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Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by Sheriman(m): 12:23pm On Oct 30, 2021
I support it. Ladies should start proposing and feel that emotional trauma will guys experience when you reject our proposal
Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by Vanilla4(f): 12:23pm On Oct 30, 2021
Probably yeah, though seems like a guy thing.
Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by UncleJudax(m): 12:26pm On Oct 30, 2021
Angelfrost:
...Or move on to the next available and serious man! Abi men dey scarce??! lipsrsealed
financially stable men who would like to propose are scarce. cheesy

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Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by Raalsalghul: 12:26pm On Oct 30, 2021
pocohantas:
The way una carry women matter for head ehn.

The only thing remaining is to tie double wrapper and start attending August Meeting.

Tufiakwa!

Lol!

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Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by potbelly(m): 12:28pm On Oct 30, 2021
Just like that? cheesy cheesy
Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by overflow1: 12:28pm On Oct 30, 2021
My dear, I wont advise this to my Sister.

If you propose, will you sponsor the wedding?
He may even accept the ring and allow you to wear ur ring till u are tired.

Are you ready to pay for all bill in the family? Because if you start paying, you have started paying.

Can you withstand rejection if he say NO?

He may accept the ring and use it to propose to another girl. Remember you can't cure foolishness.

My dear dont force urself on a man. If he is not serious, he is not serious!

Who neva redi, Neva redi! Period!

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Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by UncleJudax(m): 12:29pm On Oct 30, 2021
SmartPolician:

Will stingy Nigerian girls with a sense of entitlement finance the wedding? undecided
Good question.
Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by realstars: 12:29pm On Oct 30, 2021
ane if a guy dosen't marry you marry him.
Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by toujurs: 12:30pm On Oct 30, 2021
BadRadio:
This is the Jet age, New discoveries are been made because people are deliberately choosing to think outside the box.

In my humble opinion I believe it is wrong to be in a relationship for too long, if you are ready for marriage as a lady and the person you are dating is too relaxed being in that relationship after 2 years without popping the question... you have two options

1. It's either you abandon that relationship and try it with someone else who's more purposeful

Or

2. Propose to him if you really like him and want u both to get married. It's not something to be shy about, life dosent give you what u want, life gives you what you demand. Go ahead and ask for it.

If he turns down your proposal without any cogent reason pls feel free to go.



My 2cents
things are hard, how many graduates earn above 100k, And you know the whole burden is always on the guy, house rent, feeding, health care, school fees and clothing. Including the wife. Financial capacity matters alot to avoid regrets

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Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by buchisom1(m): 12:31pm On Oct 30, 2021
God know I will say yes only if she will pay for everything.

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Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by Lightway: 12:32pm On Oct 30, 2021
pocohantas:
The way una carry women matter for head ehn.

The only thing remaining is to tie double wrapper and start attending August Meeting.

Tufiakwa!

Go and marry
Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by Nobody: 12:32pm On Oct 30, 2021
pocohantas:
The way una carry women matter for head ehn.

The only thing remaining is to tie double wrapper and start attending August Meeting.

Tufiakwa!
grin grin I dey sew igbo blouse in case they're interested grin
Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by pansophist(m): 12:33pm On Oct 30, 2021
Actually women do propose to guys all the time, just that men do not get the message. When she cooks for you, do all her domestic chores joyfully, down for sex in fulfilment to your needs, faithful and committed to you (the ultimate one), then as far as she is concerned, she has proposed.

But if you're expecting a direct proposal, as in kneeling down, with a ring, and asking a man to marry her, women won't do that, and they shouldn't. Equality is not about taking a man's responsibility from him. Because proposing directly to a man is playing his part, which is wrong, because proposing is a promise of a duty.

To propose basically means "I'll play my part to be your husband, will you play yours?" So proposing to a man implies that she should have a house he is moving into, pay groom price, sponsor the wedding and protect and defend him. That's a man's duty, so no, women should not propose to a man. Men please, if a woman does things I've stipulated in the first paragraph, please propose to her.

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Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by Polynek(m): 12:33pm On Oct 30, 2021
Is against the norm of African's it won't be easy for ladies bcox it is not part of our life

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Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by Nobody: 12:33pm On Oct 30, 2021
grin grin grin grin
2ndchildhood:
If you like propose. if the guy is not ready, forget it.. if you don the tay and you see say your man never ready to marry you, my sister japa, before you turn, not just evening, but midnight news paper..
Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by sofiscatedmoron: 12:34pm On Oct 30, 2021
Nigerian girls are not better than imbeciles
If they see a guy they admire, they would rather die in secrets than to approach the guy,,

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Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by Morinahooker: 12:35pm On Oct 30, 2021
Nope
Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by Stankovic22: 12:35pm On Oct 30, 2021
Shey after proposing she will be the one to fund the wedding? Oni yeye
Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by Opeyemiextra(f): 12:35pm On Oct 30, 2021
Every relationship is unique and works differently. I don't think a single rule will apply for everyone. My friend dated for about 8 years before they got married in 2018. Although I must admit it could strain the relationship.

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Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by IMAliyu(m): 12:35pm On Oct 30, 2021
"I yearn for true gender equality" - kazuma
Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by Nobody: 12:36pm On Oct 30, 2021
More like saying she should get ready to fund the wedding. This economy is not helping most single guys.
Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by Nobody: 12:38pm On Oct 30, 2021
Qatar2022:

What if he is not ready
How can he not be ready after 2years... it can only be selfish of him if he does not think about the interest of his partner. The real drive or essence to be in a relationship is marriage. A guy should be ready before dating, not dating and waiting to be ready. You cant be test-running with a lady while wasting her time.

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Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by Nobody: 12:42pm On Oct 30, 2021
Guys, pls respect ONLY the girl you disvirgin. If a non virgin propose to you, quickly reject her because she's a curse to her children: born and unborn!

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Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by cbrass(m): 12:43pm On Oct 30, 2021
folake4u:


Them carry am like gala seller. undecided

if they don't carry the matter now you will still complain that men are not caring grin
Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by folake4u(f): 12:44pm On Oct 30, 2021
cbrass:


if they don't carry the matter now you will still complain that men are not caring grin

Abegi, Una too dey overdo.

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Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by iconnecta(m): 12:46pm On Oct 30, 2021
mehnnn
Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by Nobody: 12:46pm On Oct 30, 2021
BadRadio:
How can he not be ready after 2years... it can only be selfish of him if he does not think about the interest of his partner. The real drive or essence to be in a relationship is marriage. A guy should be ready before dating, not dating and waiting to be ready. You cant be test-running with a lady while wasting her time.
You should actually test run a non virgin.
Only a virgin lady should be treated with respect and love. A woman who has slept with a man who is not her husband is a curse to her children: born and unborn!

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Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by McOluOmo: 12:47pm On Oct 30, 2021
grin cheesy
If you propose and i dispose, who's gonna loose?
I'm looking for a virgin girl for marriage






Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind

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Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by Dangrace01: 12:47pm On Oct 30, 2021
pansophist:
Actually women do propose to guys all the time, just that men do not get the message. When she cooks for you, do all her domestic chores joyfully, down for sex in fulfilment to your needs, faithful and committed to you (the ultimate one), then as far as she is concerned, she has proposed.

But if you're expecting a direct proposal, as in kneeling down, with a ring, and asking a man to marry her, women won't do that, and they shouldn't. Equality is not about taking a man's responsibility from him. Because proposing directly to a man is playing his part, which is wrong, because proposing is a promise of a duty.

To propose basically means "I'll play my part to be your husband, will you play yours?" So proposing to a man implies that she should have a house he is moving into, pay groom price, sponsor the wedding and protect and defend him. That's a man's duty, so no, women should not propose to a man. Men please, if a woman does things I've stipulated in the first paragraph, please propose to her.

Chairman

The issue is what if the woman is pretending in all of the first paragraph you wrote?

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Re: If A Guy Doesn't Propose After 2 Years Of Dating, Propose To Him by PrimadonnaO(f): 12:48pm On Oct 30, 2021
I disagree.

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