thanx.i am in love with a guy.we've been datin for quite sumtime.problem now is,we r about to enter a distant relationship.i am going to a school in nigeria without phones and we wudnt be able to see.school name-covenant.he wud be in unilag.i dont know how i'd be able to sustain the relationship witout hitches.on ma part,i wudnt cheat bt wat about him?what i need nw is ur advise.wayz i can keep it going.please help me!!!

To be perfectly honest, you know YOU won't cheat, but you're not so sure about him.

This is something you have to discuss with your man, in great depth, tell him of any concerns you have. If at the end of your discussion, you still have concerns, then my advice would be, to break up. There's nothing that kills concentration at school, more than worrying about what your other half's doing.

I imagine you're quite young, there's lots of time for you to date, when you're more settled, and probably someone closer to you, as far as location goes.

Good luck!

Belive in yourself girl

can you imagine this babe? what do you mean? infact, don't go to your school but go to unilag with him so that you can't cheat on him ok! you never see anything at all at all pls just face your studies

Hey girl, I understand how you feel but the sincere truth is that anything can happen when distsance comes in. Just believe in yourself that wherever and wateva is doing he'll stiil be yours and come back to u.

Do not disturb your studies, concentrate so you can make good grades. If your relationship will work, it will distance or no distance. If your guy will cheat, you may not be able to stop him even if you live with him.

I've said this before, I'll say it again . . . . "Not everyone is doing it!!." From your statements u really have no facts to back your fears up, u 're simply one of the teeming females who lose their minds n' the most precious possesions of theirs to the mindset and message of the world- ". . everybody is doing it", "Men can never be faithful" ,"Don't love with your whole heart 'cs he's definitely fooling around with som'n else. . " Someone is already advising u to break up with your man in the absence of any concrete facts or hard evidence.
  You women lose the war before u've even gotten to the first battleground. What a big shame.

Em i knw wat y'all mean.dnt think i shld be considered a kid.i am very matured.and gettin good grades isnt a problem.i dnt just want to loose this guy.he meanz so much to me,

Just av sex wit him b4 he goes so he will be able to remembr u, mak sure u satisfy him with ur cunt o

Well before u go to Covenant read the thread below:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-67078.0.html

p.s. Long distance relationships dont work

p.s. Long distance relationships don't work

I disagree.  It depends on the parties.  Mine failed: He cheated.  My sister's and cousin's worked out perfectly. 

Jaylinaa
I cringed when I read:

i don't know how i'd be able to sustain the relationship witout hitches.

No one party should bear the entire responsibility of sustaining a relationship.
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i dnt just want to loose this guy.he meanz so much to me,

.  Honey, if he is as into this relationship as you are, then you have nothing to fear.  However it would appear that this may be slightly lopsided.     Please truly speak with him.  Who knows, by so doing you may find he is not all you think you want for the long haul or that your concerns are baseless?  Best of luck in school.