have had alot of encounters with alot of women, believe it or not. In Europe and in nigeria. grin from prostitutes, wives, one night stands and female work colleagues. I ve been there done that. Sorry!

Now what i am looking for at the monent is a baby mother a good woman who can have babies for me in nigeria. I am been honest. tongue no need to beat about the bush.i can see that you are a good person and like the way you smile and your comments is matured, funny and i feel like i ve known you for years. tongue you appear as a caring and endearing person. I would like to know you more, please?!. tongue

I would like to meet you also.

What say you? wink
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 7:10pm On Oct 27, 2021
yetunsbay:
Eeyah u must have met with bad guys already. I understand

By their fruits comments, you shall know them.
Most of the guys on Nairaland are terrible.

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Oksman(m): 7:28pm On Oct 27, 2021
MISTAICEY02288:


Damn! This is an absolute K.O... Reeks of sọ much intelligence too.. Bro you badt grin cheesy

And by the way, I also love your command of English language. It's very nice. Kudos!

G-thang brother
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Evercurious(f): 7:29pm On Oct 27, 2021
Calitoscassius:
Yes! I have had alot of encounters with alot of women, believe it or not. In Europe and in nigeria. grin from prostitutes, wives, one night stands and famale work colleagues. I ve been there done that. Sorry!

Now what i am looking for at the monent is a baby mother a good woman who can have babies for me in nigeria. I am been honest. tongue no need to beat about the bush.i can see that you are a good person and like the way you smile and your comments is matured, funny and i feel like i ve known you for years. tongue you appear as a caring and endearing person. I would like to know you more, please?!. tongue

I would like to meet you also.

What say you? wink

Lol.. Oga inside all these your adventures ,i thought you shld be had enough kids? Afterall they are more than 3 life times. Dont you think so?
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Newboss(m): 7:32pm On Oct 27, 2021
Nwachi22:
[s][/s]

Thrash.

Exactly what you're. I see you.

Have fun.
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 7:35pm On Oct 27, 2021
[s]
Newboss:


Exactly what you're. I see you.

Have fun.
[/s]

Your mum you mean. Lol.
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Newboss(m): 7:39pm On Oct 27, 2021
Nwachi22:
[s][/s]

Your mum you mean. Lol.


Too low. Have fun
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by cococandy(f): 7:52pm On Oct 27, 2021
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Any guyman wey insist on say him woman must chop belleful first before marriage,I no go too blame am.... Because the rate at which young ladies of nowadays take dey voluntarily dey offer their wombs to Yahoo boys for fetish reasons reach for any guyman wey get sense to draw that kind rain undecided

Fantazy:
Don't u think u would have been the one pregnant, if u were not busy trying to consult the Oracle before saying yes.

Anyway, someone else didn't waste time like u

cerpvad:
The guy did the right thing. He already knew that you are a time waster so he quickly grabbed the alternative available to him.

Many ladies have taken birth control drugs for a long time and this has affected their fertility. Guys please insist on pregnancy before marriage.

Calitoscassius:
Total rubbish! the guy is a real man, i woulda done the same, i remember one nigerian girl who claimed to be 3 weeks pregnant for me, i was really happy, i wanted the baby, she started asking me to rent flat for her, open business for her, buy her a car. No problemo! I said, i remember giving her 30k just for pocket money. After few day asked her for proofs of the pregnancy she sent me some clinic's paper's. Then i mentioned that i will do a DNA, after 2 days of me mentioning DNA she rang me crying that....... whait for it......


She had a miscariage.


So i don't blame the man. Dey dia de wait for Prince charming to come marry you without been pregnant.


Why do you people support evil? The man clearly had evil intentions for her.
And you all will still have the most to say about single mothers. undecided

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by wonderr(m): 7:58pm On Oct 27, 2021
After marriage He doesn't want to risk going to mountains before getting a child
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Calitoscassius(m): 7:59pm On Oct 27, 2021
cococandy:








Why do you people support evil? The man clearly had evil intentions for her.
And you all will still have the most to say about single mothers. undecided
how did you came to such ridiculous conclusions? cheesy well... isn't she lucky then? that she got away from this baaad! evil man. The guy only wanted to protect himself from scammers.
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 8:01pm On Oct 27, 2021
cococandy:








Why do you people support evil? The man clearly had evil intentions for her.
And you all will still have the most to say about single mothers. undecided

Don’t mind them. World people.

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Calitoscassius(m): 8:06pm On Oct 27, 2021
Evercurious:


Lol.. Oga inside all these your adventures ,i thought you shld be had enough kids? Afterall they are more than 3 life times. Dont you think so?
You are correct! I have only 2 kids that i know of and it is a long story. I will tell you the story when i finally meets you in person. wink you know? I am not a bad guy i just got carried away with my outrageous lifestyle. cheesy i think you and I will get on well. I like you already. tongue


your comments always reeks of hopes and optimisms.

I can give you my personal email or even phone number..

What say you? cheesy
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Joe4real1988(m): 8:09pm On Oct 27, 2021
advanceDNA:


About??
Something meaningful.
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Semaj77(m): 8:29pm On Oct 27, 2021
olabrinks:
So somebody else has agreed to be his wife under his conditions, and you have moved on, so why are you opening a thread about this? At the end of the day If you’re having sex with a guy before marriage, what is the difference if the guy asks you to get pregnant before he marries you? Let’s not be hypocritical here. A lot of us like to act like we are above certain things, when in reality you are just deceiving yourself. Let’s not act like women dont date 5 men at once before they settle down with one. Move on with your life, you’re not better than the girl he impregnated, you’re both the same, just that there’s proof of fornication in her stomach. Ah beg jare.


Nairalanders will not ki me , wetin be "proof of fornication" again

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by BalogunIdowu(m): 8:35pm On Oct 27, 2021
Nwachi22:
Why do guys always insist that a lady gets pregnant before marriage.

Two months ago, I met a guy through a friend of mine who was looking for a wife. The guy insisted that I must take in before he goes to see my parents.

The guys is doing very well in business (importation). I wasn’t comfortable with that idea so I told him to give me sometime to think about his proposal and revert to him, despite the pressure from my family to settle down.

Just found out last week that a lady is two months pregnant for him. You see how I would have messed up my life and career if I had hopped into bed with him two months ago.

A serious person will never say pregnancy before meeting your parents.

Don fall for it! Forget whatever he has

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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Evercurious(f): 8:42pm On Oct 27, 2021
Calitoscassius:
You are correct! I have only 2 kids that i know of and it is a long story. I will tell you the story when i finally meets you in person. wink you know? I am not a bad guy i just got carried away with my outrageous lifestyle. cheesy i think you and I will get on well. I like you already. tongue


your comments always reeks of hopes and optimisms.

I can give you my personal email or even phone number..

What say you? cheesy


2 kids that you know of? Lol.. Does that mean you are nt even sure? Sincerely I wld like to be your friend... You re quite adventurous but that was just too risky...
Send me a message
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by falcon01: 8:52pm On Oct 27, 2021
Kissmyassbiach:


You fools neve fail to compare women to objects.
You should be in the kitchen not here talking Nonsense! Good thing you are a woman you words means nothing to me!
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Qualer: 8:59pm On Oct 27, 2021
Nwachi22:
Why do guys always insist that a lady gets pregnant before marriage.

Two months ago, I met a guy through a friend of mine who was looking for a wife. The guy insisted that I must take in before he goes to see my parents.

The guys is doing very well in business (importation). I wasn’t comfortable with that idea so I told him to give me sometime to think about his proposal and revert to him, despite the pressure from my family to settle down.

Just found out last week that a lady is two months pregnant for him. You see how I would have messed up my life and career if I had hopped into bed with him two months ago.

Where are you at the moment.
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nnewison: 8:59pm On Oct 27, 2021
Nwachi22:
Why do guys always insist that a lady gets pregnant before marriage.

Two months ago, I met a guy through a friend of mine who was looking for a wife. The guy insisted that I must take in before he goes to see my parents.

The guys is doing very well in business (importation). I wasn’t comfortable with that idea so I told him to give me sometime to think about his proposal and revert to him, despite the pressure from my family to settle down.

Just found out last week that a lady is two months pregnant for him. You see how I would have messed up my life and career if I had hopped into bed with him two months ago.

But in your quiet time,you had plan to accept his proposal
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Calitoscassius(m): 9:14pm On Oct 27, 2021
Evercurious:



2 kids that you know of? Lol.. Does that mean you are nt even sure? Sincerely I wld like to be your friend... You re quite adventurous but that was just too risky...
Send me a message
Ofcourse, i am sure, cheesy; what i meant was the 2 that i know of i might have more that i don't know of, i was just been honest.

Well.. life is full with risks and adventures.

Friends is fine, we can start as friends. smiley

I ve sent you a message.
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 9:19pm On Oct 27, 2021
Qualer:


Where are you at the moment.

I dey my village.
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by batb: 9:34pm On Oct 27, 2021
Collysmith:
If i insisted for her to be pregnant before marriage I wouldn't be suffering right now. I don't even know what to do whether to marry another wife because adoption is not in my plan.
1. Have a heart to heart talk with her, telling her how important having children is to you.
2. You should discuss sorogate mother, be it manual sorogacy or medical sorogacy!
3. Weigh your options and if she can conceive, she must allow you to have another family or she move out!
If you don't take these steps to find solutions to problem you have, you will live to regret it.
And if children is important to you, you will be sad you don't have any now and in your later life!
Act Now!
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Ardar(f): 9:43pm On Oct 27, 2021
Nwachi22:
Why do guys always insist that a lady gets pregnant before marriage.

Two months ago, I met a guy through a friend of mine who was looking for a wife. The guy insisted that I must take in before he goes to see my parents.

The guys is doing very well in business (importation). I wasn’t comfortable with that idea so I told him to give me sometime to think about his proposal and revert to him, despite the pressure from my family to settle down.

Just found out last week that a lady is two months pregnant for him. You see how I would have messed up my life and career if I had hopped into bed with him two months ago.

I've had a similar experience like yours. The man's real name is ejike from mbaise but lied and told me his name is frank. He is married with kids but still out there looking for young girls to impregnate under the false pretence of marriage.

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